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I wake up every day and for a moment I’m anxious, but then I take a deep breath and remember there’s nothing to be anxious about anymore. I did the hard thing. I am free. I’m happy every day. I love my life, every day. I wake up with a smile and feel thankful to be exactly where I am. Every day. It’s a revelation.

If you are stuck and unhappy, please consider that you might feel better than you’ve ever felt if you stand up for your own best interests and make a change. It’s scary, and it’s complicated, but so is being unhappy and unappreciated with no end in sight.

Everyone says “be strong!” and “relationships are supposed to be hard work!” but if those are the only modes you have in your relationship please set yourself free. It’s not supposed to be hard all the time. Difficult isn’t supposed to be the default.

You were made to do more than endure.

(I wish more people had said that to me. So I’m saying it to you. Good morning, be kind to yourself out there.)

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Vantes

I needed to hear all of this today, thank you 💜

Cari

I mean, first...goddamn. Second...same, girl, same.

Paul Ricciardi

I’ve been thinking this too lately. Should I be with someone who triggers my anger more than anything else? It is my responsibility how I handle the anger but should I do something to avoid the triggers?

Paul Ricciardi

PS this is an amazing picture of your ass.

Heart

My husbands anger with me pushed me away more than his addiction did. Resentment was the rot for sure. I think if it wasn’t for his drinking we could have figured it out though. If he was an active ingested participant in the efforts. Because of his addiction he couldn’t be. 💕

syr shimmer

a beautiful affirmation 💜 also the sheets! this photo!

Karmen Fierce

This!!!! I recently just broke up with a narcissist and phewwww I didn't realize how much tension my body and mind were holding while I was with him. I'm glad you're free, and I'm glad I am too. Here's to our best interests! 💕

Cari

Me too. I knew it was bad. I didn't know how bad it was until it was good again.