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Hello my fellow diners. As some of you may notice I’m been a little silent for a bit of time. I just wanted to let you guys know that the chef is okay but I have been dealing with a lot of family drama.

I’m not going to get into details but it has been going on for a week and it’s a bit overwhelming. Don’t worry~ things have calmed down a lot since it has started so thank goodness.

With that being said today was my first day to feel a moment of peace and I was so excited to finish the next chapter. I had my snack ready, my wine and my music it was all perfect annnd I fell asleep while typing. Like I got set up and then I was gone. I didn’t realize how tired my body was because I started typing four hours ago and JUST woke up like 👁️👁️??? What the faq?

I thought I could finish up the chapter now but then I started falling asleep again so I decided to stop so I can let you all know before the sandman kidnaps me again.

I have never had something like this happen before. Usually I can beat the sleep but my body is like turning off the lights on me lol. I guess it’s its way of telling me I need a break.

Thank you so much for all your patience and love and omg I’ve seen comments pop up on my phone and I kind of giggle because I get excited to read them later but I haven’t gotten the chance to.

You know Chef Said isn’t usually this quiet, I haven’t even had the strength to comment on AO3 and Wattpad.

Needless to say, I had to fight off the family drama real quick but unfortunately it looks like I’m going to need one more day to recoup. I hope to post the next chapter tomorrow. It’s pretty much done but I have to go in and touch it up and work my magic.

Again, thank you so much for your patience and when I get back to it I’ll be on a roll again. I was so excited too because I think one week I posted like three chapters lol. I’m finish with my rant but just for a little idea of what has been happening and maybe someone can relate but my mom got into a huge fight when we got together last week and it had created such a wild divide in our family and it almost felt like people were choosing sides. It was one of the worse feelings possible to have so many people trying to blame my mom and I’m just like… what? My mom never blows up so when she does it takes A LOT. People are more upset with my mom because of how she handled it but it’s kind of bull shit to me just because my aunt started it and no one said anything to her and my mom tried but once she finally had enough now she’s the problem?

I’m not sure, perhaps I’m a bit bias since I am her daughter but most of the family was against my mom at first and were really mad at her but once they got the full story they understood so that’s why things started to get better but my mom and her sister haven’t spoke yet so I’m not sure if apologies will happen but my mom seems a lot happier since people are now understanding her side.

Well that’s enough of me yapping, I can hardly keep one eyeball open so let me go rest and once I’m good I’ll finish up cooking.

I know my diners are hungry I’m gonna need to make a big feast to make up for starving you guys. v-v

(Sorry if the message is a little iffy to read I’m like typing this while falling asleep and doing the snort awake type more fall asleep type more thing right now hahaha XD)

~ Chef Sadi 👩‍🍳💋🖤

Comments

msjordyn

we’ll be waiting chef! take all the time you need 🙂‍↕️

Enda

Take your time too cook chef. More so with family drama. The wait will just make it more better. More then happy to wait ❤️

BlessedAtoms444

Get your rest, chef! We’ll be here when you’re ready. And I get being biased about your own mother. I’m 10 toes down behind my mom, ESPECIALLY if she didn’t do anything wrong. 👊🏽👁️👄👁️👊🏽

Dannyslovelydove

Hope you’re doing well now! And sleep good so I can have the BEST chapter slapped in my face 😩

Adri

Get your rest and enjoy some peace ! We’ll be here when you get back, we understand.

zee

We understand, my meal can wait ☺️

Oreo Muffin

It’s ok chef! The best dinners take time! ( ˘▽˘)っ♨

Heaven

It’s ok chef! Take all the time you need~

Anna

Hope you feel better!🫂

Gaz

Girly you could take one month off then post a paragraph and I'd eat it up. You do what's best for you point blank period. ❤️

Gaz

ALSO its fine to be biased towards your mom if she's right duh 🙄

Epika

Take your time chef we here for you!

ALUUS

CCHHEEEFFFFF 💗💓💖💓💓💕💖💓💕💓💗💓💕💓💕💓 your health matters more !!! ABSOLUTELY!!!! take more than just a day break !!!! We do not want you getting burn out !!! We'll always be here !! 💓💓💕💗💗💖💖💖💗💗💕💕💓💓💕💗💖💖💗💓💓💕💖

Laceywacey

Take all the time you need. ❤️

julisef

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF POOKIE

MelonCat

Take care of yourself! It's ok to take a break when we feel overwhelmed, sleep as much as you can 🩷

SadisticKiss

I was ready to fight everyone and their mothers like I was soooo mad 🙂‍↕️

SadisticKiss

I’m so excited for the next chapter it’s really gonna slap you haha 🤣

SadisticKiss

I would DIE if I did that. I need to cook, it’s like my crack haha! But I understand your love for my food and the chef so thank you for this I really appreciate it ❤️.

SadisticKiss

I slept for 12 hours all together I guess I really needed it lol . Thank you ❤️

Via

Please take care of yourself!!! Also my moms the same she does not get angry often so I’d prob feel the same way 🙏🏼

Eris Echo

Take care of yourself chef! take a break, rest lots! Don't worry about us, take all the time you need!

Lady Saiya

I can understand having family issues especially when they aren't on your side when all you're doing is saying your peace. I hope everything works out for your mom and for you. It's perfectly fine to take a break! Your health comes first and foremost. Get some rest and take care of yourself Chef ❤️

Lumi

we completely understand chef! take all the time you need, there's no need to apologize

Bunni

Don’t fight sleep. If you need it and you have the time, use it to sleep. Please, for your health if anything. When it comes to family drama, think about your relationship with the other members and think about your stance in the argument. If you can limit contact with who you can and limit info from who you can’t because know whatever you tell one person they’ll tell the others. I’m sorry you’re going through drama but from someone who dropped almost their whole family and have limited all but 2, trust. Let them hate from outside the club. Family means nothing if they fuck with your mental health and happiness

Xyn

Take care of yourself first and foremost. We can wait patiently and your health and mental wellbeing is WAYYY more important than anything else regardless of how blessed we are when you post. Praying your family drama is fully resolved and there is no bad blood between your auntie and Mom because in this life family matters most. We LOVE YOU MOTHER!!!!!💋🎀😩

Ali Rockich

Rest up chef and take a break if you need to we understand!

SadisticKiss

It’s always the nice ones that usually don’t but when they do it’s usually explosive because I feel like they hold in so much

SadisticKiss

So far people are starting to realize that my aunt can be problematic. She just says mean stuff like in a passive aggressive way so when my mom finally snapped it looked like she was the one in the wrong. Which I guess she didn’t have to explode per se but it was just building up

SadisticKiss

Yes its so sad because I’m just like mom we got us we are the family we make but my mom really wants a relationship with everyone I just feel like they can sometimes treat her differently because they are jealous of her. My nana told me that she feels like my mom doesn’t need her and it hurts her and I’m just like… don’t you want your daughter to be independent? Like it’s just weird stuff

SadisticKiss

Q-Q thank you so much for this, this is why I have to be a great chef so I can feed you 🥹🖤. I hope they can get over this my mom and I have had to cut some family members because they didn’t understand how to treat family :(

Bunni

It’s hard for parents to let go of family. They latch onto small moments that while big to them were merely those who look down on them seem like nothing. There’s a reason narcissists love people pleasers. They can drop crumbs and people pleasers are ok with the bare minimum. It’s sad. And just a warning chef your mom sounds like a giver. It’s not a bad thing but if she comes to complain to you and asks for your advice go ahead and give her some but if she doesn’t take your advice to heart but still comes to complain eventually you have to tell her take my advice or not but don’t tell me your problems when I’ve already given you a solution. My mom was a giver and people would take and take and take from her. Then they’d beef, they’d seperate but when either they or my mom were down and out they’d crawl back to each other. It was toxic and my mom’s problems became mine. It always hurt to see her hurt but if she hadn’t learned to let go my sister and I would have suffered the same as her. I know no contact is too much for everyone to do immediately which is why I always say start with limiting information. When you start noticing all the ways they try to claw but if info out of you shut it down. When they try manipulation, punish them by limited contact. Get dry with responses if you have to. Let them know spending time will be on your terms and if they push back then they get no time. And most importantly don’t fall for pity tactics. Like if a family member is sick and they call for help, help with that family member and go back to no/limited contact. If they pretend to need help go the first time but if they lied drop everything and go no/limited contact again. If you need a reminder what toxic people will do to stay in your life always remember things they have done and think about what they will do. I watch a yt called Boze and she talks about narcissistic people all the time. I recently heard her talk about the narc prayer “That didn’t happen And if it did, it wasn’t that bad And if it was, that’s not a big deal And if it is, that’s not my fault And if it was, I didn’t mean it And if I did, you deserved it.” They all use the same tools and it’s time we realize we don’t need them, they need us