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[Bonus Episode] Ep 26 - Did This TikToker Meet "The One" or Is He Love Bombing Her? (Patreon)

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2025-09-18 03:49:26
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In today's episode, the girlies discuss why the internet is so conflicted over TikToker Danielle Walter's recent romance that she's been documenting from the day he asked for her number. She says he she think's he's the one and that this might be her husband but let's just say... the internet is not as convinced.

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[Bonus Ep 26] Did This TikToker Meet "The One" or Is He Love Bombing Her?

In today's episode, the girlies discuss why the internet is so conflicted over TikToker Danielle Walter's recent romance that she's been documenting from the day he asked for her number. She says he she think's he's the one and that this might be her husband but let's just say... the internet is not as convinced. We hope you enjoyed this episode! Please let us know on Twitter or Instagram if you have any topic suggestions for a future episode! (@lily_marston & @jessismiles__) PS. The girlies have officially entered their short form content era! Follow our official accounts: https://instagram.com/doweknowthempodcast & https://tiktok.com/@doweknowthempodcast Business Inquiries: doweknowthempodcast@gmail.com

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ali

i’ve been waiting all day! my show is on!!

Emma Harrison

No Friday episode so I'm happy to see this episode!!

Rachel Brauer

Almost as long as a normal vid!!! So blessed

Jordan

I'm the product of a crazy dating story. Strap in, other girlies lol. My parents eloped after 3 weeks of dating. They went out for drinks the night before my mom's birthday and decided to drive to the next state the next day where they could get a same-day marriage license. They were told the justice of the peace also ran a Hallmark store and he was there, so they went there, got married by the justice of the peace in his hallmark store, where they went to the beauty school attached in the strip mall to ask two girls waiting to get their hair done to be witnesses, and one of them cried because they always cry at weddings. Its slightly less crazy because they were introduced by relatives (one related to mom, one related to dad and they were married so I jokingly say I'm incest adjacent) and their extended families knew each other even though they didn't. And they've been married 35 years.

Jordan

I remember Jessi posting the first "I'm married and pregnant" video and thinking it was a joke because it happened so fast lol

Leslie Grant

My husband and I met on tinder. On our first date he was so sweet wouldn’t let me pay for anything. Second date be brought me and my daughter flowers. No one has ever bought me flowers let alone me and my daughter. I knew he was the one right away. We started talking about marriage after a month of dating. We got married at 10 months. We’ve been together 2 years now. My daughter loves him and sees him as a father figure. He goes to all her school events he shows up all the time. We are expecting our son in December. I couldn’t have asked for a better partner.

Andrew Giglio

"Man of God" over and over is creeping me out.

Emily

Not the matching headphones and beach chairs in the airport lmao

Brent S

The bar is truly in Hell. I’m happy for the girl but damn. Then idk if the bar even exists for us gays 😂. If it does it’s either in Hell with the straight bar or lower

Emily

As someone who escaped the clutches of a love bomber, this does worry me (I'm only 20 mins in) Yeah sometimes work out, but sometimes they really really don't. I was lucky to find a good man on Tinder, because the trauma of the abuse cycle is real. I've been with my bf for 10 years this November, and I still have to police my thoughts to remind myself that this guy loves me, the other one wanted control.

kendralicious

I just found out about her so this timing is perfecttttt

Emily

45:28 ok my tune has changed a bit. Once lily said "I think people are projecting onto her" I realized that's exactly what I was doing. I still think she needs to keep her wits about her and be able to take off those rose coloured glasses. If she is happy, genuinely happy, then all the power to her! I think some it comes from her age. If you're perpetually single in your 30's that can suck. Especially watching your peers have milestones. I hope this guy is making her happy.

Andrew Giglio

I'm so saddened by Lily's dating experiences. I'll need to finish this one later.

Verity Lala

Oh I follow Danielle and as it progressed with this guy I was like “eeeeek this is happening fast”. Then I wondered if maybe I just don’t trust men.

paulo

I mean… I don’t judge, I just wouldn’t post 😹. Side note, my YouTube for some reason translates the titles to Portuguese and it translated Lovebombing as Surra de amor and as a Brazilian that’s HILARIOUS

paulo

The only bar for us is the one with unlimited mimosas 😹

thesovgc

What in the Rachel Reilly..

Lisa

I’m only 15 minutes in but ladies, if a random from your gym asks you out don’t let him pick you up from your house!

Vanessa Mucosa

😂😂 Some would say that’s what it feels like

paulo

Pretty much 😹

Alivia Hatten

So... is our new gauge of how well Lily is doing whether she has a Truly or a Dr. Pepper? Bless you, Leader Lei

Alivia Hatten

Okay, why did this make me tear up??? I promise im not the girl from the hair school either

Emily

I told my friend I was going to marry my husband after our first date. 19 years later and we’re still married and have three kids. I don’t think you can tell the difference between instant connection vs lovebombing. I’m surprised at all of the negative comments.

Nancerina

My husband and I bought our house when we’d been dating for 7 months. We’d been friends for a decade and in 2021 a year I’d left an abusive marriage. We had a one night stand. We’ve been together 4 years and our anniversary is coming up in October. We’re been married two years. He’s my best friend. I’m so happy I married him. When you know you know.

Chelsea

I can’t stand you Jessi lol “ope, it’s not at an airport, I made that up” 🤣

Krystle

So…it is cringe but hey. If she’s happy, she’s happy. But the part where she went to his birthday party on the 3rd date, made me laugh. Lol only cause that’s exactly how it happened for me and my husband. Lol and it was just his birthday party where he passed out(and yes I didn’t fault him cause hey it’s your birthday, party on) but I’m happily married for 10 yrs. So hey it could work…just very interesting on posting everything online

Shannon

Lmaoo at 5:15 the tiktok didn’t come up on the screen so I thought they just got really awkwardly quiet 🤣🤣

Elise💕

“What’s the worst that could happen?! Me- who’s seen almost every episode of dateline “erm” 🤣

Elise💕

To be fair , you definitely really knew your friend at that point :p your timeline doesn’t seem odd to me! ❤️

Elise💕

And CHEERS 🥂 to getting out of something bad and into something good ❤️

Elise💕

I think before anyone starts dating they should be required to watch all of the dateline nbc episodes on first dates . 😮‍💨

tiff

this is how i was with my fiance as well but i felt INSANE about it. like i would tell my friends & be like "but im just being crazy, right" like the last thing i wouldve done was post it online for all to see bc it does come off as a little desperate & delusional😭

Ettea Smithe

my aunt and uncle met in high school and married when they graduated (not long after they got together). they’ve been in love ever since and are going on 55+ years of marriage :)

Flor Contreras

I understand why people might be concerned or clown on this girl but I think that men are men and either way if you feel absolutely in love head over heels there is still a need to proceed with caution. But it seems she was in love and the only thing is she shared a lot of it like you would a friend on social media. I also think for younger girls it’s important to show there are men out there who will treat you right and show much more then the bare minimum, but to also again be carful.

Autumn Baker

I purposefully had my first child 6 months after meeting my current life partner. Half the people thought we were crazy and the other half said "yepp I see it". Coming up on 6 years.

Raina Grigsby

this podcast getting too local, she went to my high school 😅

Emily Rautenberg

Okay but please keep an eye on this and update us if anything happens!!! I must know

Sa-Manta Ray

nominating the airport/silent disco/beach-confusion bit for an oscar. not the plot twisting and retwisting and twisting again 💀

ladyblake

Hi girlies ♥️ I am so glad to be a part of the patreon family. Your podcast is the favorite part of my week, I’ve followed you both since the very beginning of your careers. So much love to the both of you 🥰

Helen Berry

When I first met my ex, I rushed into posting pics from one of our very first dates & a friend commented “omg hard launch!” When I was never really super sure about him anyway. Looking back now I wish I had kept it more to myself. Oh well, lessons learned

Helen Berry

There were also signs of love bombing in my case. Stay safe ladies xoxo

peachxtaehyung

11:35 yes you can. People do it alot

Wellness Witches

Omg I love that you’re covering her. I followed her a couple years ago when she was doing “big sister” type content but this whole situation is what made me unfollow. I just couldn’t handle the combination of cringey oversharing while also being really vague and repetitive. I was also often appalled at the people being cruel in her comment section. I don’t understand why more people can’t just unfollow or scroll on when they see something they don’t like 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think she’s really sweet and I hope this works out for her, the content just wasn’t for me anymore and that’s fine lol

Amanda Bailey

On my first date with my now husband he came to my door instead of honking or texting and I STILL talk about that! Was it bare minimum? Sure but it showed me something about him that I valued. We got married on the 1st anniversary of that first date ❤️ But I’ve also been on the bad side of things so I can also be skeptical so I get that.

Sara DiMaggio

This take was so perfect. I feel so bad for the hate she’s getting for honestly what seems like just being herself and falling in love very publicly. If he is love bombing her- and she is heart broken- what are people going to say?! “TOLD YOU!” Why would you want to be the person to be right about something so terrible. I hope he is her husband but yes v cringe haha.

Sammy Sandwitch

Wanting to mention again to increase the chance the girlies see it: 100% ok and down for old patreon episodes being uploaded to the YouTube channel when y'all can't get an episode down or need a break! Great advertisement & y'all still get paid! Love you girlies, and please take care of yourself Lily!

Christina

My husband and I became official like the first date lol and said we love each other after two weeks. (then again we went on a few dates a couple years prior to getting together again) We got engaged within 6 months and have never spent a full 24 hours away from each other since the beginning. Three years going strong, almost one year married. It's a breath of fresh air since my dating history was atrocious lmao

Christina

Her comments are giving, single and mad about it. Let people be in love lol There are good guys out there, you just have to be patient. Took me like 10 years lol

Lk

Oof, I see the cringe, but it IS cute? Like, I want the best for her?

Lk

Horray, I finished the video and it was the take! Nnnice

Christina

JESSI😭😭 “they are at the airport” no maam do you see the lawn chair🤣😭

Kayla

The first day my now husband and I hung out we stayed side by side for the next month . But it was still weird to tell my family how quickly our relationship developed let alone strangers on tbe internet. We have been together 14 years now.

Brenda

Omg I found my people 😂💛, that’s hysterical. And as a former brazilian christian girlie, the minute they said he was brazilian, it all made sense to me, they do be saying you’re the one for them with a lot of godly passion lol

paulo

Yaay ❤️❤️ but she mentioning all the time that he is a man of god gave me the creeps 😹

Lesley

not that i have a problem with displaying your assets, but she shocked me on her third date with the amount of titties she had sticking out there! They're both super Christians, and that is very atypical.

Aisha Chavez

That girl is in love and I love this for her. Hope he’s truly the one. And I know Jessi doesn’t share much about Nassim but I really do miss seeing him on camera from time to time. Watching Jessi and him together always made me smile!

Lesley

i think she's kind of cute! her excitement is like a teenager girls, but what's wrong with that?

Kinsye Garrett

See I really agree with what Jesse said about when you know you just know and like time doesn’t really matter. A lot of the people in my community like to rush people to have marriages young and me and my boyfriend have known each other since we were in Pee-wee sports and when I say we are taking our time, we are taking our time no matter what anybody says because I know that that’s what we need and if for them, that’s how they feel and that’s how fast everything feels comfortable for them period girly but I definitely agree with Jesse when you’re with your person it doesn’t matter what other people think

Rachel

You guys are missing so much information on all this. It's not just about Danielle - but this guy is a total walking red flag. Not to mention she has forged her way on the internet "giving big sister advice" and "dating advice" while 1. obviously lying about said dates and 2. giving "advice" and then turning around and calling this guy her husband immediately. Everyone who did get married quickly, you need to understand that out of the grand scheme of things, you're the exception - NOT the rule. If it worked out for you, amazing. But for someone who is receiving money from subscriptions where she's giving advice, this is extremely problematic. And don't even get me started on the Christian bullshit she admittedly got into because another guy she was obsessed with was religious.

Wandaliz Serrano

I was on the ground with the whole airport misinformation, holy crap😂😂

Rachael

I'm confused, I had never heard of her before this so I have no context. Why is he a walking red flag? What lies was she telling about dates?

grace elizabeth

i meandered over to the snark to see what was up and further posts being clowned on. it’s … a lot yes. but i’m kinda living for the conspiracy that they knew each other before and he’s some sorta guru like grifter. he be smiling on his story like 😏😏 keep your head up beautifuls 😌😌

Tatyana Anderson

some random context from the christian culture (this girlie im not coocoo though i promise) it’s believed that the more you share out loud the more ammunition it gives the devil to use against you

Saruse

My husband and I both knew within the first couple of dates. Here we are over 12 years and 2 kids later and I am still wild about that man 🩷

Hana

you're just making this up. Where is the rulebook for what you define as "super Christians".

Lesley

if you don't think modesty is something that a huge percentage of people who make a good portion of their personality about being a Christian, then i don't know what world you're in. I'm certainly not saying all Christians, by any means.

Kerri zimmer

I wouldn’t be posting those thoughts to TikTok either, HOWEVER, if that was something you wanted to do and enjoyed, wouldn’t you want the man you were interested in to see it and like that about you? I’m my most authentic self when I’m first dating a guy because I want to be seen and loved for the person I really am, not just a cool persona I can project

Stacey

I followed Danielle for the past 2 years. She was relatable. She took us along with her wins and losses while still being her independent self. I don't remember on date updates. Things changed for me when she stopped dating a man who she had previously had so much chemistry and connection because he didn't want their relationship to be on social media. People in her comments were overwhelmingly saying we love you, please find a different way to post and date this man. Your life comes first, don't prioritize social media. It was around this time and when she moved there was a switch in her tone that gave me the ick.

Tommie Gnosis

I 1000% can relate to Jessie's love story. Like, the millisecond I saw my partner of 11 years that he was my forever person. I took us a month to say I love you. No love bombing, we just felt it like jessie said. I don't think shes doing anything wrong. Even dumping her previous bf isn't a problem for me.

Adriana Padilla

her bio says Carrie but shes def a Charlotte

dilfcatcherjin

as a lesbian this is just my culture 😂

tori.lynne

The first date with my fiance, I texted my best friend after and said "he's my person". I immediately felt safe and at home with him.

Purple-Lemon13

Me and my husband have been together 15 years and we were super intense. We were friends before and I still didn't tell my family about us for a while because I wanted to be sure. It worked out but you never know. I would have died if I had recorded content like this about any of my previous partners and posted it on the interwebs. 💀

Purple-Lemon13

Her saying he called her special had me hearing Radiohead's Creep: "I wish I was special. You're so fuckin' special. But I'm a creep..." 💀

Ashleigh

Not me seeing they're engaged now while watching this 😅😂

Steve Klemow

Love bombing? You mean on her part, right? Right? What’s this bizarre rush to rescue women in stories like this, as if she was some vulnerable lamb instead of a grown up with agency? She’s the one with the glaring red flags—if I were a straight guy and met a woman like this on a date, literally shoving her hand in my face demanding a ring from the word hello, and filming her designs for me in the bathroom between menu courses for the whole world to see, I’d run screaming for my life, and would shriek at the sight of her for the rest of it. She’s terrifying! Her content is a welcome cautionary PSA for single men everywhere, and if the minute this guy watches her TikToks he doesn’t block her immediately, then the world is better off from taking both of them out of the dating pool. If anyone watches her channel unironically we’re all doomed. C’mon girlies!

Steve Klemow

I think they were all losses, right? It doesn’t take much intuition to figure out why. Any guy who would sign up to be a part of this scheme, where her income depends on there being dating cycles forever, not to mention how she’s coming on like she’s going to burst into flames if she doesn’t get a ring in three months, he needs some serious therapy. I almost choked on my breakfast cereal when I heard about folks being worried about HIM lovebombing HER. I think he’s the one who should be alerted to red flags—she’s terrifying! 😱

Joanna Coleman

This was a sweet story. I knew I was going to marry my husband after our second date. We got engaged within 4 months. I still love him, and can’t imagine being with anyone else 25 years later. I hope it works out for them!