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šŸ“ŠSize Matters Poll (Patreon)

Published:
2026-04-30 03:12:49
Edited:
2026-04-30 03:23:55
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šŸ“ŠSize Matters Poll

  • 6/7 inches (thick but ā€œrealisticā€) 4
  • 8/9 inches (big, veiny, and hung) 46
  • 10/11 inches (the sweet spot of ā€œholy shit thatā€™s hugeā€) 105
  • 12/13 inches (obscene, mind(and pussy) breaking territory) 56
  • 14+ inches (absolute monster, bring on the belly bulge) 31
  • 2026-04-30
  • 242 votes
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Content

Poll Time, My Dirty-Minded Darlings šŸ”„

Quick random poll because Iā€™m curious (and maybe a little horny)...

We all know in real life an 8-inch thick BBC is already a delicious stretch, and 9ā€“10 inches is the holy-grail ā€œoh-fuck-Iā€™m-gonna-get-ruinedā€ fantasy size I'd happily drop to my knees for. But this is erotic fictionā€¦ and the hotter these stories get, the more we love pushing those delicious, taboo boundaries.

I used to cap my studs at 11ā€“11.5 inches because 12 felt a bit too ā€œporn stereotype.ā€ Lately thoughā€¦ Iā€™ve been having way too much fun writing 13-inch monsters (cough, Zay in April Fools, cough).

But some people do think anything in written erotica over 10 inches, is just too big for them to imagine and enjoy. And some others? They want bigger!! So I want to know what size you like to read the most when youā€™re enjoying these types of size based seduction stories.

Poll: What is the ideal BBC size for your filthy interracial fantasy?

6/7 inches (thick but ā€œrealisticā€)

8/9 inches (big, veiny, and hung)

10/11 inches (the sweet spot of ā€œholy shit thatā€™s hugeā€)

12/13 inches (obscene, mind(and pussy) breaking territory)

14+ inches (absolute monster, bring on the belly bulge)

Drop your vote and if you like to share more, tell me in the comments.

So go on, be honestā€¦ how big do you want that Big Black Cock to be when it claims the next innocent white wife?

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Comments

Kacey Loveington

I WOULD ALSO BE INTERESTED TO KNOW WHAT SIZE YOU WANT THE GIRLS TO HAVE BEEN USED TO BEFORE MEETING THEIR BLACK STUD? Their husband/boyfriend's size, do you like them being tiny, or just average? How many inches should the husbands/boyfriends be? If you wish to share that in the comments, that would be great and very helpful!

Allan Harrison

I like them all when in well-written stories, but when I'm not looking for my semi-romantic type stories, I love going to the other extremes. Forearm sized BBCs with women used to hotdogs(and I don't mean footlongs, lol). If the woman is also relatively tiny overall, and not just in her fun bits, that's just a nice bonus.

Kacey Loveington

The forearm is the best measuring device for cock size! šŸ˜€ I did go through a spell of not being specific about the size in inches and just comparing it the forearm etc I might get back into that line of not being too exacting on measurement. Description of size is hotter than inches! xx

Lee

Tiny. 4 inches or less

Hotwife Alice

I'm with Allan. Can enjoy a story with an 8 inch cock, but I enjoy you writing them BIG 11-13 range is the hottest. 14+ is too much

Hotwife Alice

I like the extremes and comparisons. So Huge for the stud, and small for the husband. Though Room For More was one of my all time favourites, and the boyfriend had a good sized dick(8inches I think?) in that one, and I loved how she loved his big cock, but just loved Rons monster so much more! So I guess it all works, when you're writing the story Kacey šŸ˜ˆ

Kacey Loveington

The cruel comparison between huge and tiny, is a fun read(and write)! xx

Kacey Loveington

Thanks Alice. Maybe I will do another big cock boyfriend...But bigger stud story in the future šŸ˜˜

Johnny King

To me, the number isn't the end-all, it's more vital that the woman is getting something bigger or "way bigger" than she's used to and it, along with the pleasure she receives from it, is a revelation. Sometimes a number will strike the reader as cartoonish, but the absence of a number (or a sense that it's a big number) will be missed if size is a focus of the story. Also, size is great you can give it a rest by implying he's big but emphasizing the stud's skill with using his gift in a manner the woman loves (or didn't realize she'd love/needs it) until she feels it. Ex. the stud grabs a fist full of the woman's hair and slaps her ass, forcing her to react by arching her back. She yells, "what the fuck?! That hurt..." and then he starts hammering away from behind. The targeted thrusts with his engorged member causes her to melt "oh... oh god. what are you doing to me? This is... of fuck, I can't stop coming" What size are they used to? Depends on how cucky you want to get versus stag/vixen/hotwife. cucks get thinner or shorter, make them 5 to 6 inches, shorter if you want to be cruel. They have penis envy, even if they don't admit it. Stags top out at 8 and a half. "oh baby, I love your cock but these extra couple of inches are incredible." or "look how sexy looking my kitty is. I've never felt this stretched, it feels like he's touching everything, all at once." Can also comment on other different aspects, like smoothness, the texture of his veins, the flared head, testicles, larger than average loads that pour out in a flood (I've never seen so much cum, is that normal for you?) or fire out aggressively (I look ridiculous. Like I've been hit by a mayonnaise truck), first time with an uncircumcised/circumcised member. Mix it up to keep the reader guessing. Lastly, you've got great instincts, we trust you.

Eric

I love that dynamic when the white boyfriend is worthy: capable, thoughtful, fun and funny, attractive, intelligent... just outshined in every way by a bigger, stronger, more powerful Black man. I think that contrast works so much better for me; the whole "you're so bigger than my white boyfriend" doesn't really say much when her white boyfriend is like 4 inches. Oh, he's bigger than her boyfriend? Yeah, of course he is; who the fuck wouldn't be? When the white boyfriend is a great boyfriend in every way then it's so much more powerful and meaningful when a Black man outclasses him. But yeah, 8 inches is too much (although I loved that story too, easily one of my favorites). I think half is a good ratio: 5-6 for the white boyfriend, 10-12 for the Black man. (And twice as thick or a bit more, but I don't think we're familiar with girth dimensions in the same way.)

Kacey Loveington

Hi Johnny, thank you for such an incredible answer. I loved it! And you are right, it's the realisation(and felling) of getting something bigger, rather than the number. xx

Thomas Sudan

I did vote for 8/9 because it's the smaller size you should use in your story to picture the difference between the bull and the husband/boyfriend. And like Allan, sometimes discribing with no number is as hot.

Tombstone23

Seems like I might have a different take compared to everyone else, but anything over like 11 inches I find pretty boring and it takes me out of the story. I just imagine something else. Or if theyā€™re so girthy it that it would physically damage the woman šŸ˜‚ I also tend to look for different things if Iā€™m looking for a stroke story or something that is trying to have more depth and has a bigger narrative focus. If itā€™s clearly an over the top story then the size can be however big it wants to be šŸ˜‚ The bull having a bigger cock is obviously fun, I donā€™t mind if the husband is really small or just tad bit smaller. I think a lot of it just comes down to the tone and the characters. If it fits great, but if it the size is so extreme on either side to where it feels out of place or unnecessary then I start to scratch my head. As long as itā€™s bigger and feels different Iā€™m usually in. If the husband needs to be extra small for the story to work, great. If the husband is capable and the couple is just having fun with the hotwife trying something new, awesome. And everything between works too! When I write I tend to avoid any measurements so the reader can envision what they want. I agree with a lot of what Johnny said below too. Thereā€™s just a lot of context, Iā€™ve read super cruel stories that turn me on to no end and very wholesome ones that do the same. Kinda new and Iā€™be been enjoying you stories, and these polls are fun to read and see other peopleā€™s thoughts

Display Name Here

Once you get into 13/14 territory youā€™re hitting world record stuff, so I canā€™t take that seriously. I think my sense of disbelief caps out at around 10. Much beyond that and Iā€™m just thinking how awkward day-to-day activities might be, and whether theyā€™re experiencing issues getting something that size erect in the first place. Given that itā€™s girth, not length, that would ā€œruinā€ the woman, and authors never provide measurements for girth and readers never complain about their absence, I think itā€™s the visual description that matters rather than the measurement.

foudespit46

I couldn't have answered better. It's perfect...šŸ‘šŸ˜ƒ

Display Name Here

I prefer that the husband be regular size. If they're below average and it's size that tempts the woman away, then pretty much most of the human race would have achieved it. I know tiny is seen as cruel, but I think average makes for a crueller story because it's a man who had no reason to doubt himself previously. I honestly think Eric summed up my thoughts nicely.

Denny

I would say 10/11, maybe you're right that it's the sweet spot. While I can get into something where they say 13/14 like I think was said earlier, it's word record territory... it's almost cartoony to a degree. So if the vibe of the story fits this hyper fantasy, I think it can still work. Like it doesn't have to be slapstick, but it kind of needs to be over the top elsewhere as well. As far as size they're used to? I mean, I'm going to go with my own size (4") but that's because personally that's where I can put myself in the story. I generally would want like 5" or less so it's on the bottom end of "average" to make the difference pop stronger.

Goducks2017

For me, I would say it depends on the story! If itā€™s a story thatā€™s a little more ā€œout thereā€ and, well, clearly a story, then I find it fun when itā€™s unrealistically big. If the story is a slow burn and maybe a little more realistic, I prefer the ā€œnormal 8-10 inchesā€ range.

Kacey Loveington

Thank you for sharing Bryce. I do think when I read other peoples stories, I tend to adjust things with my own imagination to how I want them if the story writing lets it. But that is where non exact measurements work best. A good descriptive cock shock should be enough to let us know it's massive, and leave room for the reader to imagine that size how they see it. Whereas perhaps stating that it's over 13 inches(as I have done recently) is a bit too on the money with the size and measurement of it. xxx

Kacey Loveington

I have no idea about girth measurements. I've had random men send me messages trying to impress me with their size, and whatever they say when it comes to girth - 4 inches or whatever measurement they've come up with, I have no idea what that is or how impressive or not that measurement is šŸ˜‚ And they all get ignored anyway šŸ˜³

Kacey Loveington

Thanks for sharing Denny. We definitely have a variety of answers for the size they are used to. Which is good, because it makes for a variety of story options. Stories where Boyfriends who are considered small and below average, and stories where boyfriends are quite large and good in bed, but yet are still no match for the black man who has just walked into their lives. šŸ˜ xx

Tombstone23

Nothing wrong with getting into the detailed measurements šŸ˜‰ I totally agree with you though! Lots of people definitely lnowing exactly how big it is! Knowing the merriments is honestly not a huge deal for me unless itā€™s like, an apocalyptic size cock. One time I read a story where it was described as being the girth of a hydroflask and that was too over the top for me šŸ˜‚ Especially if the main pull to the series is all about size fantasy, then it can be valuable. I tend to read in looking for the good descriptions of the womanā€™s pleasure, be it romance, monogamous erotica, stag/vixen, cheating, soft or hard cuckholding. So what a cock/lover is doing to her, how it feels and is described tends to make me not worry as much about measurements.

Dildolezobbit

Hey, good to have you back! I absolutely agree with Johnny that in the end, these are just numbers, and they shouldn't be the main focus. But I'll still give my two cents: I like them to be 'growers' as much as they are 'showers'. So if they are written to be already 9/10 inches when soft, yeah, I expect them to go at least over a foot when they are at full mast. But if they were only, say, 7 inches soft (which is already MASSIVE for flaccid measurements) I wouldn't mind them stopping at 11 inches hard. So, yeah, this is what I'm looking, for, I guess: a large enough gap between soft and hard measurements, rather than an absolute number.

Kacey Loveington

See(and you might have noticed this in my stories haha), I like the aesthetic of a soft cock that is a complete monster already. Thick, long and heavy. Already so much bigger than anything they imagined was possible. Which is why I often prefer writing the huge soft cock, that maybe is only an inch or two larger when it's hard. xx But maybe that is another idea for a story I should add to the list... A curious girl who has heard rumours of the size of black guys, maybe during a game night of drinks and dares, they strip off, boyfriend and the black friend, when she finally see's him naked and soft, it's not that different standing next to her boyfriends, maybe even she is a little disappointed, the rumours are wrong, greatly exaggerated...and then it begins to harden, and grow šŸ† xx

Eric

I definitely agree with the first sentiment; a Black Cock that is bigger, longer, thicker soft than her white boyfriend's penis is when hard.

Dildolezobbit

@Kacey: Of course I've noticed šŸ˜œ And don't get me wrong: I love this! But I love it even more when they grow... significantly šŸ˜

Display Name Here

This poll sent me down a bit of a rabbit-hole, and apparently Asian men tend to lean more towards showers, while whites and blacks are growers. Of course, there are no golden rules.

Kacey Loveington

šŸ˜‚ I like that someone actually did a study in this. Some lovely medical student getting her first study to run and it's all cocks and size comparisons. Now thats a story that needs writing šŸ˜ˆšŸ˜‚

JJ

I hesitated a bit, and really considered choosing 14+, but I think that is probably (for most stories, but not all) going a bit further than necessary. For some, stories, though, where the man is a real alpha, huge proportions everywhere, an extra, extra large would make sense.

JJ

With the white comparison, maybe about 6 or, at a stretch, 7, as long as the black king is much more impressive. With some white guys, I like a smaller size depending on the personality.

JJ

Love the very large flaccid dick, with a comparably large pair of testicles to go along with it (a la, the Nutcracker).

JJ

One thing I kind of miss in your stories is a lack of attention to the alpha's ass. The love interest's ass gets a lot of justifiable attention (like April in the current story), and I absolutely love ass play, but...I have noticed that the alpha ass is neglected. A big, thick muscle ass on an alpha is extraordinary in action, and its great when the love interest notices that her new man has a great pair of glutes.

Kacey Loveington

She tore the foil open of one of her boyfriends condoms, pinched the tip, and began rolling the latex down. It fought her from the start. The thin ring stretched wide, whitening at the edges as it crawled over the fat, flushed head. She bit her lip, both hands working it, tugging and smoothing, but the rubber only made it halfway before the inevitable. A sharp snap cut the air. The condom split right down the side, latex peeling apart like cheap gift wrap around the invading black monster. The thick, bare cockhead pushed through the tear, glistening and proud, veins bulging against the shredded ring still clinging uselessly beneath the ridge. ā€œFUCK, ITā€™S TOO BIG!ā€ she blurted, eyes wide, voice cracking between shock and raw hunger. Her boyfriends bully chuckled low, reaching down to brush a strand of hair from her flushed cheek. ā€œLooks like weā€™re doing it bareback, pretty thing.ā€

JJ

"It's too big" - three of my favorite words in these kinds of story. No condom is going to cover this beast.

RA

I prefer when the white husband is around 6ā€ and the black bull is close to 10ā€ā€¦definitely doesnā€™t help me envision the situation as more realistic šŸ˜‰

fanfoot

Well you already know what I think. The bigger the better. BUT Iā€™m perfectly happy with the answer being it varies by story. If all of the stories have 14 inch cocks then itā€™s less exciting than sometimes. Iā€™m happy with body comparisons though. Most of the time. As long as her firearm AND her hand. Thicker than her arm. A head the size of her/his fist. His erect cock resting on her belly well above her navel. Etc. and yes sometimes actual measuring and real numbers. As for the boyfriend/hysbands size I like variation. Sometimes extra small/more humiliating. Often normal/small side of normal. But yes that 8ā€ boyfriend in Room for More was great too. As long as the bull is MUCH bigger.

FB

Years ago, I was in an open relationship with a girl. She was aware of my "bigger penis" fantasy, and every time Iā€™d insist she tell me stories about "bigger penises" from her past. One time when she came over, she told me about someone sheā€™d been with a few days earlier, saying he was at least 2.5 times bigger and thicker than me. Maybe she was exaggerating, maybe it was true, but according to her, that would be around 11ā€“12 inches. Later, when I asked her serious opinion, she said she wouldnā€™t want to do it again and mentioned how much it hurt. From my perspective, even if itā€™s a small percentage, people of that size do exist, and a bit of exaggeration in the story can make it more appealing. Looking at the votes so far, 85% have chosen 10/11 or larger; Iā€™m sure if there were an 11/12 option, the average would be there.

Roleimpossible

I always heard, when one door closes, another door opens...in this case, I guess that soon to be opened door, would have to be the cervix, going into the uterus.

TRW

It isn't the length that matter, but the thickness. The length between 7 and 9 inches and the thickness between 8 inches and 10 inches.

TRW

I think that the white men cocks should be at least 6 to 7 inches if the black cocks are going to be 10 to 12 inches