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The Q&A (Ep. 15) (Patreon)

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2022-04-23 23:24:36
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Grab a cup of tea and settle in for some discussion. Lots of questions about self-confidence and relationships. Remember to be good to yourselves today. x

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Alexis Avenged

😫 gahhh. Revisited this audio and I saw this one. It's been two *YEARS*, Sir Mr. K! 🥺🙏🏻 pls?

N_JD

God this man's voice is so soothing

Jess George

I honestly really needed this today, ive had the worse day. I feel like shit rn ngl, so it's nice to just relax and listen to you for a bit yk?

Aisha

Lol that's me with your videos. There was one video on YT you posted like 2 weeks ago I just listened to the full audio because I keep falling asleep.

Alivia’s Life

another interesting and well needed q&a i see. <33

Zebrapink4life

I assume that you develop crushes fast but fall in love slow

Victoria Meraz

If the person that was asking about the dream sees this when you have a dream like that it’s your subconscious telling you that you want to feel a deeper connection to the person :)

Holly Golightly

Thank you so much for this QnA, K!! I love these!! All of your audios bring me so much joy. You’ve talked about your bike a bit before, and I assume you pop wheelies a lot to impress cute girls. Lol. A question for the next QnA: how is Nutmeg?? Would you ever get her a playmate? If so, what kind?

Tyler

Listening to this while eating some yummy Greek food! 😋 I don't dream about sex often, but every time I do the dude in my dream is always faceless and I don't know who he is..lol. Idk what that means....🙃

dundermifflin

For the thigh riding audio, could you also maybe incorporate the listener and your character grinding on each other as well? I loveee when the audios just get straight to it but a scene where both the characters are just desperately trying to get that release from each other without (or before) actually having sex would be really hot:’) it could be in another audio if you wanna keep the thigh riding one as strictly that though! Thanks for the qna K!<3

Bezzy Mills

K, I mean this with the utmost respect.... I just have a feeling that you're an amazing person. Every word you speak or write is given with such kindness, thoughtfulness, and consideration. I sincerely hope the people in your life recognize this and appreciate you for the kind of person you are. Thanks for being you.

Autumn

I thoroughly enjoy these Q&A’s… you have such a lovely voice and when you clear your throat… 🥵😮‍💨

Jenn (Preemie Cuddler)

I assume you are a family man at heart and deep down would love to have a wife and a bunch of kids to love, protect and raise!😘💝

Alexis TheWerewolf

OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ACTUALLY READ MY QUESTION!!😭😭😭 Thank you for the awesome advice! I definitely feel a lot better about my inexperience. I have another question: How do I tell a guy when I don't want to do something even though he wants to? I'm known to be very quiet irl and if someone does something not cool, I'm most likely not gonna say anything because of my social anxiety. How do I push past my silence to say no to my partner when he wants to get intimate and I don't? I figured since you're a man, maybe you could help me on what to say. I know I said I've never been in a relationship but I want to be ready for these possible scenarios early so that I don't freeze up if they actually happen.

Velveteen Rabbit

Another great Q&A! I love that listeners are talking about their own experiences and that you're incorporating them into the Q&As! Assumption - One other person has already mentioned this one, and someone in an early YouTube Q&A had brought this up as well - and you confirmed it - but I assume that you come across as a fuckboy. (If you'd like, you can answer what it is about you, or about other people, that make people think that about you.) Question - Would you rather have great sex for the rest of your life but never be in love, or would you rather find love but only ever have mediocre sex?

Sara

Question: Have you ever smoked weed? If so what was your experience like? Or do you maybe have a funny story about it ? 🍃 You mentioned in one of your previous q&as that you tried ecstasy before so maybe you have a different story about weed? I don’t support any drug consumption under the age of 18/21. 🔞 However since everyone on this channel is over 18, I wanna get Kendalls take on it! 👀 For me, personally, everytime I get home from work I just enjoy to lay down, smoke and to listen to your voice. Everytime I’m high and I masturbate to your audios, it makes me cum so hard, it’s the perfect end to a long/stressful day! Although I gotta say its not for everyone, it makes my day a lot better! 🥵 To the Bumbles: Please stay safe and happy belated 420 to everyone celebrating it! 🍃💨

RoRo

Ooh that stir fry sounds good, and anything with cheese is always going to be a winner 🧑🏻‍🍳. Ok here are my assumptions... You would look upon someone with a lofty disdain if they were bad at using chopsticks🥢😅. (This was the assumption that made me ask if we could do the assumption thing again, and it popped into my head because I was epically failing at using chopsticks while listening to one of your audios and I felt like you would judge me for being so bad at it 😭.) You're the kind of guy who can perfectly pull off a casual sexy wink but you feel awkward about doing it so you rarely do 😉. And a few more questions... Would you rather have average sex or a really good wank? 🍆💦 What's the most trivial thing that has ever given you "the ick" or the most trivial reason you've broken up with someone (or been broken up with)? I saw a tweet that said someone got the ick from seeing a guy read the little menu thingy in a box of chocolates and honestly I completely get it 😭. Do you think you could find a specific pussy in a blind taste test? 🍑🤣

Sara

That’s because that man in your dream is K!! He is giving us no clue what his face feautures look like, thats why its blank in your dreams. Btw love me some greek food girl 🇬🇷

Lunaramoo

25:00 hey actually it happens to me too. I don’t see that kind of dreams. I just saw them like 2 or 3 and in these dreams I always stopped my partner or myself. For example I saw one of my friends while we were kissing and i was in his lap. Then i felt his boner under me and he tried to undress me. Before he do that i was like “wtf am I dreaming right now?? Wake up!” Aaand i woke up. I don’t know why it happens but in that 2 dreams it was like that too.

Ashh

I can't even tell you how much I've missed these Q&A's. The advice, reassurance, chillness (Is that a word? It is now.. 💁‍♀️), plus the spicyness.. Just, YES. The answer to the first question was the absolute sweetest, I'm sobbing. 😭  *Prone b*ne: I highly, HIGHLY recommend* Be sure to thank K later 😅 💁‍♀️ Whomever is willing to take my dreams, please do. I have a few every now and then where there is verbal fighting and many, many er*tic dreams, quite often. Enjoy (: I appreciate visual, physical and verbal feedback; all of the above. It's super, super hot and a total turn on for me.  If someone knew I were perhaps a known VA and pursued me, I'd probably be quite nervous, but that's just me. No offense to anyone at all, but you never know what the future holds. 🤔 Assumption: TBD Question: TBD

Patricia Caike

Thankyou K , I really enjoy listening to your q and a audios . My assumption is that the amount of women you have had sex with is well into triple figures . 🙂

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Hey, I've been dying to ask a question. You have often said that you are a regular guy in your audio's. I am curious on your perspective if there is a way to bring out more K qualities in a regular guy (e.g. tenderness, comforting, considerate, caring, protective, playful flirty, supportive)? Also, I would be interested hearing your perspective on how people support males who may be struggling with mental health and whether you feel that difficulties with emoting or expressing emotional range can be signs of low mood and how to support if a guy is not being very open or ready to talk. Sorry this is a bit heavy.

Anna

Not Kay refusing to reject us so we can move on with our lives😭😭😭 staph

Anna

That’s a great question 🥰

Anna

That’s so funny! I think this song lyric suits Kay “I’m not a player I just crush a lot” 😂 🥰. ( Kay can you confirm or deny this if you see it 😂)

Velveteen Rabbit

I'm not K (obviously), but the only way to tell a guy is to just tell him. This conversation should ideally happen before anything starts. You have a right and an obligation to establish your boundaries *beforehand.* I don't have social anxiety, so I don't want to pretend I know what that's like, but you cannot be quiet when it comes to sex.

Velveteen Rabbit

Also, "....you cannot be quiet when it comes to sex" sounds weird. LOL! I hope you know what I meant! :)

Velveteen Rabbit

Yes!! LOL!! Big K! LOL!! I can't put my finger on what it is about him (or about me) that makes that be my first assumption!!

hospice ‘

Q for the next Q&A since i missed out on this one!!! - could you do an audio (SFW or NSFW) where there’s just the unedited raw audio challenge? one straight audio with the mess-ups, funny fumbling of words, just make it silly!

Ash

thanks for the qna! and thanks for including my thoughts about the direction of our society and how it’s encouraging people to engage in dom/sub dynamics in a healthier way, it’s nice that you’re willing to hear out different perspectives :) my assumption: you wish you weren’t anonymous and/or became a different kind of content creator like a gamer so that you can make connections with other content creators and get brand deals, free products, the usual content creator perks. VA work seems to be pretty independent for the most part, and doing nsfw content in general can make things like monetization and working with brands tricky question: do you know about quinn? if so, have you thought about working with them?

Aisha

Ban is pronounced as Bahn btw. It kind of rhymes with dawn.

Dramione

Thanks for answering~ :) I am so determined now to find that one audio! haha. If I do find it will you be honest and say if it is correct? I already have this idea written down, where can I send it? It is not an actual script but more like a "step by step" what happens in my fantasy. Hope you can give it a look :) Thanks for the q&a and all the other videos. Love your work and your always kind words. Be safe and happy everyone! The world is a crazy place right now..

chunkyfunky

we got the kiss!!! let’s gooo 💗💗💗

chunkyfunky

thank you for the q & a,and for you being so lovely as always.I have a question…so I’m around 5’8 but I feel like a lot of guys don’t really like a girl the same height as them or I read a lot guys prefer smaller,cute type girls? maybe it’s playing on my mind a lot but it makes me feel like this giant who’s in the way :(

Crystel

Okay two things one is an assumption and one is a request: I assume that you’re of the few guys who don’t get the “feel bad feeling” after you jerk off. And for the question can you do a yandere type audio or anal audio or maybe combine the two . Anyways I love ❤️

Julia

I am completely in love with your audios, they are a fundamental part of my day. I loved this one because I'm also inexperienced and my biggest anxiety is the pain. This is a request for yet another v-card audio where the listener is inexperienced. My question is, in one-night stands, how do you manage to maintain intimate connections? or do you prefer it to be just sex. My assumptions: When you're involved with someone, you tend to think of them when you make the audios. you miss having coworkers. You wouldn't do audios of things listeners are wanting but you are not into. You are organized not only with work, but with life. Your house/apartment has a homely decor. Kisses from Brasil 💜✨

imagineclouds xo

Omg you answered my question!!! I feel like we can learn so much from you, and the fact that we get to see a guy's perspective on this matter is so valuable. Thank you so so so much for your words, K :'( ❤ - I was wondering what you think about that: Are guys (let's say age 20-30) dealing with commitment issues? I don't know what it is, but guys my age are super scared of commitment and don't want to have something serious. I am upset about that tbh. Do you think Social Media may have an influence on their behaviour? - What is important to you when you receive audio drafts from Bumbles (SFW / NSFW)? I can imagine you receive a lot of requests. How do you filter them? Do you just skim them, or? - Also, if you fall for someone: Do you think you love the girl "differently" than during your teen years? How has "loving" someone changed over time for you? ♡ - Have you ever been to Switzerland? If yes, what places have you been to? :)

Julia

OMG yessss

Amy Miller

Hey K. Hope you’re having a great day/evening. Now you have mentioned it. Would you do a make up sex audio? X

Angel

dude i wait for the kissy sound after every q&a too and i think there’s a few with no 😗 at the end. my dumbass really goes “where’s my kiss, K? are we good?? are you mad at me right now??” 😭😳 not my proudest moment as an overthinker 🤣

matchaa3

Assumptions (in good fun 😊): -Since you do VA you're conscious in your daily life about taking care of your voice, e.g not shouting, staying hydrated etc -You've said a girl's name in an audio before and had to cut it out in the edit -You have a low daily screen time on your phone, like 3 hours or less -You tried to do no nut november one time but failed -You rarely use emojis when you text

Lala~

I know you don’t like sharing your personal information like your birthday. However could we have a day to celebrate you and bumbles Like an anniversary? A K DAY. A KUMBLE DAY. KANNIVERARY. Daddy&Princess Day

Anna

It’s him being so sauve I assume 😂. He’s definitely got me looking at English lit professors differently 👀. I’m moving them to the front of the line… for scientific reasons of course 😂

Angel

hey K! here’s an assumption i’ve been thinking recently: i think you enjoyed making ALL your SFW/NSFW audios but as a content creator, i think you would naturally have your personal favorites from the ones you’ve made. like a specific audio you enjoyed making a tiny bit more than the rest 😁 i’m just curious since you’ve made quite a lot already. i think more than 100 on Patreon and almost 300 on YouTube! 🥳 you must have your favorites right? i know us listeners have our faves as you can probably read in our comments 😅 kindly confirm or deny this so i can stop thinking about it already 😅 that’s it! love you! say hi to Nutmeg for me

Anna

Hi Kay. Please say Hi Annastasia 🥰. It’s kind of upsetting that Princess Anastasia didn’t make it as a Disney character because then I could hear you say you have a crush on me😂🫣. Anyway, My assumption is that your possessiveness is at about a 7 on a hypothetical scale. ( I remember that bar story with that guy, yourself and a girlfriend 😂) Please confirm or deny. 🤪. Do you ever feel possessive over bumbles 👀? I’ve seen VA’s post content regarding not wanting their fans to like anyone else 😂.

Marie

I love your Q&As! I find them so relaxing to listen to! Assumption: You like to search for yourself on twitter or reddit for an extra ego boost or to see the things people are saying about you that they can't say in your comments 🤭. Assumption: Reading through the patreon comments makes you hard. I just have one question, have you been enjoying the limericks I have been writing about your audios?

Velveteen Rabbit

Yes, it's the confidence (as it comes across in his audios, anyway), that probably makes him seem like an f boy.

Celia

Thank you, K. My assumption is that you fall in love very easily but you fall out of love very easily too.

Vevsop

Q&A: If the girl, is taking you on a date; What is YOUR ideal date/activities? (I’ve never been on a date, despite being in 2 relationships) so I’m curious as to what a guys ideal date is 😊 AUDIO IDEA: Your girlfriend tries to break up with you, because of her past relationships made her feel like she wasn’t enough. And she feels as if you deserve more. But you assure her she is “everything” you could have ever hoped for and has been the most compatible for you. HAVE A GREAT DAY. 👋🏻 Vee.

musicalchart8

Always love your q&a’s K ☺️ Here’s a few questions I wanted to throw your way that where just floating around in my head. Some might be a bit too personal so feel free to skip them. 💗 - Can you explain what “post nut clarity” is? Have you experienced it? Is it pretty self-explanatory or is there more to it? - What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done with your foreskin? I heard that some guys can make it into a small cup to catch water in the shower. Assumptions: - You’re a snowboarder but you have experience as a skier. - You watch anime on Netflix only. - You’re the most nerdy friend in your friend group. - You admire a girl owning her workouts in the weight room at the gym.

Cahya

Hi K! I’ve got a question, although its more like asking for advice (i asked a guy out for the first time EVER 👀). If this makes into the next Q&A (hopefully it does, fingers and toes crossed) dont worry about trying to pronounce my name correctly 😅. A few months ago i stumbled upon a shop in Geneva and one of the employee asked me to go in and i did, because he was so handsome and totally my type. I was a bloody mess, i was avoiding eye contact and trying not to smile. Before i left, i asked for his number because i was interested in the product he was selling and also hoping i could shoot my shot with him. Fast forward a few weeks ago, i finally made my move. I texted him asking if he remembered me and asked him out for coffee. He said he did remember me and would love to get coffee. Then i tried to continue the conversation asking hows his week been. He’s seen the message but didn’t reply. What do i do? I thought guys preferred it if the girl makes the first move? I was so excited to go out with him, now I’m just confused. But at the same time, I’m almost over it. I made my shot and now just taking it as experience.

Cahya

Oh my god!! I remember him telling us about that story, do you remember which audio its from?

Kiki Doll

Yey! I’ve been looking forward to the next Q&A 😁 Just enjoying a much needed chill out day today so it’s awesome timing too. Hollywood shower, comfies on, fridge full of snacks, and just listening to you…. perfect!! 🤤🤤🤤 My assumptions are: You have a nickname for your 🍆 (All of my past partners did and now I’m wondering if it’s a universal guy thing 👀) There are some kinks you have in real life that you haven’t explored or incorporated into an audio yet 🤔 You’re into the idea that people might be able to hear your girl moaning and screaming whilst you’re fucking her 😈 (in the right circumstances!! 🫣)

autumn

Hi K, thank you for the QnA. They resemble memoirs, which are the primary audiobooks I listen too. My assumptions are that you drive a Jeep Wrangler with big ass wheels and prefer borrowing books from the library over purchasing from a bookstore. Also, you could go months without posting a photo on platforms like Facebook or Instagram and irl prefer silence over empty chatter. I image a smiling man, or at least an individual who instinctively smiles when someone is speaking to them—especially for the first time. My question for you is, do you enjoy reading thrillers? In the past year, I began making a concerted effort to read for pleasure despite being a history student. Thrillers have been my favorite, especially the courtroom ones, because my wild imagination is transported into another reality that’s similar to our world, yet completely different. It’s gotten to a point that if I don’t read, then my mood is depleted. My second, third, and forth questions are, if you had to choose between the music, pop culture, and technology of the 70’s, 80’s or 90s which one would you choose? Do you enjoy doing yoga? And, are you a fan of the band Basement? They’re my favorite band! Merci 😄

Velveteen Rabbit

I forgot to add....Yes, it's Knott's Berry Farm! I grew up in Southern California and went there several times! I liked it much better than the other So Cal parks!

autumn

I totally forgot to ask in my post, but I’ve been wondering for some time if you’re a fan of The Story So Far?

imagineclouds xo

Some of my assumptions ☺️:  - you often drink some alcohol before recording nsfw audios - you talk to yourself when you're not recording bc it has become a "habit" to speak a lot - ..or you make sure not to speak a lot if you're not recording bc you want to take care of your vocal chords - you have done a vocal chords check-up / done an ultrasound of your vocal chords (if yes, how was the experience? :O) - you record your audios at ungodly hours (2am or really early in the morning) - before recording, you spend some time to warm-up your voice ✨ - you're a sapiosexual - people always think you're very genuine and down-to-earth - you always think positively! - you do not like to go to the gym with other people (you prefer to work out by yourself) - you enjoy doing yardword 🌱

Nika

As an Albanian girl, I was shook when he talked about Albanian culture haha.

dundermifflin

These assumptions seem really fun I wanna participate now😂 1) you seem like you drink a lot of just straight black coffee. Like I don’t imagine you (based on very little info lmao) ever adding sugar or cream to anything. 2) you also seem like the type to just silently but angrily turn off your PC and walk away without saying anything to your teammates rather than raging when something bad happens in game lol. 3) My last one!! You most likely don’t like Fortnite or Valo and only play those fantasy-esque games I keep hearing you reference in your audios. I tried league of legends once and I didn’t really like it idk if that counts as a fantasy game! PS.- if that last one is true, I vouch you try fortnite lol it’s actually really fun when you play with friends and there’s no building now so it’s even better!! Also apex legends! There’s this horror game called devour too that’s extremely fun w friends! I get crazy and stressed out with valo so I won’t even recommend that one to you lol. Thanks K!

imagineclouds xo

Geneva?! Are you from Switzerland? If yes, Hi from Berne 😳😁!

Cahya

I’m from Malaysia but studying in Geneva. I love Berne and the architecture there

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Love your question regarding "happiness and contentment" Miriam. Check out "The happiness trap" by Russ Harris if you haven't already. Tried some delayed gratification getting everyone in the house quiet and in bed and time to myself for this audio. So worth the wait. I am having visions of a sexy chocolate fondue with fruit and chocolate as desert with K. AAAAAAAAH! That could get quite messy and a whole lot of fun!

Steph ♡

Currently building a stroller for my sister and hearing this 🫡🫡🫡

Anna

I dontttt😭 Im sure someone does though !

RoRo

Q&A 7 😊

maryam

aw thank you for the rec! i will check it out x

maryam

hi k, thanks so much for answering my questions!! i have some more: 1. have you ever been told you have a celebrity doppelgänger? 2. what are your tips for moving past rejection if it’s really knocked your self-confidence? also i just wanted to say as someone who is an insomniac too, your audios have been so helpful! the first time i heard one i got 7 hours of sleep after barely getting 4/5 hours for half a year. so thank you so much <3 being well rested is one of the best feelings

Mouse

Okay im usually stumped for questions because idk if i can think of a relevant one but i just wanted to say the kiss at the end was so cute💀

musicalchart8

Tbh I was actually pleasantly surprised to hear that Belle wasn’t one of the first Disney princesses you had a crush on as a kid that you mentioned, I would’ve assumed she was your top pick 😅

Mouse

Oh okay I just thought of one!! Do you listen to Dance Gavin Dance? I'm going to the concert in may! They're my favorite american band but another one of my most listened to bands would have to be Deftones😌 I guess I'm just curious to see if theres any more fans out here~

lstninglzr

that lil peck at the end of your QAs never cease to get me in my motions and i just end up giggling like an infatuated middle schooler i- the power you hold 💀

K’s Sweetheart

Hi K how are you doing? btw I took the advice you gave me on the last QnA 💜 A couple fun questions 1) Are you a fan of Daughtry? If so what are some of your favorite songs 💜 2) can you make an audio where you speak softly & add in some whispers ( like a sleepy audio) 3) what are some plans you have for the summer Also how’s Nutmeg doing ?🐶 Thank you for all you do, don’t forget to drink water/tea 💜

Amelia

My assumption about you is that you're very self aware and make a conscious effort to improve yourself in all aspects of your life. You seem like a man who happily acknowledges his flaws, admits when he is wrong and takes full responsibility for his actions. I have a question too. If you get married would you want your wife to take your surname? If she didn't and you had children would you be okay with your children having her surname rather than yours?

ro

What is your mbti type?

Iced coffee

Hey K!! Hope you are doing well!! Assumptions: - you don't use emojis that often. - you have a window in front of your desk. - since you love drinking coffee and tea I think that you have a large collection of mugs (if not at least I do 😅) A mini request Could you please share with us your grab n 'go breakfast, I'm a new teacher and I've run out of ideas 🥲💔

Christiana

I think you secretly love being little spoon but you don't like to admit it to your partners because you think it makes you seem unmanly. Question - how soon is too soon for a girl to fart in front of you?

Alex Mladenova

Hiiiii K! I've listened to your audios for a long time and I wonder when you think of a scenario do you write it as how you would act in real life in that situation or is it some kind of character? Sorry if you've answered before. And second question: Have you heard of Bulgaria, I guess you've traveled a lot and would you like to visit it some day? That's all, hope you're doing great and keep up the good work we will always support you<3<3<3

Leean

First Q&A with me as a patreon 🥳

CupcakeLove

My little heart feels so full lol thank you so much for everything you do for us and all the support, it truly means the world to everyone!! I shall be buying something super sexy so I can wear it and feel confident and no one is the wiser to the very lewd scene before them lol

euphoria x

I'm a big daydreamer and I usually think about love and loving men with me and this men is you. I can't see he's face,just the figure and I can feel that is you. Like when I start to think about love or relationship I always start thinkink about you.And sometimes its weird cause I only know your voice...But its you.I listen to your audios everyday. It helps me feel so loved...Wow thats kinda deep😄

Leean

YK what I would love to have ? An Apology sex audio for K !

Leean

There is an audio K made ones . Where he was on his way to work and he got A call from the listener having an orgasm , and he had to take a day off and went back home , SOMEBODY PLEASE GIVE ME THE NAME OF THE AUDIO

Erin26

I’m assuming that you’re in a place in life now that wherever you go, (i.e. dentist, doctor, grocery store, shoe store or movie theatre) your brain sees if it can be turned into a NSFW audio? If so, have you been in a really bizarre place that your brain has tried to turn into an unique audio?

Marie

omg I remember which one you’re talking about, I thought it was from around last May but I can’t find it now??

nicolew97

I’m so sad the recent audio of the making the grumpy girlfriend happy again audio is gone:(( what happened 🥲🥲

Leean

There was an audio K made once where he was on his way to work but got a Call from the listener having an orgasm and he had to take a day off and went back home , would appreciate if somebody tell me the name of the audio

jesslyn

that’s the let me take control audio!

jesslyn

K WHERE ARE THE BLOOPERS

Pastypastries

I never thought someone would misread my username as panties but I guess it makes sense. It's supposed to be pasty pastries as in my "pastries" aka lady bits and tits are very pasty. Seriously, I tanned for an entire summer once and was about a whole shade darker than my usual Casper skin tone so I'm very glad the whole jersey shore super tan skin and bleach blonde hair trend of the 2000s is long gone and we're indulging all skin tones and hair colors lol. As for a question: What do you think the best way to ease someone into being a more aggressive Dom would be? Ever since I started opening up about liking being submissive and controlled etc in the bedroom it's been great. It only started because I called him daddy while I was drunk. It literally just slipped out. Afterwards I asked if I weirded him out he said no and I started opening up about fantasys etc. Anyways I may have jumped the gun a bit and bought a flog and a riding crop.... lol. He didn't say anything when the package came, and we have a kid so I figured it was just kind of tee hee talk after bedtime silence. After a few times of him not mentioning it during sex I brought it up and he kind of talked around it in the moment. Afterwards I asked directly and he flat out said he's not into it and isn't comfortable hurting me. Which is bizarre considering the things we've done. Lol. I tried to explain that I didn't want him to hurt me and that it would be extremely hot and pleasurable for me but he just wasn't comfortable with it. I haven't bought it up since and I don't want to pressure him. I do feel like we've been exploring more, and becoming even more comfortable with each other sexually which I didn't know was possible. Except this one thing I don't feel comfortable asking about anymore. I've heard you say in prior q&a's you've bought toys then been turned down so I know you know how that feels. Lol. Plus I never want to pressure someone into something but it is something that I want to do at least once in my life and seeing as this is the person I plan on spending my life with I want some advice on how to broach the subject without coming across pushy, needy, or gross. I know he wouldn't think I'm gross or whatever that's in my own head with all my trauma bullshit but I def don't want him to feel pressured into it and I don't want to guilt him either so I've just not said anything at all. Oof sorry for the long reply/question.

X

Assumptions - You're really bad at doing other accents. I have this idea of you panicking because you think someone has recognized your voice irl so you put on the most ridiculous voice or accent to try and disguise yourself. You've slid into a female VA's DMs and been left on read. You've received unsolicited nudes from listeners. You don't really live in Canada. I jokingly mentioned this to you in an email a few months ago and I'm unsurprised that you ignored it in your reply to me because I probably sounded unhinged lol, but, the more I think about it, the more my suspicion grows.

Erin26

I’m new to the site. Will someone tell me why fans are called Bumbles?

April

I have a question 🙋🏼‍♀️ How do I stop falling in love with you! I’m getting concerned I’m catching feelings for a voice!! X

Grace

I really need some advice 😅 So I am in a causal relationship and have been for a month but I really really like him but he has said that he doesn't like lables and just wants to be causal. I feel really confused about it cause we have sex, cuddle, kiss just like any other couple but he still wants to be causal. I've also had friends tell me that after 3 months if he still just wants to be causal I should leave him, so I'm just confused as what to do and if how i am feeling about is actually ok for me to feel? I really do like him but scared if i tell him I want to be serious if he will leave. Since we are causal aswell he can see other people but he said he wouldn't and i do trust him but its really hard when people tell you he is lying and will do it so i also overthink about it. I don't know what else to really do 😅

Sherry Merrill

I think that knowing you play along makes your audios much hotter.

Kimmie Swan

If he would leave you just for wanting to be official then I'm sorry my love he is using you

Jenna

Really loved how comfortable you were in this Q&A 🥰🥹

Jenna

What does p*say taste like to you?!

Ashleyy?

Hi girl!! It’s hard to hear and hard to take this step but you have to set boundaries and be upfront. Your feelings matter above all else. Tell him straight up what you want. Tell him you want a relationship and a boyfriend and girlfriend label!! Let him know I want something serious bc I caught feelings and if we’re not on the same page I’m leaving. Don’t wait around for him to commit and be ready you deserve so much better!! And he’s definitely using you for sex, cuddles, and relationship stuff without the responsibility and label of a relationship. Best of luck queen. :))

imagineclouds xo

oooh, I know exactly how you feel! I am in the EXACT same situation as you are, you are not alone :'( <3 I kinda ended up in a 'situationship' with the guy (from my question that K gave an answer to) and I just had a talk with that guy yesterday about my feelings and everything. Btw, this guy is also from Canada but... he could never hold a candle to K :'D Turns out that he likes me but he does not know where this will lead us to. So he is kinda unsure about me. I don't know how to feel but all I know is, I need to make up my mind and really ask myself what I want and I, or shall I say, we BOTH need to put ourselves first. If we keep going on like this, we might just end up being more damaged and I really do not want you to go through such a pain. You deserve more, you are amazing <3 Oh and these replies above helped a bit but I do not want to believe / realise that I am being played by that guy ._. Where's the clown-emoji? X'D

maryam

oh i thought of another one haha :) girls making the first move: do guys genuinely like it as much as they say they do or is it overhyped? also, what was the best/most memorable way that you’ve been asked out? thanksss <3

Erin26

Who do you sometimes compare yourself to? When was the last time you tried something new? Do you ever stop and wonder how different the world would be if you didn’t exist?

Grace

Don't think he would use me, he told me that he really likes me but also doesn't want to rush into a serious relationship. So vahwhqhishshss I want to keep hoping that ya know one day he will want to be my boyfriend but also I said to myself if this relationship stays the same in 3months then I'm walking away :) I'm so glad that I am not alone cause I was starting to feel like I'm crazy hahahaha I believe in us and I really hope the guy realises what an amazing and beautiful person he will lose of he doesn't come to a conclusion about you both ❤️ and I know how you feel about not wanting to believe the advice 😂 we are both clowns ❤️

thatgirlknitstherapy!

You've totally got me intrigued. Do you have a theory yet of a type for K?

Valerie

I love listening to these is the shower 😌🤭 also I hope Nutmeg is doing well 💜 Question: K, who would you rather hang out with? You from 10 years ago or you 10 years in the future?

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Hey Grace, I'm just pondering your situation and wondering what it is about the labels or official status that is bothering this dude? There may be a range of answers here, and this might influence how you might choose to act in response. Is there a way you can get him to say more about this? If there is anxiety or baggage from any previous experiences, this might be something that can be worked through if he's open, but it might also mean he will not be in a place to be open anytime soon. I am not sure you yet have answers here, and you need information to make decisions for yourself here. And, I think if you are prepared to be "all in" you deserve someone who can match you in this, and so it would be up to him if he can get there or not.

meeyaaoo

Hello K First, I want to thank you a lot because what you are doing here is encourages people to discuss embarrassing and sensitive matters comfortably and without reservation . I am from the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia and we are very cautious about these matters. Second: Your voice is the most beautiful voice I've ever heard. Third: My question is there is a video on your YouTube channel entitled (We can't ,I have a girl friend) There is a drawing of a person on the picture. Does this person look a bit like you? 😏😂☻️

musicalchart8

Kinda random assumption incoming 😅 I assume you can dunk a basketball 🏀

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Listening to old audio's and now have assumption you have great biceps and triceps. 💪💪🔥😊

Vicky ❤️

Hi k! This is my first time ever leaving a comment / question for the QnA, sorry if this was asked before, but my question is, how do you stop comparing yourself to others?, I've been struggling with this for quite a while now, every time i meet a guy or girl, that can potentially be my partner, i keep comparing myself to everyone around that's also looking for a relationship with them (if that makes sense), always end up getting to the conclusion that I'm not good enough for them, and that there's no way they're gonna like me. Also, thanks for doing all this amazing audios, i LOVE your voice, always helps me to sleep ❤️

ChaoticRedhead

Hi! I don’t have an assumption to share at the moment but some questions; - Have any Chase Atlantic lyrics inspired an audio, if so which one? - Do you or have you played Magic the Gathering? - What is your guilty pleasure video game and/or movie? - Do you currently have a favourite audio of yours? (whether SFW or NSFW) maybe that you were particularly proud of creating or due to the response from the community. ❤️

davina

omg so i have questions 4 the next one 🎀 what was ur favorite thing to do as a kid ? 🎀 what would u accomplish in life , if u could only accomplish one thing ? 🎀 what is the most beautiful thing in the world ? thank u sm 4 the audios u put out . i literally don't know how u have the effort to do this . u help so many people , don't forget to help yourself when u need to <3 ~ davi

Alley cat

Hi K, I hope you are doing good! I assume that when one of your friends is bragging about the last person they fucked you would love nothing more than to put him (and anyone else who will listen) in their place by letting them know that you make thousands of women cum regularly just to let them know what’s up. I assume that you are borderline boujie (you know, things like expensive hair products, red wing boots, Amex gold card, fancy collars for nutmeg, high thread count sheets, love Anderson Cooper, get manicures, wear pressed clothes when enjoying a night out, secretly listen to Michael Buble, fan of Sunday brunches). Q: what is your shoe size and is what they say true 👀

Alley cat

Hi K! I hope you are doing well. Thank you for these Q and A episodes, they are so fun! I assume that when one of your friends is bragging about the last person they fucked you would love nothing more than to let them (and anyone else who will listen) know that you regularly help thousands of women get off just to let them know what’s up! Have you ever been tempted to spill the tea? I assume that you are borderline boujie (you know, things like expensive hair products, red wing boots, Amex gold card, fancy collars for nutmeg, high thread count sheets, love Anderson Cooper, get manicures, pressed clothes when enjoying a night out, secretly listen to Michael Buble, fan of Sunday brunches) Q: what is your shoe size and is what they say true 👀

Shhh baby it's me

Questions to ask K 1) how often do you watch or listen to porn? 2) would you Everett a girl try anal play on you (nothing crazy). 3) what is your fav kind of lingerie? 4) have you ever been to NSFW events in your city? Quick story time in the city that I live right now in Canada we have this event every two months called dirty bingo everyone gets dressed up in there dirtiest outfits and a drag queen host the event. It's like regular bingo just more jazzed up but obviously you can't say bingo or you get spanked you have to say the dirty word that someone comes up with I was lucky to be the first person to pick the word or phrase mine was "come on my face daddy" looool

Father Roach

Please, tell me a joke good sir :)

Alley cat

Hi K! I hope these are alright but I have 2 assumptions and a question. Thank you!! I assume that when one of your friends is bragging about the last girl he fucked that you would love nothing more than to let him and anyone else who will listen know that you are the undisputed orgasm king who brings pleasure to thousands of listeners every week. I assume that you are kinda boujie (you know, things like expensive hair products, red wing boots, Amex gold card, fancy collars for nutmeg, high thread count sheets, love Anderson Cooper, get manicures, pressed clothes when enjoying a night out, secretly listen to Michael Buble, fan of Sunday brunches, shined shoes, etc ) Q: what is your shoe size and is what they say true 👀

cinnamongirl

i assume that you look like ezra fitz from pretty little liars because your voice just gives those vibes

Fabi

I was wondering the other day. "What if K actually have a pornhub channel with his partner, or he's actually a onlyfans model, or a twitch streamer, or a youtube daily vlogger, or one of those tiktokers that likes to do shirtless tiktoks to show their muscles, or a instagram influencer, etc... But since he doesn't want his listeners here to have their imagination ruined by knowing how he looks like, he just prefers not mentioning his other public career here? What if he prefers keeping his public/followers separate?". I know this sounds crazy, my imagination can take me to insane places lol but I just wanted to know your reaction to this assumption, if you ever considered doing any of these internet careers after becoming a VA or even before that? And if not, if you had to choose one, which one you think is more your style of content creator (besides being a VA ofc). Do you plan on doing a threesome audio anytime soon? Or is this topic on your list of audios you plan on making one day? Please do, I would highly appreciate it. Now, pleasure dom. Do you plan on incorporating this into your audios? Making the listener orgasm multiple times in many different ways in one day or session? Please please please. I love your audios so much ♡>.<♡

Gem

Ok dropping down the questions and assumptions if ever we get a q&a this month Assumptions You’re the type to grab anything near you and use it as a bookmark whenever you need to pause your reading. Assumption # 2: Your also the type of rider who uses “point signal” when you pass by another biker Assumption #03 You can finish your scrips in one sitting. Ok for the questions: 1.) what animes/show are you watching right now? 2.) if your comfortable sharing; What was the most embarrassing time you got turned on? 3.) What is the scariest or riskiest thing you've ever done? 4.) Do you prefer cuddling more or making out? Anyways hope you’re havin an amazing month ahead K! Give nutmeg head scratches from us!

Anna

In my experience men are better at compartmentalizing than women. So if your relationship is in the hook up box to them most likely it will stay there. I would stop doing relationship type things if it’s making you want more. So no more cuddles etc etc. If it’s just casual just make it completely casual. Don’t build bonds. Maybe start to make that boundary and see if he changes his mind. He has no reason to change his mind if you are willing to treat him like a boyfriend without the label. It’ll be good for you as well incase he doesn’t want more. Good luck honey.

A J

Hey K, I got my hear broken really badly in my first and only relationship and now I don't really see myself getting into another relationship ever. Any tips? It's been almost 4 years.

Brianna

Not me listening to this when I’m studying….

Thalia Mara

Okay hold up, wtf is maintenance mode 😭💀

autumn

Here’s a few more that I randomly thought of: Do you believe participating in hookup culture is a prerequisite for dating? When becoming intimate with a person, communication is very important, but how much communication is too much communication? In your experience has titty sucking been a major stimulus for your partners? There was a time when a guy swore his titty sucking made all his previous partners cum from that alone (I’ll mention he refused to eat pussy but expected head) and it did absolutely nothing for me. Personally, I feel it’s great to give the chest attention, but that being the only attention given across the body…meh. Then again, everyone is different. K, sorry but, I have to ask, did you have an emo haircut when you were younger? If you’re a fan of concerts, what bands have you seen live and did you enjoy your experience?

Kimmie Swan

he doesn't know what he wants and he's confused with how he feels about you. But what makes it bad is his lack of communication.

beans

Hi K! First of, how are you doing? :). My question is what music do u listen to during sexy time, if you do ofc, if not then what would you most likely listen to? I normally never leave comments, but after listening to your Q&A’s I’ve felt comfortable enough doing so, so thank you!! Also keep up the good work :))

Laila✨?

- Hey K I know this might be a weird request, But can you sing material girl for me. If you do this for me I will bake you best cookies in the world just for you✨🥺 - oh and one question I have for you is, do you think you are more dominant or submissive? Also would you want to be pegged?

idalis sabrina

hi K! i am currently in university majoring in biology. i originally wanted to earn my bachelor’s in biology so i could go to veterinary school. but now seeing all the preparation i have to do to to even get into vet school, it overwhelms me. i’m considering changing majors to liberal arts so i can become a teacher. however, i always hear that it will be extremely difficult to find somewhere to teach and that teachers don’t get paid that good now and probably will decrease even more in the future. i just have this slight feeling though that i would really enjoy being a teacher. what should i do? how was your teaching experience? p.s. can you please say hi to my cat whiskers? she’s always next to me when i listen to your audios. thanks K! 🫶🏻 p.p.s. i’m not sure if you are still unsure or not but you have been saying my name correctly lol. i know you have been trying to figure it out for a while so i hope you see this <3

Binks

Hey, this is waay late, but I wanted to share just in case it was at all helpful. My husband and I both have adhd, depression, and I have anxiety. He also grew up in a house where the women yelled and sort of bulldozed the men. One of the ongoing repercussions of all of that is a difficulty for him to Recognize, Identify, and Verbalize the various things that he is feeling at a given time. His type of adhd is Very different from mine. For him, it's like there's a tv blaring in his head and someone keeps flipping the channels. The important thing I'm trying to say is that for me, the 2 most important tools for communicating with him about anything but especially emotional subjects are Understanding and Patience. We've been married for 10 years, and the more I understand about how his brain works, what he's dealing with, and how what I am saying or doing comes across to him.. the more successful I feel at having deep and complex conversations with him. This is Only possible though, with a Mountain of Patience. My man needs time to think to be able to talk. I should mention that during the first few years we were together I was constantly concerned that (and questioning if) something was "wrong" because of what I perceived to be drops in his mood. In reality he was just concentrating on various things .. like driving. :) So early on 2 of the things he mentioned to me were the fact that I actually listened to him (which he was Not accustomed to) and then he stressed the importance of believing him at his word the first time. So anyway- Idk if this was helpful at all.. fingers crossed it was. Mental health is such a broad field, but hopefully there's something you can relate to in what I've shared.

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Thanks for your reply @Joy Binkley. I am certain not ruling out neurodiversity on either of our account (between myself and significant male). There's been a fairly long experience of not feeling "seen" or prioritised for a long period of time, and I am trying to demonstrate compassion and understanding that he may not be in a good space himself, but not really knowing how to generate more conversation or action on this front due to stress and seeming impatience from his communication. There is a very complex mix of shiftwork impact on sleep, very intense grief after loss of dog whom had chronic health issues (his "spirit animal" that he was bonded to intensely), with him appearing just flooded with his own struggles and voicing dissatisfaction. I do feel like I am sometimes just the nearest one to unload this stuff upon and an easy target, but feel I can't do much right and worse about myself. We've both had loss and grief and needed to give up on some important things we wanted, but I don't feel like he recognises or understands my contribution or efforts and where it's involved accepting some sadness for me. I don't feel like he'd know what to say to give me reassurance or comfort, it's not his way to apologise and when he kind of draws blank on these aspects of communication and support, I just feel like I either feel concern that he's not in a good space and doesn't have the internal resources to be there for me, or perhaps he legitimately feels that it's redundant and I'm asking too much emotionally. No doubt, we have differences in our attachment styles and I'm trying to negotiate/ navigate it.

Sara

You woke up and decided to speak nothing but facts sis 👏🏽💯