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we have been hooking up for some time now. two people who are quite guarded. scared to be too pushy for the other. we want it casual, right? but when i see someone texting you as we cuddle in bed i realise i cannot do this ... if you're not all mine. and i have to let you know that's how i feel. but what if you back away? i would die. so what do i do...

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Smellwell

I hope I have the problem of, "I don't know if I should commit to this casual relationship or pursue other people." Because that's like, "I have too much money, I don't know how to spend it." Such a foreign concept to me. But hey, a problem is a problem. And I can see it being a legitimate issue for someone's wellbeing. Hope everyone is doing well. Hope all is well with you, Anya. - Hours later edit: This comes off as "Woe is me" when I'm pretty happy with where I'm headed and what I got.

Huginn's Audio

If/when you’ve found your special someone, I hope they have the sense to stay with you and your amazing self, Anya. Thanks for another great audio!

anya's audio

yeah, these situations are weird in many ways… i think a lot of people nowadays that we see with a bunch of people around them feel deeply lonely.. they struggle with finding genuine connections, to open up and dare to be vulnerable.. i suppose loneliness takes all different forms. just reflecting on this it’s not self pitying, not imo! it opens up for conversation. i’m glad you feel like you’re on a good path😍

anya's audio

😌😌 thank you. how nice of you to say that, huginn ✨

Smellwell

Damn, that sounds really hollow. Anyone who starts feeling that way, should maybe go through a year of touch-starvation and friend-starvation, see how lonely they feel then lmao. I start college, as a freshman, in a couple of weeks and if I find my tribe and a GF...just to discover I still feel lonely with them, then I'd probably just give up. I hate discrediting other peoples' issues just because I may have it slightly worse. But people have to be more grateful for what they have, if they feel lonely when they're surrounded by people who care about them. Always gotta be grateful for what you got. Or else you put yourself at risk of making things worse than they actually are.

anya's audio

i agree 100%. we need more gratitude, always!!