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We never see Starlight Glimmer's mother, so I'm headcanoning that it's none other than Glory, of G1 MLP fame. Glory possessed the extraordinarily rare power to grant wishes! Warmhearted, selfless, clever, and kind, Glory was greatly beloved by her family and community. Her abrupt, unexpected death factored heavily into Starlight's unhealthy and obsessive attachment style (*cough*Sunburst*cough*), as well as the surly rebellious anger that plagued her teen years. Firelight has never gotten over losing his wife, and spent much of Starlight's childhood spoiling her and drowning her with love so she wouldn't be too poorly affected by the loss of her mother.....this did not work. As Starlight is the last fragment of his family, Firelight greatly dreads accepting that she's grown up and doesn't need him as much anymore. 

Starlight meanwhile acts out her longing for a mother by dutifully, almost desperately, playing the role of a mother herself. First to her cult followers, and later to Midnight Abyss. Much like her father before her, Starlight coddles and controls her daughter because she's terrified of being abandoned. Poor Glory remains a ghost that haunts her small family...... and it is after her that Midnight Abyss (Morning Glory) is named.

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Vio_dacreator

What are some examples of Starlights obsessive attatchment styles?

feathermaws

Were her attachment issues ever a problem with her relationship with Subset (or any partner)?

lopoddity

Starlight is insecure in many of her relationships, even in the show. She latched into Sunburst hard enough that his leaving was enough for her to justify forming a cult and straight up trying to murder several ponies. She forms unhealthy attachments to her cult followers and uses brainwashing and intimidation to prevent them from leaving her. She leans hard on Twilight and becomes anxious when Twi isn't around to guide her, often to the point of panic attacks. In my story, her attachment to Midnight is deep but shaky, due to Starlight's fear of abandonment, she tightens her grip around Midnight the further away her daughter pulls. Deep inside Starlight there's a little filly that doesn't understand why her mom had to go away, and this trauma affects nearly all of her relationships.

lopoddity

Yup! It took a LOT of reassurance and bonding to calm Starlight's fears that Sunset was going to get tired of her one day and leave through the mirror portal. Starlight has learned to trust Sunset, but the real glue that bonds them tight is codependency. Their marriage is functional, but it's got cracks underneath, most of which affect Midnight.

Vio_dacreator

Your character dissection of Starlight is amazing! Where did your ideas from did you take like a psychology class? Watch allot of celebrity rehab or something? Podcasts?

lopoddity

Celebrity rehab, ha. XD No, I can't currently afford therapy, so I just do a lot of reading about therapy. I also needed to study developmental psychology to get my teaching degree.

Angsty Ram

Ah... Glory. I can see why Midnight’s name is so much of an issue for Starlight. Doesn’t make it okay in the slightest but I understand that it could be some kind of underlying pain

KaeWolfe

Omg I love this!

feathermaws

That makes sense. Is she still friends with Trixie? And if so why didn’t Trixie go to her for help when she was pregnant? (This might have derailed a bit, I apologize 😅)

lopoddity

Well, namely because I wrote Trixie’s pregnancy arc long before Starlight Glimmer was introduced in the show. But if I had to justify it narratively, I’d say that Trixie is a fiercely proud, yet deeply insecure little pony. It’s likely she felt ashamed of the mess she’d found herself in, pregnant and homeless, and Blueblood casting her out didn’t do any favors for her self esteem. Perhaps she even snubbed Starlight’s concerns about Blueblood to go be with her “true love”, and was embarrassed and hurt that she’d been too infatuated to see Blueblood for what he really was, and that Starlight had been right all along. When Trixie is found and taken in by Maud, Maud spends a long while encouraging her to reconcile with Starlight. Although Trixie is nervous, she agrees, and Starlight of course doesn’t do any of the things Trixie feared she would do, like rub Trixie’s nose in her mistake or chide her. Instead Starlight remains a loyal friend, kind and supportive throughout the pregnancy, and encouraging Trixie when she starts developing feelings for Maud. Starlight and Trixie’s friendship is not perfect (in fact it can be pretty catty and callous), but they always come through for each other in the end.

lopoddity

Her wish-granting magic damaged the magical pathways within her horn and cerebral cortex. Following a holiday festival where Glory cast magic finale fireworks for Starlight and the neighborhood foals, she collapsed suddenly from a brain bleed. Although Firelight and Starlight remained at her bedside, Glory never regained consciousness, and died a few days later.

MyLittleRosie

I really like Glory just by looking at her! She seems so sweet and endearing.

Lory

ruh roh you're giving me ideas about making a "Common ailments" of various species headcanon. Also goddamn wtf that's hella sad, but really good for giving Starlight some "real" baggage. And her dad, in his grief, started overly doting on his precious daughter.

lopoddity

You should! The MLP fan wiki was a butt ton of illnesses listed from the show and comics. They’re mostly pretty cutesy (horsentery, hoof cough, fur blight), but it does make one wonder about the sorts of unique and terrible diseases and afflictions ponies could have.

Lory

Honestly horsentary must be pretty unpleasant but probably very common in the more rural, tropical areas of Equestria where clean, fresh water isn’t readily available.

Nimbose

Oof... Is Starlight refusing to call her daughter by her new name related to this, then?

lopoddity

Yup. She and Sunset took lots of care to pick out the perfect name for their foal....a proud, noble name with meaning significant to both mothers. Starlight is very hurt and upset by Midnight rejecting it, and she and Sunset remain steadfast in their belief that Midnight will come around and accept her name and destiny, once she's done with this silly little rebellious phase.

Colbyr

Midnight Abyss, flipping off God: you really just HAD to give me two MOMS who both had MOMMY ISSUES, didn't you? Never thought this could backfire?

lopoddity

I mean if Midnight’s looking for some variety of the fatherly persuasion, there’s also grandpa Firelight, who is a horrible smothering cuddlebug with boundary issues, and good ol grandpa Sunspot, Sunset’s dad, who is.....not there. Because he divorced Stellar and peaced out when Sunset was young. Free mommy and daddy issues for everyone! :D