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Love Language mod v1- the intro ♡ (Patreon)

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2024-06-06 19:00:06
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I can’t believe my first-ever mod is finally out! I wrote it out in July 2021 hoping the day it could be a mod and the fact it is out now feels so surreal. The five love language mod in The Sims 4! Yes, our sims can now have a love language as a trait. You can buy the trait from the rewards store and it costs 12 points. Once your sim has the trait, you can see it in the simology panel and then your sims will have wants surrounding their trait. I used ALL the packs to create this mod.

What are the wants I will see in the game?

Most of the instructions are already in the game on how to complete the wants

1. Words of affirmation

The charisma skill is important for words of affirmation

  • Compliment outfit *skill 2 charisma*

  • Compliment appearance

  • Brighten day *skill 2 charisma*

  • Flatter *skill 3 charisma*

  • Ask about day

  • Express admiration 

  • Whisper (any whisper social)

  • Profess undying love

  • Pickup line *for couples with high relationship, just have your couple flirt*

  • Sweet talk *skill 6 charsima*

  • Flirt

  • Declare love publicly 

  • Get to know

  • Discuss interest

  • Deep conversation

  • Tell story (any story social)

  • Tell dirty joke *skill 4 comedy and also flirty*

  • Ask a risqué question

  • Write love email *skill 4 writing/ flirty mood*

  • Flirty text *could be regular text too*

  • Heartfelt compliment *happy emotion*

  • Say affirmations

  • Write affirmations



2. Quality Time

  •  Ask about day

  • Watch movie alone or with someone

  • Play Console / PC alone or with someone *skill 4 video gaming*

  • Call someone

  • Chat on computer

  • Cook meal alone or with someone (any meals from all packs)

  • Picnic *spring/summer season*

  • Prepare drinks (any drinks from all packs)

  • Travel

  • Join in cooking

  • Workout *skill 6 fitness*

  • Dance together *skill 3 dance*

  • Pillow fight

  • Teach to knit *skill 10 knitting*

  • Play with sparkler *must be summer/fireworks must be on the property for the want to appear*

  • Video call

  • Watch TV show

  • Take a bath *any bath*

  • Play board games *all table games included*


 3. Gifts  

  • Give gift *friendly, mean, funny or romantic*

  • Give simoleons 

  • Treat yourself or any animal

  • Receive gift *open presents from seasons*

  • Buy something *retail, phone, computer purchase...etc.*

  • Offer rose *gift rose or flower arrangement in inventory/ buy from the flower stall*

  • Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*

  • Give jewelry gift *gemology table*

  • Give a collectible as a gift *dig to find something or buy simmi capsule


4. Acts of service 

  • Call to meal

  • Be called to a meal

  • Make drinks for *use bar*

  • Prepare drinks (any drink from any pack)

  • Order drinks together / solo

  • Cheers *toast from seasons/ my wedding stories*

  • Order food from stall

  • Clean up

  • Repair

  • Give or receive massage *romantic base game social or spa day*

  • Cook (any meal)

  • Donate to charity *skill 3 charisma*

  • Order delivery 

  • Serve tea/ be served tea *object from my wedding stories*

  • Hire a service  (any service)

  • Volunteer *parenthood pack*


5. Physical touch

These wants need sims to have a first kiss to appear. For sims created in CAS as married or premades, they have to woohoo first for the want to appear.

  • Kiss

  • Kiss lover's cheek / family kiss *all sims are included in this interaction*

  • Hug / Embrace *all sims are included in this interaction*

  • Caress cheek

  • Snuggle your lover

  • Give / receive Massage 

  • Look deeply into eyes

  • Feed a bite

  • Slow dance / sweetheart dance *My wedding stories/ High school years*

  • Cozy up by the fire

  • Woohoo (any location)

  • Cuddle while watching movie

  • Make out 

  • Tickle



Credits 💕

  • Thank you, Tee (danitysimmer) for helping me and teaching me all about modding. You are so patient with me and so understanding.. I’ll never forget your kindness. I pray you receive so many blessings in life

  • Jordy, thank you for motivating me to go back and cheering me on when I sent updates

  • My family and friends who cheered me on when I sent updates

  • Zerbu’s mod constructor v5 / Lot51 tuning builder

  • Sims 4 studio / Scumbumbo’s xml injector

  • Cinnasims for the pose I used/pose player mod

  • "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman [Book]

  • Twistedmexi better exceptions

  • My amazing friends who tested this mod out thank you so much!


XML INJECTOR IS REQUIRED!!!!


Optional downloads ♥

UI Cheats Extension v1.41 | Patreon

MiniMod: Re-Roll Wants | Patreon


Video tutorial

Alternate link

For people who don’t use rar


Translations 🫶🏾

Brazilian Portuguese love language mod

French love language mod

Polish love language mod

Ukrainian love language mod

Spanish love language mod

Spanish love language mod


FAQs ღ

1. Why is the mod not appearing for me?

You don't have XML injector mod.


There will be future updates such as moodlets/buffs and love language for children. If you have any issues, please contact me. I will try my best to figure it out. Thanks for downloading and being patient with me. I wish you a lovely day

Take care 🌙


For any modder who wants to translate any of my mods, I don't mind if you upload it on your Patreon or any other website that monetizes, BUT I do not want you to post it on CurseForge. I would also like it if you keep the mods up publicly for download no early access.

Files

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Comments

Amazing Mango

I've wanted a mod like this since FOR.EVER !! This makes me so happpy !! Thank you for making !!

4Hydrolysis4

YASS I've been wanting something like this for a long time! Can't wait to try it out <3

Lost in Sixam

Hell yeah! I've wanted this in the game for AGES!!!

It’s so fluffy

Hi there do I need all the packs to use this mod?

Sasha's Space
>>140633349

I do recommend all the packs for sure, but they should be base game compatible. Some wants may roll if you don’t own the pack ex. Knitting one from Nifty Knitting. I’m not sure honestly bc I own all the packs… what I recommend is using ui cheats to re-roll it or the re-roll wants mod if you experience this💕

Kitt

Hi Sasha! I love the idea of this mod! I've been wanting something like this in the sims for a long time! I think I might be doing something wrong on the download. I have the XML injector and had your mod in my folder, but when I went to my main screen it doesn't show the mod in my list, nor does it show in game. Am I doing something wrong? Please help! I want this mod so bad!

Sasha's Space
>>140947102

Hi Kitt! Thank you so much for the love🫶🏾. Is your wants and fears on in the game settings? That could be the reason.

Kitt
>>140947102

I figured it out! I needed to have winrar installed to extract the files from the rar file style! Thank you so much though for your quick response! I can't wait to play with it! You are so talented!

Fleur du Mal

Hi Sasha! Love it! Thank you very much for this mod 💕 Would you give me permission to make a spanish translation so I can share it with spanish speaking community? Obviously mentioning your patreon. Thanks! 🫶🏾

Sasha's Space
>>141302117

Yes please translate 🥰. Thank you so much. I will add your link to my post when you’re ready 💕

IRIDYSCENZIA

Keep pushing forward! nice job 🏆

Frezja1728

Hi there. I really love your mod. I do Polish translations for TS4 mods and I have also translated your Love Language into Polish. I hope that you like it. Here is the link: https://www.patreon.com/posts/107168215?pr=true. My translator nick is Daisy1728. Have a nice day.

Kiara Wyatt Bradford

watching Fantayzia mod review video... I flew over here to download this! lol thank you love this mod already

RoshySims

Updated Spanish translation on my patreon

Alexandra M

Ahhhh would love to have this mod but the download won't work for me :(

Jojo

Is this mod ok with the new update?

Sasha's Space
>>144378558

Hello, I just found out the mod is on curseforge and I kindly ask you to please remove my mod from there. I don’t support that platform whatsoever and I would never want my mods there. I don’t mind it being on patreon without a paywall and I have already had this written out in the original post. This deeply saddens me to see you post the mod there. I hope you can remove it from that place as soon as possible.

RoshySims

Sorry if I have offended you! It was not my intention to be calm, it is already removed from curseforge, I will have it on patreon with your permission.

Sophia S

hi lovely, this mod looks so exciting and I am so keen to try it. I'm unsure of how to use rar files and was wondering if you had any extractors or if there was an alternate file download method?

S

Thank you SO much for an incredible mod! If not a bother, do you happen to know if it is compatible with Patch 1.109? Thank you so much once again. :)

Sasha's Space
>>150406535

If you want, I’ll release the package files separately for you. I’ll add it as a s4s link in a few hours. I hope your day is amazing Sophia 🫶🏾

Sasha's Space
>>150412220

Hey S! I’ll be honest, I haven’t updated yet 😭. The batch fix has me a bit nervous since my mods folder is 200g. I’m gonna work on updating today and batch fix to see if any of my mods need a DX11 update. Thank you for your message 🫶🏾🫶🏾

S
>>150412220

Thank you! I appreciate it so much. :)

S
>>150412220

Thank you SO incredibly much for this wonderful mod, your time and assistance, and all that you do! <3 Greatly appreciate it.

🎀

hello! just wanted to know how to download the rar file as i always have trouble with those. this mod looks great! :)

faith

is there any way you can make this file not rar?

faith
>>156496352

Can make the file into a package and not a RAR? even the one on simsfile is a rar file which I cannot unzip

Sasha's Space
>>156496352

I posted a link in the post where all the files are separated into packages. It’s below alternate link.

Little L

Hi ! are there any conflicts with other mods that use love interactions and gift-giving? ( Passionate gift from Utopya, Together on a laptop from Utopya, RPO from Lumpinou, More kisses from Maplebell etc...)

Sasha's Space
>>167129110

Hi, I have never heard of this tbh. What is happening for you to feel this way, so I can try to assess this? Are the gift giving wants not appearing at all? Is the want not completing? Also, I’m not sure if Utopya’s gift giving works as a want to complete the in game one which is what I use, but this is a great idea. I’ll try to see if Utopya is open to the idea of me adding their interactions to complete the want for gifts in the mod. Overall Love Language mod is so far wants only and shouldn’t conflict with any mod that has interactions or pie menus since they work differently and use different coding

bookluvrforever

thank you for your wonderful mods! If not a bother, do you happen to know if your love language mod is compatible with march 20 patch 1.113? Thank you so much! :)

Sasha's Space
>>168824635

It should be compatible. My mods are usually on the smaller side, so they don’t break as often. This one once had a “broken” status bc it was waiting for XML to update, so the mod can appear. Movie lover did get an update for DX11 update though 🫶🏾🫶🏾

Magnolia

I tried to use this mod, and also have the xml mod on, however it seems that I can not find the love language anywhere

line Fabris

Hi, I can't download the translation into Brazilian Portuguese.

Sienna Copans

Hi, I downloaded the mod and the traits are working but I can't find any of the interactions. I have two sims whos wants are frozen on kiss on cheek and cozy up by the fire. Is there a certain level of romance or another mod/pack I need for these interactions to work?

Sasha's Space
>>181140441

I’m not gonna lie idk if cozy up by the bonfire needs a pack (will google it), but the interaction should appear when the bonfire is on, and your sim is in the same areas as their love interest. That is when you click on the fire and the interaction will appear** Edit: I looked it up and it is a base game interaction*

nevada

hii i have the injector and its in my mods folder but it doesnt come up in my mods when i load in the game.

Sasha's Space
>>184331945

I have a couple of questions just to see bc I can’t see your game, but did you check the reward store? Are all your XML injector mods working? Is your XML injector updated to the most recent patch? How many folders deep is the mod in? 🩷

Rae

does this still work with the September 18 update?

Ellen Sales

Hi! I loved your mod and decided to translate Love Language into Portuguese so more players can enjoy it. Let me know if you'd like me to share the file with you. 💕

tori 🎐

i need russian translation (((