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Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience specializing in sex therapy, holding bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University and a master’s in counseling psychology. Working alongside her husband, Xander, she provides practical tools and courses to help couples strengthen their relationships and enhance intimacy through their platform, Vanessa and Xander. 

A New York Times bestselling author of "Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life," Vanessa has been featured in outlets like The New York Times, O Magazine, and Harper’s Bazaar. 

She co-hosts the "Pillow Talks" podcast, offering advice on sex, relationships, and communication, and has amassed millions of views on her YouTube channel, debunking myths and promoting healthy discussions.

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Jason

This is a killer episode!

Zib

Fantastic interview Shawn!! Thank you!! As a single female looking for a best friend/lover... this is really valuable information to enter a relationship with!!

Tee Lock

This was a really great episode with very helpful suggestions too ...and her stats were spot on ... the dynamic she talked about hit close to home. Great interview! Also stoked that my question was picked to be asked! Yay!

CastleRockDad

I will never look at steamed broccoli the same way again. ;) Seriously though, great episode and amazing insight!

Steve Dahl

So Shawn and Crew I gotta say I've listened to literally 100s of hours of your show. I always love your guest choices the variety from Opperators to Founders to some Cooky ones. I gotta say Vanessa was way outta the "normal" guests you have on, but wow what a great episode. Shawn you did a great job as a Man and interviewer. I'm sure some of your base didn't appreciate the content, but I know I did, even shared it with my wife, I mean come on who doesnt wanna get laid more. Just wanted to share afew words of encouragement, keep up the good fight, God bless You and yours.

Jo

Thanks for a great show. I heard some stuff id never heard before. Learned some great things we're already doing. I sent this to my husband. 😀

Rebekah Merwin

Too bad none of this is biblical ..... I really wouldnt recommend taking relationship advice from someone that divorces it from Scripture. So much of this is in direct opposition to Biblical principles.

Carlos Toro

Amazing conversation!!! Super fun and very informative. Thank you!!!!

abraham lauze

Don't forget just when you think you got your woman figured out she hits menopause, and then the whole game changes. Just something to look forward to fellas.

10-2 Loud & Clear

So now, how do we get our spouse to watch this? When suggesting I really think she should watch, I got the "I bet you do" 🙄🙄🤷‍♂️

Kristin Skow

Great episode!! Well done. Thank you.

Justin Larson

This was a knockout episode at first I was wondering what is Shawn thinking having this on his podcast? Turns out it’s got me thinking about some of the stuff that I do and it was rather eye-opening. What a great episode. I look forward to more like this.

Mike Williams

Applying a lot of the things she is saying sound great, until you realize she and Xander don’t have kids. If you have young kids, a lot of what she says just isn’t realistic.

Jeff Ashley

Great episode! Currently single so this helps me out alot

Tee Lock

I'll tell her for you if it helps. I wanna see more marriages succeed - I hope she watches because I learned about how I could improve too.

weighthead84

You should have Karyn from the Happy Wife School on. Her work with men and women is exceptional. She will come at this topic from a different perspective, but very much on point.

North West Dan

Wow thank you so much for taking on this topic. I have been married 35 years and we work on our relationship a lot and this topic is so important. I do not have all the answers and I find this interview helpful.