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I think I'm still sitting with the beautiful weight of this and will be for a while. This film was so much more than I expected. it felt like being gently cracked open in the most honest, necessary way. It was beautiful, aching, and deeply moving. Coming from a broken family myself, there were moments that felt like someone had put my story, and my mother's and maybe even my daughter's future, up on the screen. The generational trauma, the silence, the crouching tiger waiting for her daughter in the shadows, hit so close to home. And through that, I felt this quiet, steady call to do better. Be better. Be softer. Be stronger. To break the cycles for my daughter and for myself. I absolutely loved this film for that. Watching this with the knowledge that this film means so much to Andy made it even more special. Knowing some of his background, and why this was the story he wanted to share with me gave the whole experience an extra layer of care going in. So Andy, thank you so much for using your movie ticket on this one. You couldn't have picked a more powerful introduction. The cultural and emotional depth fo this film is honestly hard to put into words. It holds so much pain, resilience, sacrifice, and beauty. Every woman's story felt like its own world, layered and full of grief and grace. Visually, it was stunning. The colors, the transitions between generations and the expressions. It was all done so beautifully like a book of memories just waiting to be explored and learned from. This was a reminder that healing is possible. That love can be complicated and sharp but still be real. That even when we come from a fractured place, we can choose a different way forward. I'm holding this one close. Thank you for your support on Patreon!Relax and enjoy 🍿🌿LINK: https://youtu.be/Rr_xMTnVAIsI watched this on Amazon Prime

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The Joy Luck Club | Movie Ticket Pick | Watch Along

Welcome in! 🌿 Grab a drink and get settled in! Thank you, Andy! This was such a beautiful movie and one that will be sitting with me forever!

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Andy Jordan

Thank you, Kali, so much for being open to this film, this story, that has meant so much to me since I was a kid. I hope anyone else new to it gets out of it all that you seemed to. Here we go, and I'll check back in afterwards.

Andy Jordan

Wow, that was so wonderful, Kali, seeing you experience Joy Luck for the first time, and my eyes are as misty as yours. Thank you for your openness to this story, and connecting with it as much as you did. I feel like I need to sit with the reaction as much as you did with the film, because it was a whole new experience for me watching it in this way. But I will be curious to see what other people have to say, as well. I believe the actress you recognized was Rosalind Chao, who played the heavenly form of Robin Williams' daughter in What Dreams May Come. And the other actor you recognized was Andrew McCarthy, a member of the "Brat Pack" from the '80s, who was in St. Elmo's Fire, Pretty in Pink, and the Weekend at Bernie's series. He's still working, although I'm not sure what you would've known him from more recently. Thank you again for a wonderful reaction, Kali. It was more than I could've hoped for.

Richard

Kali, your ability to put your thoughts into powerful words never fails to move me. I am simultaneously saddened and yet bolstered by your empathy in relating to these characters. I am so happy you came out the other side mostly whole, and triumphant, and setting a beautiful example for your daughter. 🤱🏻🥹

M1 Maz

Wow. Where to even start. This was my first time watching (or even hearing of) this movie, and what a journey it was for me. One that was, like yours, deeply personal. And I found a lot of it very uncomfortable to watch, because of my own history, which I've talked about before. But not a bad uncomfortable. Because we sometimes need stories like these to unlock that door and reflect on things that we have tucked away to avoid thinking about. To use stories like this as a reminder of our growth, and of our continued path ahead. From the opening words, I got a feel of what I was going to be in for, and was so invested through the whole thing I have so much I want to say, and reflect on each story told through this movie, that I'm left searching for a concise way to lay it all out. So I think I'll narrow it down into one central theme: Realization. Reflecting on the parents in this movie, and the daughters, our own families, and even ourselves; there's so many parts of our lives that we're living on autopilot because of the conditioning of our pasts or from those around us. Those dark roots that have spawned from seeds planted against our will taking hold. But the moment we realize is the moment we begin to heal. And begin purging that darkness from our minds. It isn't always perfect, and we have our ups and downs still, like you said in the outro, but it's the start of the path that leads us to a brighter place Thank you Andy for this pick! And like so many other movie tickets too, for introducing me to a movie that I likely wouldn't have otherwise watched. This is one that'll stick with me, and definitely get a rewatch in the future since there's still so much to think on

Javo Vargas

I would have loved to see this reaction from you. It's a shame this title isn't available in my country, but I saw it a few years ago and I think it's an extraordinary film. I hope to see your reaction in YouTube, as I'm curious to know your opinion and reaction to this excellent film. Regards

Andy Jordan

I'm so glad you got as much out of it as you did, Maz. I always like to say before there was Crazy Rich Asians, there was The Joy Luck Club. And I understand there is likely a Joy Luck Club 2 in the near future, with the original surviving cast to return and a screenplay by original novelist Amy Tan that everyone loves. I highly recommend the novel as well, if you're interested (still proud to have my first edition). "Dark roots that have spawned from seeds planted against our will taking hold" - you have a lovely way with words, my friend. And I agree. The Movie Tickets have been awesome. Great choices by all, and Gardens of Stone and Gifted were both first time watches for me, too. I'm very much looking forward to the next time they become available. Thank you for sharing your experience. Cheers, Maz!

kaliwali

Thank you so much for picking this beautiful film! I totally get what you mean about needing to sit with it afterwards. There's a really quiet, emotional power in this film that stays with you for a bit after. And thank you for helping me with the actors! Rosalind Chao- that's exactly who I was trying to place from What Dreams May Come! And Andrew McCarthy! That makes perfect sense now. I haven't seen any of the movies you mentioned yet, but I have seen him in clips/memes from Weekend at Bernie's! I'll have to watch those films sometime, they look very fun! I see a few others were also very touched by this pick! This film opens the door to so many personal reflections and I was super thankful for that.

kaliwali

Thank you so much for sharing this! I had a feeling that you would be just as moved by this film as I was since we both had intense upbringings. This film really does invite a kind of reflection that can feel a bit uncomfortable and real. But in a super necessary way that feels almost sacred. Like it's giving you permission to look at something you buried deep down and thought you healed, but with new eyes and more compassion for yourself. It was a very moving experience! And I'm glad you got the same feelings out of it. Your theme of "realization" is so true! That moment when you see a pattern, or a pain, or the truth clearly for the first time, it's so life-altering. Even if nothing changes on the outside right away, something shifts internally and healing can actually take place. It's freeing. I was super grateful for this pick after I watched it. I feel like watching this before my daughter's birthday party on Saturday made me that gentler parent that observed instead of worried. It's pretty awesome and beautiful for a single film to have that kind of impact, but it did :)

kaliwali

Oh no! I didn't realize it wasn't available in some countries. Hopefully I can bring it over to YouTube for you sometime soon :)