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It's Okay to Not be Okay Ep 9 (Patreon)

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2024-04-23 02:34:51
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2026-06
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rough ending to this episode

Comments

YaBoyRoshi

we are watching episode 10 now, will be up after i edit it so give or take a couple hours

Kevenwithae

Appreciate y’all always holding it down

WorldWideLove2000

It's terrible cause he really spent his entire life taking care of his brother since he was a child. I know he feels responsible for him, but ignoring your own physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing to take care of a person is never healthy for yourself. It's so sad that no one else was there to share that responsibility of raising Sangtae. I've watched this series three times already and that last scene always hurts so bad

REAXwithSNAX

puttin in the work. much appreciated! hope yall had a fun wedding weekend and gotta say i am in love with both yalls hair!

Jah

You guys should watch queen of tears next

Jah

Yes shit is so fire

Oni Tyrone

So many top tier actors in that too. A real star studded lineup

chae_minnie

Both of yalls hair looks so nice!!

needabout100k

I love the discussion at the end. Gang-tae’s breakdown was hard to watch, so sad.

Feliz-Olivia Jean-Jules

Something I don’t see a lot of people addressing is the fact that Gangtae DID turn away when his brother fell in the water. Like there was an immature part of him that was thinking for a sec, “wait my burden could be gone.” But it didn’t last long and he saved his bro at the end. But Sangtae remembers and he mixed that with his own feelings.

A. P.

Damn bro, I understand why Gang Tae is the way that he is but he is so frustrating sometimes. I just keep hearing Will Smith in my head in that fake ass Nigerian accent saying, "tell the truth!"

Fiona

I can’t even bring myself to be frustrated with Gangtae even though he definitely could have handled certain situations better. I think I just have a fragile heart when it comes to these things and Gangtae’s situation makes me empathize with him and understand why he doesn’t always make perfect decisions. I do think he’s doing the best he can with the cards he has been dealt.

Laplace

Lmao im currently watching queen of tears, and for some reason i cant see myself rewatching IOTNBO anymore because of the cast lol

Yolo Samurai

To be fair, I think that while Sang-te doesn't like Gang-te and Moon-youngs relationship, I think its the fact that he is obviously lying to him that sets him off here. His brother is constantly telling him that he wont lie to him, which really he shouldn't be promising in the first place, but then blatantly lies to his face. I think Moon-young asking him earlier in the episode about when he hated Gang-te the most, as well as him him having that bad dream was also a trigger.

Venus

i cant finish queen of tears cuz i prefer this show

Tyler

rewatching this knowing what i know makes this soooooo interesting

Jy

i think gang tae is overly protective and tip toes around sangtae due to the guilt of genuinely thinking about leaving him in that frozen lake for a second even though he changed his mind.

nobody

please react to the behind the scenes i think they are really funny at the end

KomodoughDragon

childhood traumas aside, Gang-tae has been treating Sang-tae like a child his whole life. He's overprotective of him to the point of actively hindering Sang-tae's ability and opportunities to function in society like a normal human adult. Yes he's autistic, but Gang-tae constantly makes assumptions about how Sang-tae will behave, about what he can and can't handle, and lies because he thinks Sang-tae can't handle the truth. Like OF COURSE he won't be able to handle difficult situations if you never give him the chance to deal with difficult situations and learn from them. There is a point where protection becomes actively harmful to a person's development, and Sang-tae is way past that. I understand Gang-tae has traumas too and that's why he's behaving this way, but it's not fair of him to project that onto his brother. He needs therapy, not to be a full-time caregiver.

East_Coast_Overseer

You trying to get me to cross that bridge, you can kiss EVERY part of my ass.

Lsg_Lani

I agree that Gang Tae is babying Sang Tae while he should be more upfront with him but also Gang Tae isn’t perfect and there’s no guidebook how to take care of someone like Sang Tae or anyone in general.

Sasha (Yare Yare Daze)

This show is so on point with the directing and the main actors are peforming at top level. With this first rewatch there hasn't been a moment I felt bored which happens with at least 90% of the shows I have seen even on the first watch

Sasha (Yare Yare Daze)

Where you get the -te end to the brothers names. I also think it's written Mun-yeong in the show. Well anyways I think when Korean names are written in English they have way too many ways to write them. Like just stick to one. Also I don't blame you for writing the names like that of course because it's so weird anyways. lmao

Jah

Yup

KomodoughDragon

Gang-tae is treating Sang-tae as if he's a child that's dependent on him. In reality, Gang-tae is heavily dependent on Sang-tae due to being forced into the caregiver role his whole life, and is projecting that onto him rather than learning to deal with it himself. He acts as if Sang-tae can't do anything without him, when right now it's more like the opposite.

Jamaal Ellison

They really suspended him without finding out why he hit him. Also I don't know why but for some reason I really want some subway.

Jamaal Ellison

I see what you're saying but Sang-tae also can be volatile when he's upset and struggles with change so I see Gang-tae trying to please everybody at once but also trying get something for himself. Sang doesn't want Gang to be with Moon so I think he's trying to avoid the inevitable.

Jamaal Ellison

I'd be afraid to tell him anything as well if I were Gang-tae I mean look it how Sang-tae reacts to stuff I think Sang-te would've probably had a similar reaction he'd he just told him the truth because he's afraid of loosing Gang-tae.

Meli

Agreed! They are co-dependent.

GojosHoho

6:11 Sheera looks like she want to yak💀💀😂 I genuinely want to know why we need half a corn on the pizza

GojosHoho

And the Criminal pizza establishment has all those wonky flavors do they made a bunch flaccid corn and shrimp pizzas and make variety packs ?? Or make these atrocities to order

GojosHoho

1:02:12 foreshadowing 😭😭