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Hey Bumbles! It's been about two months since we did a Q&A, and I'm getting that itch again to sit down for a chat. So, as promised, here is the dedicated place to post your questions, topics, funny stories, problems. No question is too silly, so don't be shy. 

I can start us off: What is the most intimate non-sexual thing you've done with someone? And as always, take care of yourselves. Don't forget to stay hydrated. x 

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Isabella

Hi Hope! I am jus reading this now!! Thanks so much for the advice. And you’re probably right I was quite nervous already so I am sure my body was not usually as relaxed as it usually is. We haven’t attempted it again ( I think my man is a bit apprehensive to bring it up and he is probably waiting for me to initiate it 😊) but I think we will. Thank you again for the advice ❤️

Tee

i looooove sitting next to my date if it’s a booth or cosy couch situation. i recently had a date at a cafe and we had a table in the back which had a couch on either side. i sat down first and expected him to sit next to me but he sat across from me instead so when he came back to our table after ordering i told him to sit next to me 😹 i just wanted to be close so we could touch and share our space with each other.

Sheree Melville

How did you start asmr and why ? sorry if this question has already been answered btw I love your videos 🤍

Alex

Hey K! I got one! How many cheetos can cross the street before Christmas four years ago?

Alex

Sorry- that wasn’t a serious question 😂 ok- I don’t know if you’ve answered this before but, what is your current favorite book?

jaynaaaaa

Hi k! how do i stop procrastinating 💀 i have 4 term papers due soon and i’m almost finished one, started research on the other and haven’t started the other two. i’m simply going to drop out😭😭😭

Bezzy Mills

What's the hardest you've ever laughed during sex/why?

eia

Would you get couple tattoos? Also, what advice would you give first time being inked?

McKaylah Cosgrove

hi K :) this is kind of dark but since you’re always open to discussing mental health and i always feel comfortable with all of you i figured i would ask i’ve been struggling with self harm (i’m 8 days clean) and i was wondering if you had any ideas for alternatives to cutt!ng or anything that might help suppress those thoughts i love you so so much btw <3

Ashleigh

It went like this (copied and pasted from our chat): Him: Yeah I gotcha, and I’m not moving from this spot. I wanna be there when you get the freedom to be an incredible new self 😊 So I don’t mind if it’s not received now, but I’ll be darned if I don’t say how I feel. I love you, and it’s too bad if you’re not ready for that. You started this path too long ago to be able to stop it.

McKaylah Cosgrove

by alternatives i mean something else that might distract my mind from the urge to feel the pain like i’ve tried holding ice before but it doesn’t help me much

Xx_iTairy_xX

Hey K! Hope your doing well! I wanted to ask you, how do you find motivation to do something? For 4 months now I do not feel motivated at all. Since my car accident everything feels meh lately, like I’m stuck. I don’t know what to do :(. About your question! Well, the most intimate non-sexual thing I ever did was when I saw my boyfriend cry for the first time. It was pretty shocking cause he’s very reserved with his emotions. I never hugged someone as tight as I hugged him that day. Seeing him cry that night broke my heart. ❤️‍🩹 Hope you see this! Love u!!! 🤍

nelly

hello K! what is your favourite Chase Atlantic song? Also, have you ever considered coming to Brazil? Lots of love from a brazilian fan! kisses ♡♡ :3

Pamela

Hello all. Hope you all are having a great start of the holiday season. Ok, to start of with the question that K has asked us about the most intimate non-sexual thing, I was with this guy and we were watching the stars. Just talking about life and catching up. I normally don't ask questions, but I figured I would throw this question out there cause I've been very curious. At any point during your recordings have you realized that you have accidentally said an Ex's name in your audio and had to start over? I have a feeling you have. ;-)

Jess

What is your astrological sign?! I’m assuming Scorpio or maybe Pisces

Lisa Nguyen

Hello K ! I wanted to say I have just recently started listening to your audios and I want thank you for all the hard work that you put into these videos. I'm sure it can't be easy. I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 2 and a half years and listening to your audios has helped me feel comforted and also a little naughty. Lol anyways my question to you is that if you could reenacted a audio in really life which one would it be and why? Again thank you for all that you do!!! Love you 🥰

hunnie_bonnie

Lmaoooo the way i'm crying/laughing at this because i too am in the middle of writing reports 😭😭

Fat ass Kelly price

Hi k I just wanted to ask would you ever do a throat training audio in the future it seems to be right up your ally

Lexiii

Hey k!! I never really ask questions I’m just hear to listen but I just wanted to ask how do you explain to people what you do and do you have another job besides this and Youtube??

Snwbby197

Hi K! I dont have a question but I wanted you to know that you have helped me a great deal. I recently began struggling with anxiety and listening to your audios brings me so much joy and peace. Even the naughty ones 😁 your voice is so soothing and the rumbles feel like they massage my brain. Plus, your laugh is contagious so that makes me laugh. Thank you for what you do, from the bottom of my heart 🥰

RoRo

Oooh yay! Love a Q&A! What's your most unpopular or controversial opinion? 😱 And speaking of "controversial"...In one of your Q&As last year you said you were writing a "controversial" paper but wouldn't tell us what it was about. Did you finish it? And might you be willing to tell us what it was about now? 👀 Do you ever listen to other male VAs for inspiration? 🍆 Have you ever done or said something to a girl that went down really well in an audio but didn't go so well in real life? Why do you post your YouTube audios at different times in summer and winter? Does the BoyfriendAudio universe not partake in daylight saving time?⌚ Also, I've been in Vancouver recently and here are some of my observations... Japadog - AMAZING! Thanks for the recommendation! Canadian light switches are the wrong way round and it's annoying as hell 😅. I feel like I'm going to get some hate for this one but Tim Hortons is hugely overrated in my opinion 🍩. Canadian drivers are so polite! 🚙

Lisa Nguyen

Also to answer your question the most intimate thing that I have done that was not sexual was cuddling face to face with my boyfriend and just getting lost in each other's eyes.

Léïna

Me who never done anything intimate or sexual all in my 20 years!!!🥲✋️I hate to admit that kinda mess up with me a bit. Like knowing I've never attracted men that way,even the ones I want. Anywhoooo. Hi K, how was your weekend or day? I'm a bookworm myself and my question would be what's a sex scene from a book that you'll like to recreate?mine is every scene in the Surrender: An Erotic short by Rilzy Adams(especially the nipple play scene😩). If u do have one name of the book and author (I'm in a reading slump, only a book with only smutt that could get me out of it). What kind of teacher are you? (Also kind sir, you're not helping me who have a teacher kink sir, seeing that you're fine self is one✋️).

XTiuhtiX

Hi K! 1. What's your favorite drink when you're sick? 2. The news and media are feasting with bad and scary news, it's really easy to be consumed by the fear. Do you have any way to get away from it? To dissociate yourself from the scary stuff going around the globe? And to answer your question; The most intimate thing without being sexual I think is the moment right before you kiss someone for the first time. The adrenaline, the excitement. like everything else stops for that brief moment before your lips touch. I don't really know anything like it.

dundermifflin

Omg I’m early!! I have like four questions feel free to only answer the ones you want: 1) The office or Friends (there is a correct answer…) 2) Have you ever experienced a partner that was super hesitant to be intimate because of past occurrences? How did you deal with it? Relationships are kinda on the back burner for me right now because I’m scared there’s no one out there that’s truly ‘patient’. Like they’ll say they are but once they realize that sex is actually gonna take a while they start pulling back:/ 3) Who do you main on valo? I feel like you give Chamber energy 4) What’s your top three chase Atlantic songs rn and why is it heaven and back, why stop now, and uncomfortable?:) Hope you’re doing well K!<3

Kelp

hi K, i really enjoy your audios and thank you for the peace of mind you bring. Sorry i never got intimate with anyone so i have nothing to share. Here are the first questions i ever asked! 1. I want a relationship but i'm very introverted and super unconfident about my appearance so i've never used dating apps cuz i don't even have photos of myself to begin with. People say just be yourself at school/work and someone will see you, but that doesn't seem to work at all too. It's really depressing to see people around, including those who didn't really want/plan to get into a relationship, finding a partner. Don't get me wrong I am truly happy for them but when they share their stories I really wish I can know what those experiences feel like too. Is there anything I can do? 2. I always wish someone is there next to me and I find comfort from audios or my own imagination. But when I do this sometimes I just pull myself back to the reality and keep reminding myself there's no one there for me like that, which makes me more miserable. What do you suggest to get out of this loop? Sorry for two not so fun and lengthy questions. I can't thank you more if you answer them. Wish you a happy rest of the year and new year! :D

Cahya

Hi K, hope you and nutmeg are doing well! I’ve got a question, so sorry but i had to send a small story about what happened. I recently moved to a new country a few months ago and as i was walking down a few stores, a cute guy who i assumed was working kinda called me over to try a product. While trying them out, i was debating if i should ask for his number and i was like fuck it, why not. So i did, although i didn’t have the number for the country i moved to. By the time i texted him, a few weeks passed by and i was very on the fence about it. But thanks to my friends, i had the courage to ask him out and convincing myself ‘a lot of guys like it when girls ask them out. It’s always the opposite’. I texted him, he gave me his real WhatsApp number and said he would like to go out sometime. I then tried to continue the conversation but he ghosted me. So the question is, do guys REALLY like it when girls ask them out or is it not true? Or maybe it’s me 😅 this happened a few months ago so im over it, i just find it a good experience now, at least i can say i tried to ask a guy out. Btw, love you and your videos/audios. I always have to listen to them before/while i sleep to help with my insomnia. Again, SO sorry it’s quite long

Bri

Hi K! I have been a fan of your content going on 4 years now and just out of curiosity when you make these spicy audios are you actually getting off or is it all acting? As i know a lot of creators who make spicy content feel werid about it and just act. K you do so much for us through your audios, giving people a loving boyfriend character and an overall safe place to go to whenever they want. As listeners is there anything we can do to give you more support and love?❤️ An intimate thing i did that wasn't sexaul was probably for my high school ex boyfriend, before we started dating i heard through some friends that his mother had died and he was struggling, but he was a jock and seemed super popular but somehow i got the guts to talk to him during break and asked him if he was okay, we talked for a while and at the end he thanked me for giving him eye contacted through the whole conversation, and that he felt comfortable around me because i was the first girl to look at him with no sexual intentions behind them. That conversation lead to an awesome 4 year relationship.

Iced coffee

Hey K !! It is winter now finally 😆 and I do enjoy the winter morning 🌄 what is your current winter morning routine? 👀

Ray Scarlett

Hey K‼️ My usual role is to be a silent listener (which I have been for over two years ), however I thought I would try asking a question once for fun :) As a 20 year old female, how do you get yourself out of the friend zone? Most guys of the same age as me barely even consider me as a potential partner (usually due to my body type not looking like that out of a magazine). What should I do to show I can be more than just the ‘friend’ despite my appearance? Thanks in advance and much love from one of your silent observers. Keep up the good work ✨

Kelly X

im guessing scorpio too! lol :)

Ashley

1) What makes you attracted to/want to approach a woman? (E.g. her clothing, features, etc.)? 2) Are you still teaching?? <3

j

Hmm if we’re talking about with a partner, there hasn’t been anything intimate I’ve done at all bc I haven’t found my person yet. But there’s been a few super close friendships I’m grateful for, we’re very emotionally connected and take care of one another, so I consider that a form of intimacy I’d only engage in with those I trust and love. Question, how do you get yourself out of an awkward/uncomfy situation? I’ve tried to not care and do my own thing, but in the moment if the other is trying to get under my skin, it’s always so difficult.

skych0s1s

Hi K <3 im so excited that it’s finally close to christmas !! Do you have any specific things that you do as christmas traditions? Do you have any specific fantasies (sexual or fluff) that you gravitate towards around this season? To answer my own question, I like to fantasize about waking up with someone on a cold morning and curling up and drinking coffee while we talk. That’s all from me !! be sure to drink water and stay healthy !!! <3

Myra Nine

Damn this caught me off guard. I'm usually more prepared 😆 Innocent questions: - What made you smile today (aside from doing this Q&A)? - What's the ideal date for you? Provide a overview from the moment you meet up to the end of the date. -If you had to be in a horror movie what type of movie would it be and do you think you would survive? Spicy questions: - I've noticed that porn hasn't really come up before in these Q&A's so this is a good opportunity lol. If you had to star in a porno, what would it be? Please set the premise for us. Ex: duration (1hr vs 10 min), genre/scenario, 1 partner vs multiple partners etc. - How do you feel about porn in a relationship? Edit: In your previous Q&A you mention how you haven't really done a lot of reading and audiobooks weren't really cutting it, so I recommend listening to the podcast "LeVar Burton Reads". In the podcast LeVar (from Star Trek and Reading Rainbow) narrates short stories from different authors, so it's basically Reading Rainbow (aka my childhood obsession) but for adults. He has a great voice and the production is really awesome, so give it a go if you're bored 🙂

Edana

Couldn't think of any questions but to answer your question: - being the moral/physical support for someone during a medical procedure or a mental breakdown (panic attack for example). Platonic and romantic situations I've been in. When you/they are so incredibly vulnerable and being there for that to me just the most intimate I could be with someone non-sexually.

Hiddenwolf

The most intimate non sexual thing I've dome, was with a friend, we have a type of relationship where we don't have to talk everyday to be close, we could go months without speaking and as soon as we meet up it's like it was yesterday, the intimate part is when I go to her house and we just stay on her sofa watch8ng shitty TV and she falls asleep. Knowing she feels comfortable to fall asleep and not feel luke she has to "keep me entertained" feels so intimate in the way we both feel safe no mater what :) I haven't been in many relationships so this is tye best I've got to a really intimate moment, what is yours K? Xxx

Taylor 🖤

What’s your favorite part of making audios

Oodles

Darling, that’s something we need to tell YOU. Please make sure to take care of yourself; have a yummy pastry (or twenty!) get some snoozing time in, and hydrate yourself. You have to nourish to flourish 😤😤😤 This goes out to you too, in laws. Remember that YOUR PRESENCE is a present, YOUR well-being is important and YOU matter. Don’t forget that💕💕💕 To answer the question you posed: the most non sexual intimate thing I’ve ever done with someone was probably meeting at the park everyday before work just to hang out at the swings behind my old work place. I’m not a morning bird… Not ONE bit, but for this person - I woke up to catch one of the first buses running just to go meet them. We would just swing on the swings; talking and getting to know each other. It’s one of my sweetest memories. A question I’d like to pose to you is; is there a childhood memory you think of fondly — and is it okay to ask what that is?

Liv

Hey K! I gotta say, I love your audios and how original they all are. It’s impressive how you manage to iterate the same emotions in a variety of phrasing. I can’t imagine the time and effort that goes into all the audios. I was curious; what motivates you to make the audios? This is slightly off topic but could you potentially do a holiday themed audio 🫣 keep up the good work!

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Ah K! Such welcome news that you're planning a Q&A. I just added a question not long ago to the last Q&A thread, so not going to repeat it, as that would get tedious for everyone! Are you sure you are not a mind-reader or guardian angel?😇 Or perhaps a superhero? Always around to give a timely audio when bumbles need it, and usually so accurate! I think the most intimate yet non sexual thing might be getting an artistic plaster cast mask in art class at age 12. It was a very strange, very sensory experience with hair covered in pantihose caps, Vaseline plastered everywhere to pre-coat, then thin, plaster strip's applied after being soaked, then smoothed onto skin. Think it was my first boyfriend doing the plaster actually!! Very unsexy, unflattering and kind of awkward, but nice at other parts.

Nattie the sleepyeth

Hello, K. I wann ask if you have any goal or motivation for working out? is it jut to stay healthy or you building some muscles or anything? I never maintain my workout routine for more than a month, so I want to know your mindset on it :3 love your audios! thank you for making them! and take care of yourself, too <3

Arra

Hi K! First, I wanna say I hope you and Nutmeg are doing well and getting some rest! Here are my questions: 1. Can you drop your playlist? 2. What is the most unusual thing you’ve ever eaten? Are you a picky eater? 3. If you had a warning label what would yours say? 4. Since Thanksgiving is close here in the US, what is your most favorite holiday tradition? To answer your question: One time my friend and I had dinner together. When I was joking around and started drinking my soup like Belle did from Beauty and the Beast, he copied me and maintained direct eye contact as he was sipping on his soup. It felt intimate at the time despite our platonic relationship. Thanks for everything that you do! Can’t wait to hear your next audios! Love you lots! 🫶🏼

Estrella

Hi K! Yay finally time for another chill Q&A audio. Listening to your audios have been a part of my night routine now. Especially your Q&A audio. It accompany me while farming in the game I'm currently playing. Speaking of games.. do you watch streamers? If so, for what game? Your personal opinion about female gamers? Do you consider it a turn off for some men? Cause this topic is still stereotypical in my country's culture. That women should live up to some certain standard and that gaming is seen as "men's hobby" rather than just a universal hobby. It frustrates me sometimes since I've been gaming for 20 years (am 29 now) and sometimes I find people being surprised that my hobby is playing console games rather than watching Korean drama or other drama genre movies. I see married men often ask permission to buy a console game from their wife meanwhile I think if someday I got married to a non-gamer husband I will be the one asking permission to buy a console game to play with my children 😂 And speaking of non-sexual intimate stuff I've done.. does holding handa count? I never been in a relationship before. But I had a crush in the past, and we were pretty close to the point of he took the inisiative to grab my hand and intertwining our fingers together. My heart wanted to explode at that time but I kept my cool. We didn't end up together tho. And he left quite a deep trauma for me to even opening my heart again to someone until now. Actually right now there is another guy who sometimes keep showing his interest to me. He once randomly called me at night just to ask about my life and we ended up talking for 3 hours straight. But then when we meet at church he won't say hi to me first, and I'm too scared and shy to say hi to him. So we ended never say hi to each other and it's been 3 months since the last time he called. I wonder if that means he doesn't interested anymore or what. But since my last "almost" relationship ended not too well, I'm still scared to make the move.. especially since I often heard from people around me that aggressive women is a turn off.. that I should keep my calm and appear as mysterious as possible. Honestly I don't even know if there's a proper formula for this kind of matter. I wonder if you have an opinion about this? Well, whether or not you read my long-ass paragraph, I'm still very thankful for your audios patreon or youtube. I've been listening to youtube audios for a whole year but only able to become a patreon since 2-3 months ago. And it's been a fantastical experience (never thought I'm such a kinky horny girl 👀). No matter where you are right now, hope you stay healthy and happy in this holiday season. Christmas is coming! Stay warm and love you ❤

DianaEA

Hi K! I've been a silent listener for a while now but I feel like now is a relevant time to gain perspective on things. I was curious for your opinion as well as others. Do you think long term relationships are for people who are always willing to settle and and short term are for people who have higher standards? I'm going through some relationship issues with the only bf I've ever had. I am constantly reminded that I am a young girl in college and I shouldn't settle. To answer your question, I think the most non-sexual intimate thing I have experienced was when my boyfriend would hug me while crying. It is a natural thing for any human to do really but it felt intimate for the fact that he knew exactly how I felt and wasn't just "sorry" for me. My bad, kind of a long post. Thanks K :)

Asia Lancaster

Hi K! 1.) Will you make more DDLG audios? As someone a part of that community they are my top favorites. 2.) Have you personally known or have been with a girl who was into DDLG herself? 3.) Also could you say my name? It’s Asia!

Crazy4Him69

Hi K!! I've subscribed and been watching your YouTube videos for some time now, like 4ish years now, and being a part of your Patreon is like a dream come true to me. I love listening to your audios from the moment I wake up to the time I have to go to sleep. You motivated me to take care of myself and to love myself. To answer you question, even though I've never been in a relationship before, with people I cherish and love it would be on a call with them for hours talking about anything and everything, spending quality time with them. Even if I'm busy doing by hand, I will always have them on call with me no matter what. Questions for you is: - How would you describe love to someone who's never been in love before? - Is there something that you regretted not doing earlier? - What does a romantic date look like to you? - What is your ideal type of person? Love you lots and make sure you take care of yourself just like you do to us!🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

The Simping Trio

Random short story. I was running trash at work and tipped the entire bin. It was so heavy that I had a hard time dragging the trash bags out to be able to tip the trash bin itself upright. Luckily it wasn’t in the middle of the road at it was behind the building. But the walk of shame back to my store to ask for help was embarrassing. And I will tell everyone now, never in my life would I realize how heavy wet coffee grounds can get until I worked at Starbies

Dark Charymore

First HIIIII K, I'm one of your more silent/shy listeners but i worked up the courage to say something. The intimate moment that came to mind is one night my boyfriend was in the shower listening to music i was just sitting on the floor next to the bathtub just singing along to the song that was on( heart break anniversary by giviant) it was the first time i had done something like that so it was nice Nice question: What would your soul be if it was to become a existing holiday or season? ( rise of the guardians reference if you've seen it) Naughty question: While youre in a video or phone call how do you feel about your partner doing a sexual act to you, and do you think you could keep your composer the whole time???

Jay-quelyn

Hi K! What is the most romantic thing you have ever done for someone and what is the most romantic thing someone has done for you?

Jay-quelyn

I unfortunately have not really been in any serious relationships so I can’t answer your question but would love to hear your answer for it.

Gem

Aaaaaah Q&A time lets goooo! 1.) Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex? 2.) whats your most recent random act of kindness? 3.) Do you like a longer foreplay or a shorter one? 4.) What app do you use the most in your phone? 5.) have you listened to the new scarlxrd and corpse song? (The misa-misa one?) Also the most intimate non sexual thing I’ve done is laying on the floor with a past partner (not very romantic ik hahha) But we had this rule that we arent allowed to hop in bed if we hadn’t taken a shower yet One night I came home after a long day from work and I told him I haven’t got the energy to go and take a shower Ended up dozing on the carpet and when I woke up at around midnight I had found out he had placed some blankets and pillows and had joined me on the floor Also annotating a book for him. I knew he was a big fan of poetries so I annotated a Micheal Faudet book for him to give on Valentines Also K my beloved you been a real helped to me this year! Your audios really helped with my sleep schedule this past couple months and I couldn’t thank you enough! Ur the best ily 😘

Hope Padilla

Hi, Special K! Gosh, this will be my first time participating in these Q&As! I've absolutely been waiting for this! Unsure if mine will make the cut, but, what the hell! First off, LOVE your work and am also very happy to have subscribed to both your YouTube channel as well as becoming a patron to your Patreon almost a couple months back! Just love/adore you! 💖💖💖 The most intimate non-sexual thing I've ever done with someone? Hmmmm... While I've never had a boyfriend before, I've had experiences with a few guys in my lifetime (the majority just as friends; have only slept with two guys in my private life...) I would probably say that my most intimate non-sexual experience was having gone out with a guy-friend of mine back when I was in college. It wasn't a date, but rather just two friends hanging out, talking, and having a good time together outside of the academic setting. He was very sweet and we would hug each other at the beginning and towards the end of our get-together. I thought he was also very cute/handsome, but didn't really think much of it. I haven't seen him nor talked to him in a long time (as he currently lives in another state), but sometimes I'll randomly think about that moment... It was really nice... My question(s)... Relates to sex but, at the same time, kind of serious... So, my question is (and apologies in advance if a similar question was asked in previous Q&As! They were a lot to get through and I may not remember if it was asked or not!) what advice would you give to a girl/woman who has a lot of self-consciousness about having sex and always feeling as if it was the first time every single time? Not sure if it makes sense to you on how I worded it, but, I'll give you a little background on it... Although I've only slept with two guys in my life, I feel like if I ever got intimate in that way with someone, again, somehow I'll feel very scared about it... As if it was my first time all over again... Obviously, I have SOME experience in sex but it's like, at the same time, I feel like I'm still inexperienced... I still manage to get horny and very aroused, but a variety of possible factors come into mind: major issues with my body-image/not looking/feeling beautiful whatsoever to my potential partner (thanks to being told I was fat and/or ugly when I was child and CONSTANT rejection - which drove me to having an eating disorder...); major performance anxiety (I am EXTREMELY self-conscious with how I perform that it's gotten to the point where there are certain positions I'd prefer not to do out of fear of just not being good in them and just not performing them right at all...); worried about it hurting again (since it's been a long time since I've last had sex...); worried about him just not being into me, in general, etc.... I know communication is important, but what kinds of things would you say if a partner dealt with this and communicated these concerns to you with these details? It's so frustrating because I feel like there's something seriously wrong with me... That I shouldn't be feeling this way at all... I know that I'm a ridiculously shy person (I was even shy and kind of embarrassed posting this...), but I feel like this is just extreme... Sex is supposed to be fun and great, not something that I should have constant anxiety/fear over... Hopefully, you'll see this and possibly be able to answer my question(s). Thank you so much in advance, dear, lovely Special K. Remember that you're amazing and loved by us all! You're just as deserving of all the love that you receive from us Bumbles. I "hope" you've been taking care of yourself! 💖🐝 ~*Hope*~

RoRo

The Office...but only the British version 🤭🇬🇧.

dundermifflin

The British version is sooo funny but I love Steve Carell so I gotta go with the US version😭

angelina

what’s your enneagram?

Holly Golightly

I can’t think of any good questions this time!! I’ll just say that I’m really grateful that I found your channel, K, and I’m grateful that I found this community. I can always count on you and everyone else to put a smile on my face. I hope you and everyone else are doing well! P.S. can you please send some wellness vibes my way because I am currently sick?? Lol. 😘❤️

0peppermint0

Actually, my answer to your question happened two days ago! I was invited to hang out with a few friends, and they taught me Salsa dancing and Bachata dancing. The partnered dances required getting pretty up close and personal, and it was nerve wracking (I'd never gotten to dance with a partner like that before, and I fluster easily) but it was fun :)

Zaphirite

Honestly? Being in a long distance relationship, my answer would be staring into my partners eyes after not seeing them in person for two whole years. It’s those every day things that you don’t get to have like hand holding or just sharing a glance and laughing that become so intimate because they’re a luxury. A bit sappy, but definitely true for me now that we’re apart again. My question: what’s an experience that made you think about how big or vast the world is? Mine would be seeing a completely dark sky full of stars or being in a boat in the ocean without any land in eyesight.

YTTL

Are you still pursuing a teacher career or have you taken a pause on it? Also, can we get another teacher nsfw audio? 😩😏

Ravyn Spence

Hi k <3 I don’t know how to describe it but one time I was behind a church with my crush (the church was next to my college) and the tension that we had made my legs quiver. It was non sexual but the eye contact and the sweet words. My question is, Have you ever had a fan recognize your voice or has a friend stumbled onto your videos (I feel like this was asked on a previous Q&A) Another Question would be how do you kiss someone or even initiate anything sexual? A lot of people say it comes nature and it’ll just happen. The last person I kissed used teeth and it was totally weird so I just don’t know how to kiss or maybe they were bad

Sadé ୨୧

Hi K!, Ever since you recommended that Kings of Leon song, i’ve been listening to it non-stop!! Do you have any other song recommendations? And do you listen to Deftones?, if you do what’s your favourite song?

liveo 🪻

have you ever been a sub and if so, did you/do you enjoy it? what's your personal safe word? and to answer it i went on several dates with this person that i was already friends with. we ended up not being in a relationship but it was super interesting because we almost slept with each other multiple times and in the end we didn't even get into a relationship! i hope you are doing well! remember to get some rest <3

Crystel Prophete

Hey k so this is a little story time/question: I remember that you are/ were ( srry I don’t know) a teacher what are some wtf moments/ disrespectful student moments that you have. Story time- I remember I was coming from my American government class and in an attempt to go up the stairs case I saw two teen literally going at it in the staircase, like literally full doggy. I made eye contact with the boy first and he wink at me and the his girlfriend scream at the top of her lungs causing an admin to come and catch us in the awkward ass position. They callled my mom and lucky they believe me. I’ve been taking the long way to class ever since. - last question- explain what was one of the best sexual experience you had(p.s can you please do another first time video but more softer and ddlg like the first one was good but another one that is more gent would be nice ) Xoxoxox- crystel

Shygirl21

I hope I’m not too late but this is a little complicated. As someone who is literally intimidated by everything I know I would be afraid of being intimate with someone sexually and even nonsexual. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? Like I guess the actual question is, is being shy in a relationship a deal breaker?

Lina Kira

Hi K, how are you doing? The most intimate non-sexual thing I've done with someone was a passionate discussion that lasted more than 9 hours non-stop and the guy wasn't my boyfriend yet. We talked about everything and nothing but it was so special... I have a question for you ^^ Since you are studying web design, have you thought about making your own website?

Kuki

would you ever date someone who's asexual?

Babe

Have you ever been together with Asian girl? In a relationship or jus for sex

juuzoume

hi, K<3 sooo ahhaah... imagine you started dating a girl and then turns out she's been your listener this whole time but didn't tell u about it. and u have no idea but she like low-key listened to all your content already. i just thought it was funny. also thank you so much for existing and creating, I can't stress enough how much it has helped me through shitty times. i hope you're doing okay</3

Sabrina

Here's a controversial question. Are gingerbread houses made from gingerbread men's flesh? Thoughts.

Hehe

Hand reveal 🧍🏻‍♀️

Hehe

Bloopers pls

Montana Destiny

Will you be doing the poetry audio soon?

imagineclouds xo

Hello K 🥰 Some questions; - If you could only see one colour in the world from now on, which colour would you pick and why? - What programming languages do you know? I had to learn / still learning Python for Uni but I am so bad at coding ;_; - Have you seen the new Zelda trailer (Tears of the Kingdom)? What do you think about it? :) - Music suggestion: Listen to the new Sonic Frontiers OST "Undefeatable", which is sung by Kellin Quinn. It's giving so much 2000 vibe🎸<3 Hope you'll like it :D - In a relationship: Do you usually like to stay at your place or do you also like to go to your partner's place and stay there? Do you feel "home" when you're at their place or do you only get that feeling when you are in your apartment? To your question: Hm, probably hugging a guy "for the last time" as we broke things between us off. I was crying for a long time and saying goodbye by giving hugs and he kinda started to cry as well. In that moment, it just felt like time was standing still, feeling each other's heartbeat and warmth, but we both knew the situationship we were in wasn't a good one. This was before COVID happened Take care K and have an amazing holiday season ☃️

Akari

Here's a question if you could go anywhere in the world where would you go and why ?

Valerie

How’s Nutmeg? And can you incorporate her into more SFW audios? Idk why but it’s just so cute whenever you mention her 😊

Blessid

Hi K, hope you’re well! Would you ever let a woman top you? Why or why not? Or! also what would be hot things for a woman to say or do during sex to take the lead/ be more dominant? I’m more subby but my bf wants me to try to “top” him. I’m down to try but a bit nervous. “Top” I guess meaning the woman taking the lead? Being demanding or more dominant (Not Pegging)

JulineandAngelin

Hello :). Barley do this stuff here, but idk why. I had some questions :-). 1. What needs to do a woman that you’d fall for her? 2. What was the scariest thing in ur life that happened? 3. How are you’re doing recently? 4. Did you got some snow alrd? 5. Lots of love :).

Annika

Hello! Two things: really hope you’re doing well, you’re very consistent on here and I hope you’re getting time to rest properly. And secondly, did your grandparents tell you stories as a child (scary or otherwise)? If so, would you share one with us please?

Elizabeth F.

Hey K! First time putting questions. I really enjoy your audios! Ok, 1. Have you ever been in a interracial relationship? If not, does race matter to you when picking a partner? 2. Would you date a woman that had a physical disability? I wish I could answer your question, but I don’t have any relationship experience so hopefully one day I could experience something like that and I could tell you about it 😂 I hope you have wonderful holidays with your friends and family

olivia r

K!!! 1. What advice can you give someone moving away from their hometown? (how to connect with a new space, make friends, etc?) 2. How do you maintain confidence with eyeglasses? And do you like wearing contacts? Most intimate non-sexual act: My ex and I used to mail each other hand written letters and sometimes spray them with perfume/cologne so it’d smell like us

Marisol

Hi K! Thank you so much for everything you do 💗 Here are some questions I have: 1. Do you listen to Spanish music? If you do which songs are your favorite? If not, would you like some recommendations? 2. Who is your current celebrity crush? 3. Knowing everything you know now about being a va if you could go back in time would you still upload audios to YouTube?

Clarice Olivia

Hello :) I am usually the listen in shadows person for your content. But here I am LMFAO to answer your question first the most intimate non sexual thing I have done, is just spend hours in a voice call in discord with the person I was romantically talking to. It was just gaming and watching movies so cozy and cute lmao My question, and I hope you haven’t answered it, is who was your first ever celebrity crush? And who is your current celebrity crush? My first celebrity crush had to have been Jesse McCartney and Chad Michael Murray and I am currently back in love with Evan Peters again lmaoo Thanks for everything you do and just know your audios do help me a lot more than you know kiss kiss ❤️ ~Clarice

SlyFoxx

Hi K !!! What’s something sexual and non-sexual that you have done before that you want to try out? Thank you for existing!

VelvetThorn

Love this question & have wondered, as well! Ouu, you ladies are leaning towards the water signs...interesting! My top 3 guesses are Sagittarius, Aquarius, or Virgo :)

JamieKeys

I think you need to be more specific about what you mean by “top” lol like tie him up? Just be bossy/ordering/demanding or like full on pegging? There’s a super wide range

Lani Valdez

idk why but im feeling cancer

JamieKeys

I think you need to contact a professional (psychologist/psychiatrist), they are the experts and can help you through therapy. Wish you all the best!

JamieKeys

Firstly, thanks for your amazing work! So many of these questions are so cute and wholesome…so imma ask the spicy ones 😈 1. What’s the kinkiest request you’ve ever gotten from a partner in bed? Did you agree to it or not? 2. Have you ever participated in a no nut November? If not, what’s the longest time you can remeber going without an orgasm? were the results explosive? 3. One’s gotta go: missionary, doggy, cowgirl, spooning. Which one are you getting rid of forever and why? 4.Besides weed, have you ever done any other drugs? If so, what was your experience like?

McKaylah Cosgrove

i have one but it hasn’t really been helping lately i feel as though they just keep telling me the same thing

Bella Bear

Hi k! 1. what’s something not sexual that kinda turns you on ? 2. What’s something that you do intimately partners that you always love doing? (Non- sexual)

Hannah (Ronnie's gallbladder)

Hey K. I have one story and a little question. Your content got me off a few panic attacks btw. Thank you so much :) Story: I was in a relationship with... let's call him Tom. It was so nice. He treated me good and all. And we made each other presents or flowers. It was so good. Sex was sometimes good. But let's not talk about that. But then, Tom told me that he is polyamorous and slept with a friend of ours. He told me that he loves her. Then... on top of everything. Tom told me that he never had strong feelings for me. I already met his parents at that point. I didn't had a good time after that. And now my trust issues are worse than ever haha The question: I am currently in the mental hospital for my ptsd, depression and eating disorder. I was going on dates with a really nice man. And a few days ago he dumped me and told me he does not want to know someone who is mentally sick. Is he a wanker? Or am I just a weird human being? Like-. I'm sorry for being mentally I'll but that's not my fault you bitch. Is he a wanker?

Erin Knowles

I'm travelling to Canada next year! What cities would you recommend? One city with great night life, and another city filled with beautiful scenery! Also what city does your accent come from? Love from Aieron x

NamtiddiesSteppedOnMe Sksksks

hellooo k hope im not too late but my questions are about ice cream bc why not 1. how do you feel about mint chocolate chip ice cream? (idk if you already answered the question but imma ask anyway) 2. have you ever dropped ice cream before? 3. what do you think about ice cream (food play) in the bedroom

L. Kane

The most intimate non-sexual thing I've done with a person was talk. Having a conversation without any background noise is very intimate.

justbeinghere

Hi K, how are you? I hope this is not too too dark/depressing but i still want to ask. Have you ever dated someone who had depression and self harmed themselves? I have been depressed for almost 3 years and i did self harm but now i am 1 year clean. I feel like i am not good enough for anyone and because of my scars no one wants to be with me. Would you be with someone who have self harm scars? How do you feel about them, do they make you feel sick like you think that the person is disgusting. Someone ones said something like that to me and i always think that everyone feels like that when they see my scars. If not how would you make the person feel better about themselves? I also want to say that i have listened all of your youtube audios and some of them are very important to me, what i listen very often when i am feeling down. Thank you so much K for all the work you do i really appreciate it! <3 also my first language is not english so sorry if this is not very good, i tried my best!

grumpy

I think the most intimate nonsexual thing I've done was during the quarantine with my best friend. We were stuck in our uni dorm and we couldn't go out. One night after we played games for hours, we didn't feel like going to sleep so we started talking about random shit but I started to question how time didn't feel real anymore and that ended with us talking about literally everything until like 5am. We've only been friends for like a year but after that night, it felt like we've known each other for years. Also a question, how would you react if your partner told you there's a flea on their hand? (It's a tiktok trend lmao I'm sorry)

Kiki Doll

Hiya K! 😄 (Man I’m so late to the party but here I go anyways 🥳 haha) What is something you’re unbeatable at? (For me it’s Mario Kart. I don’t know why I have been blessed with this useless talent, but I like to bust it out whenever I get the chance lol) 👸🏼🍄 Could I count on you to get me ‘out’ of trouble, or get me ‘in’ it? 😇😈 What are your favourite sex toys/things to use in the bedroom? And is there anything you haven’t tried yet but would love to give a go? ❤️‍🔥 (I’d really love to give a sex swing a go. They look so fun and exciting! Especially the ones with the wrist and ankle restraints. I feel like it would be super, super hot and sexy having sex whilst being suspended and restrained like that! 🥵) Most intimate non sexual thing was probably when my boyfriend at the time let me shave his face 🧔🏻 He knew I loved to watch him shave so sometimes he’d pick me up and pop me on the bathroom counter so I could watch 😍 One time he said ‘Do you wanna do it?’ He could tell I did but I was too worried about doing it wrong and cutting him, but he just gently took my hand and said ‘I trust you’, and slowly guided me. We were pressed up really close to each other, and amidst the deep concentration (and holding my breath) we would keep making deep eye contact and break into a smile. It was a really tender, intimate moment and one that neither of us had shared with anyone else before 🥰 Thank you for everything you do and for being so amazing! I hope you have a beautiful day! 🧡

S

Most intimate non-sexual thing was lying on the grass during a heatwave under this huge willow tree with a guy resting his head on my stomach while I stroked his hair. He was a guy I knew so not creepy or anything guy didn’t really talk much and he was just going through a rough patch and he lay there and just talked to me and let himself rest. He hadn’t been sleeping much and he’d just lay there looking at me while I stroked his hair till he fell asleep and napped for like an hour or so. And yes it was one of those weird mutual crushes where you don’t really talk to each other but just admire

K’s babygirl ♡

To answer your question, K, I spent the night at this guys house a few times and the furthest it got was cuddling which I was absolutely okay with and honestly wanted nothing more. I’ve genuinely been in love with him for a while but he’s just not ready due to a last experience with his last girlfriend. Aannndd I also work with him 💀😭 he has a heart of gold, he always takes care of me, woke me up and cuddled me back to sleep from bad dreams, and everything just comes so naturally to us. I told him how I feel but he’s just not ready. Which is totally fine and I respect that but I still love him

christiana

Hi, I’m not sure if you would see but I hope you are comfortable enough to answer….so my question is have you been with black women before if so how was your experience/relationship?

Jenn (Preemie Cuddler)

Hi K! You are one of my favorite humans!! Thanks for all you do for us! Ok, the most intimate, non sexual experience I’ve had was this- my best friend and I were labor and delivery nurses working nights and one of my patients was there for induction of labor bc her baby boy had passed away in her uterus at 28 weeks. At about 2am she called out and my best friend and I sat on either side of her bed in a dimly lit room and helped her through delivering her son. I’ve obviously never forgotten how calm and loving the mom was during her delivery, talking to him saying, “Angel, it’s ok to come, God is taking you home, I love you so much.” Over and over. My friend and I kept looking at each other doing our best to keep our composure throughout and he was a beautiful boy who looked like he was sleeping, about 2 pounds. We swaddled him and she held him for quite some time afterwards. Later my friend and I had a quiet moment in the locker room hugging and crying and said a prayer for them. We were is awe of the strength of this woman and how life is precious. My questions all relate to your childhood in the hopes of getting to know you even better. What is your first memory? What did you want to be as an adult? Favorite super hero? What sports did you play if any? Musical instrument? Childhood injuries? Favorite game? Childhood pets and if so what were their names? 😘

nadia

Hey K✨ What’s your sun, moon & rising star sign? If you know it🥰

VelvetThorn

Embarrassing story, incoming! My ex & I were introduced by a mutual friend when I was 13 & he was 15. We were together for 5 years, & if Soulmates really do exist, he was mine. We lived 5 houses away from each other & were one another's firsts. Our sex life was extremely spontaneous & the most random of circumstances seemed to elicit the desire to get saucy. For some reason, the winter & being cold frequently put us in the mood. Following a ride on his skidoo one afternoon in December, we went into his basement where his bedroom was located, & I proceeded to strip naked & swan-dive into his bed. My ex had an affinity for giving oral, & if he saw an opportunity to go down, the boy would go down. For whatever reason, he decided to take his shirt off before heading south this time. Just as I was starting to get into it, we heard the ominous sound of footsteps coming down the stairs. There were only 2 possibilities: either it was his mum, or his dad. Terrible, either way. The distance from the stairs to his room was about 8 feet, & damned if there was any time to react. Pure dread struck both of us as I pushed my ex's head away, sprung up with my back against the wall at the head of the bed, pulled his duvet up to my chin, & he sat up at the foot of the bed. His room didn't have a regular door, but rather, 2 bifolds. He was super close with his mother, & she had an awful tendency to not knock. This day was no different. The door opened, & there she was. Silence. The most awkward, dragged out silence you can imagine; both of us with beet red faces, staring at her like deer in the headlights. I don't even think my ex & I were breathing at that point, & I remember locking eyes with him & instantly realizing that he knew that I knew that she knew that we knew that she knew exactly what she had just walked in on. It could not have been more obvious. She looked at me. She looked at him. The stain of regret on her face for having ever entered the room was unmistakable. Very matter of factly & with about as much composure as she could muster, she said, "Nanny's having her Christmas party this weekend. Shannon, you're invited, too." I tried so hard to force a smile, but all I could do was nod. My ex, on the other hand, was already desperate to get her out of there. "That's great, mom! Awesome. Count us in." She could've left at that point- her message had been successfully delivered- but nope. She lingered. "She said to tell you she'll be making cheesecake & a bunch of your favourite pies." Oh, the timing. I wish I could say the following didn't happen, but in his flustered state & mounting frustration over her not leaving, my ex replied to this with, "Amazing, mom! I LOVE pie. I could eat pie all fucking day." 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm pretty sure lasers shot out of my eyes in his direction after he said that. His mom momentarily closed hers & half shook her head while letting out an audible breath, completely exasperated. "Okay so, anything else you need, mom?..." She scanned the room, saw my clothes scattered about, refocused on my ex & asked, "Why is your shirt off?" This was unbearable. "Because it's HOT, mom?! Can you GO now?" It was, in fact, not hot. It was the middle of December in eastern Ontario, Canada in a semi-finished basement with concrete floors. "So why is Shannon huddled under the blankets..." My ex was officially coming apart at the seams. "Mom. Seriously. Can I help you?" She suddenly (& finally) turned around & began walking out of the room, but not before sharing her parting words that are burned into my brain for all eternity: "Yeah. Clean your room..............................& wipe your chin." 😳😳😳😳😳 The doors closed, my ex looked at me, & his jet black facial hair was visibly covered with my peach juice. Just-a-glistening. I guess in my shock & horror of being walked in on, I hadn't noticed earlier. We bugged our eyes at each other, mouthed a couple of stressed "what the FUCKS," wiped his face off, got dressed, & hid in his room, mortified, for the next 10 hours. Only when we were absolutely confident his parents had gone to bed did we make our escape. He walked me home, & it probably goes without saying that facing his mother the next day was...something. To add insult to injury, at his grandmother's family Christmas party, his uncle approached us during dinner, put his hand on my ex's shoulder, & with a big cheeky smile, said, "So, my dude. How's the pie?..." before winking at us & walking away. Yep. In her trauma, my ex's mum had shared what happened with her closest sister (my ex's aunt) who then told her husband, who then saw an opportunity to further embarrass 2 dumb kids at a holiday function, lol. We learned 2 valuable lessons: to keep it PG when his parents were home, & to never underestimate the importance of having a bedroom door that locks!😜

phee

Hmm I guess this could be considered intimate but I just like giving forehead kisses. There’s just something soft n sweet about it :p questions: • what’s a game or show/anime you’re enjoying right now? • what do you do to wind down after a long day? i like to get myself some comfort food, watch funny shows or youtube videos, and play games after to relax

JamieKeys

Omfg your story is SO FUNNY! 😂 the second hand embarrassment from just reading that is so real. You’re a great storyteller

冬Winter

Hey K ✋👁️👅👁️It's my first question. Have you ever been to Taiwan? If yes, was there anything unforgettable?

冬Winter

(p.s. the pronunciation of my name is “Dong.” It means winter 😋)

Lidia

Hello K 🧚🏻‍♀️ hope you’re doing great! The most intimate thing I’ve done lately was simply watching anime and eating our body weights in buffalo boneless wings, it was rainy and cold outside so we decided to stay at home, hands down an amazing experience! Ok so my questions for you: 1. Have you watched Cyberpunk Edgerunners? If not pls do soooo! 2. What are the red flags you see in someone that makes you step away? And are there any red flags of yours you’ve found out later when someone you cared for did so? (If it’s a bit too intrusive you can skip it) 3. What’s the best meal you’ve had lately? Just wanting to make sure you’re eating right! 4. You’ve mentioned in a bunch of audios that you can visibly notice when the “listener” feels kinda off (due to stress, work etc) during sexy time. My question is: when doing the deed or starting it, which are those signs you notice, in your experience, that your parter is not in the mood at that moment? Reversely, has it happened to you that you’d like to give it a try although you’re not at it 100%? Thanks for the post K, take good care of yourself✨

ChaoticRedhead

Hiya K! I hope you’re having a good day 🙂 The most intimate non-sexual thing I’ve done with a partner is slow dancing with my boyfriend in the living room while our favourite slow songs play. 1. Do you play or have you played D&D or Magic the Gathering? 2. Has a Chase Atlantic song or specific lyric inspired an audio? 3. How are you finding Campaign 3 of Critical Role? 💜 4. What is THE song on your sexy playlist that always gets you going? Thank you for all you do for the bumbles! X

Isabella Stein

Most intimate non-sexual thing I've ever done happened after a very dark part of my life. I was in a terrible situation that left me very beat up, bruised, scarred mentally and physically, and I was terrified. But my boyfriend had come up to me and very gently let me cry to him for what felt like hours but was probably ten minutes haha. He then proceeded to kiss every bruise and mark I had from the previous encounter, and soothe me. I had never felt anything near that in my life, as my family was very, very formal and not intimate in any way. Although I wish I never went through ehat I did he really helped me and I love him so much ❤️ Questions, Do you own any stuffed animals? If so what are their names. Also, what is your least favorite nickname or pet name to be called, and to call someone.

JamieKeys

I am Canadian! Hope you enjoy your trip. It’s a big country, so are you taking multiple flights to visit different provinces?

dundermifflin

@Mckaylah you should probably find another licensed professional to speak with. I’ve dealt with this kind of thing before and I had to keep searching until I found someone that I felt like was most suitable for me. This is a serious situation that should be tackled by someone qualified and equipped to do it. I hope your journey gets better <3

lily

what are some non-sexual things that you consider a turn on? (hobbies, personality traits, mannerisms, etc.) hope you are doing well these days. <3

musicalchart8

Hi K! 😘 Hope all is well! A non-sexual intimate moment that I experienced was telling an old coach of mine that I was thankful for him believing in me when I felt that no one else did. I told him this by making a stop motion animated short film about my mental health struggles as a student athlete, it was for a class in college. I decided to really embrace my vulnerability for that project so I could convey how frustrated and lonely I was for many years until he started coaching me. Don’t get me wrong, I had great teammates but I never had a coach truly believe in me the way he did. He really helped pull me out of the downward spiral I was in and I’m grateful for everything he taught me. Here’s some questions: - What’s the sexiest workout a girl can do at the gym? Other than hip thrusts. - This is a follow up to I think imagine clouds’s questions from the last q&a, what kind of flowers would you like to receive? - You said you went camping a lot over the summer, any memorable moments? - Are you planning on hitting the slopes this winter? I’m hoping to ☺️🏂

musicalchart8

That’s on my must watch list! I’ve heard good things and the animation looks stellar! 😃

Lidia

Omg omg pls pls let me know when you watch it🥹 I loved it a loooot!

J

Hi K! I hope you're well. Thank you for creating the content that you do. You craft wonderfully intimate scenarios that also make me feel safe, warm, and unafraid to explore my own connection to sex. 🖤 Aside from falling asleep to a complete stranger's erotic audios, I think my most non-sexual intimate experience was going to therapy. I don't really get close to people, and honestly I'm kind of terrified of intimacy in general. My first experience with therapy was in my early 20s and was doomed to fail. We weren't a good fit and I knew it, but I tried 2 sessions anyway. I'm very nervous around men and the therapist was a man, so my mindset was already in shambles. During the first session, he drank soda non-stop and burped but tried to hide it. He brought up religion and tried to explain why it should be a part of my life. I've never believed in anything and really have no interest in religion, but he knew better. The second session was a catastrophe. He continued with the soda and the quiet-but-obvious burps. Then past relationships came up and I broke down about my self-esteem, how hideous I've always felt, and how it impacts my romantic relationships. You know what his response was to my emotional turmoil? "Don't worry. Men will find you attractive because you have breasts and hips." I've never felt so reduced and insignificant and humiliated. I abandoned therapy for almost 10 years until I realized how bad my depression was and found a lovely woman who really listened to me and helped me learn to deal with what I was feeling. And she definitely never made me feel like my worth was tied to my body. Not to brag, but I'm so proud of myself for taking that step and allowing myself to be vulnerable with another stranger after the horrible experience with the first. I haven't overcome my issues with intimacy or self-esteem, but my depression is under control and I'm happy. Question time! All crime is legal for 24 hours, à la "The Purge". What crimes would you commit? And it has to be something within your skillset. I'd like to pay off people's debt using Elon Musk's fortune, but I don't know how to do that. So I'd egg and TP his house. And maybe even his person. Ok that's it from me. Take care!

chunkyfunky

Hi K I hope you & Nutmeg are doing ok 💗if I remember correctly you said you have a sweet tooth so I was wondering what’s you’re favourite go to pastry? Personally a Cinnamon Swirl or a Cream cake is very nice :) . This is going to sound very strange but I was told recently that taller girls aren’t as cute or feminine as smaller girls so now everytime I stand around a guy who is either the same height as me or a bit taller I feel like I’m a gross gremlin and want to shrink into a box and hide…anyway thank you for the kiss at the end of every Q & A . Sending love 💗

nicolew97

hiiiii k! hope you’re well:)) What have you done recently to treat yourself? also: (can you pleaseeee do more like friends to lovers nsfw?)

Ania

I shouldn’t write it but I read comments here and they’re so kind and cute and amazing and you guys are so sweet and honest. So I thought I can share my story here. I’ll probably delete it later because this story is embarrassing and sad. I was in a relationship and it was my first relationship in my life. It was so exciting but also I felt anxious because I had no experience. We didn’t have much in common but I thought I loved him, so I let him do whatever he wants with me because I was scared that he’ll leave me, if I wouldn’t do this. He was abusing me sexually. I felt guilty for all bad things that happened to me and even when he raped me I couldn’t even imagine living without him. He blackmailed me that he would commit suicide. And even after all of this awful things I couldn’t brake up with him. I’m sure that he cheated on me, he had many female friends which send him nude photos and so on. After so many months of abusing me he finally left me. He said that I was awful for him because I wasn’t good enough for him and I wouldn’t sacrifice my whole life for him. It was extremely hard time for me, because of sexually abusing he made me thing that I’m asexual. Because when I thought about anything sex related I felt awful. I didn’t realise it then that he raped me and he was abusing me for a very long time. I just want to forget about him but it’s not easy. I have insomnia and anxiety. I met a amazing man on the internet. It’s been almost 3 years since we met online. I want to meet him in real life but I’m so scared. I know he is a good person. He makes me feel calm and self-confident but I’m scared that he wouldn’t like me in real life because of my trauma. We’re going to meet in next few weeks, after almost 3 years of texting. I never see his face or even hear his voice. But I know he is a good person. And I don’t want to mess it up. I just want to be hug in totally non-sexual way. I want to feel calm and warm in someone’s arms because I never felt this way before. That kind of hug is something I want the most. And sorry for my English, I got extremely nervous when I have to write something in it.

genevieve13x

Hii K, hope you’re doing well! I have a question that I’ve been asking people around me a lot lately: ‘What is something you feel like you lacked in your childhood, and would this still benefit you now in the present?’ x

LeaStar

Hi K, I hope life is treating you well. I appreciate your work. I stared to talk to this guy I met on a dating app. We hit it off pretty well. I would subtle flirt with him but he doesn’t get my ques. He would respond normally. How can I flirt with him without making him uncomfortable

Shhh baby it's me

Hi k how are you, my name is Char (pronounced sh are) One of the most intimate things  that has happened to me in a non sexual way happened this summer actually. At that time I was dating someone who came back from LA. A little background story is that we met through bumble and he's a musician he plays the drums in a band. We dated for 4 months before breaking things off. Anyways lol one day I went to his house because I was very emotional and wanted to go somewhere quiet. He made me tea, painted my finger nails and gave me some of his comfy clothes. I was so cozy and happy. I don't know why I started crying but he held me so tight I almost couldn't breathe and he was rubbing my back. I'll never forget it. Questions If you could have one redew in life what would it be? How many orgasms do you think you have a month? What is your fav body wash? How many toys do you have? Are you flexible? What is one thing that turns you on that most people it wouldn't? What is one memory you will never forget? Do you ever fantasy about what some of your patreon members look like?

Shamesha

Hello K! Hope all is well. What is the most intimate non-sexual thing I’ve done with someone? I had a wonderful friend once. There were no romantic feelings between us, more like our souls found each other again. Whenever we entered each other’s presence for the first time that day, we would stand there and hug until we were inhaling and exhaling at the same time and our heart rates slowed. Sometimes it happened quickly and others it took more time, but the embrace never ended until that peace occurred. Many misunderstood our relationship, but as long as he and I got it, that’s all that mattered. I haven’t had a friendship like that since. That was over 13 years ago and I’ll never forget it.

tina

hi k!! my name is ana (ah-nah), i started following you about a year ago.. its very healing! my questions are -what is the first thing you look in a woman? (physical or personal) for me, i look at guys hand’s/arms -what is a turn off for you? for me, disrespectful/ no human decency -favorite cliché/trope? (reading, movies, or in general) for me its the “who did this to you?” and grump x sunshine lol

Biancalilili

Hello K and cute fellow bumbles~ Hope you're all having a nice day. I love that question and it reminds me of many cute things. I'll name one, the most intimate non-sextual thing I've done with is one is having my at that time boyfriend lying on my thighs and cleaning his ears. I really love doing this kind of things and being treated like that, it's so comfortable n relaxing. And also he's the first one for me to do that so in that case it's also a dream come true for me so double intimate and cute.

sam

A bittersweet moment but almost a year ago today I met a guy at my cousins surprise party and we decided to be children for a night and play hide and seek. It was on acres of land and around the house there was a forest. Him and I got to talking and we got to know eachother really good. It wasn’t until we had said our goodbyes that a mutual friend in the group told me he had a girlfriend. So after a night of lightly flirting and him making me feel like the prettiest girl on earth I decided I needed to get over it that same night. He recently followed me on insta and it turns out he’s single but it doesn’t feel right picking up where we left off since i am already talking to someone

Alexis Avenged

Hooray!! 🎉 I know where to ask these questions for the first time since becoming a patron! I legitimately have like 15 questions, but I won't ask them all at once lmao • Do you think "biological clocks" are real or are they more of a construct? Do you think it causes women to panic and then behave differently in a noticable way now that you're dating in your 30s? Do you or other men you know experience the same feeling of a "biological clock ticking" so to speak? • What kind of dog is Nutmeg? How old is she? Did you get her as a puppy? Where's a favorite memory you guys have made together? Nutmeg reveal?? PLEASE? 🙏🏻 🥺 What are some of her silly nicknames? Honestly - just tell me anything about her.. I lost both my dogs in under two years and I am not anywhere near "okay" or "over it" - they were the only support I really have while I continue to navigate having the worst chronic pain condition known in the medical field. My boy, Jack Sparrow, literally saved my life when I started to go into anaphylactic shock on a weekend when I lived alone, no one would have found me if it were for him, but also he made me stay and fight to try to get better and I miss him terribly. I try to honor him by donating blood, as he died out of nowhere of a blood cancer (his labs were clean after running them twice the week he died. It was a horrendous shock. fortunately it wasn't a type of cancer that caused him any pain) I also honor him and my other dogs by helping shelters with supplies when I can. • do you have any holiday traditions that you have begun as an adult to add on to family traditions from when you were younger? What are they? What were your favorite traditions as a child? And for a little spice... • What is the worst sexual experience you have ever had? What was the best? • You've mentioned a few times that you're okay with period sex. How do you go about foreplay? Is there anything you avoid? What's a hard pass? How do you switch it up, if at all? • BONUS QUESTION: Can you do some more adult fairy tales? The Princess and the Pea was ✨highly✨ underated. Thank you for reading this and answering it if you do haha If you don't, no big deal. 🖤

Shirley

Hi K, I just have one question (at least for now): If you're offered the opportunity to do audiobook would you take it? if yes what kind of book genre would you like? Thanks for everything and take care K!

thatgirlknitstherapy!

I love your love of dogs, Alexis. Talk dogs and pet grief to me anytime. My fur-kids are my family.

thatgirlknitstherapy!

What a beautiful story. An almost perfect evening. Hard to draw a line and just let it be that though when it flows so naturally. But sounds like a beautiful memory.

thatgirlknitstherapy!

Hey, totally not cool what you described. It does sound like this is not someone with fortitude, which I would consider an important quality for a partner to have. I'm hoping you feel well supported whilst this is happening. And you're entitled to feel any/ every emotion, but sounds like you need to conserve energy for you, if possible, and not expend much on someone who has disappointed you or let you down. You are right, it's not your fault for struggling with mental health. Most of the best, nicest, most creative and brilliant humans do. And if that's too much to handle, then perhaps he ain't worthy, evolved or grown up enough for all you have to offer. You take the best of someone, you got to take the hard times and challenges. Sorry that the guys you describe have not shown you the care and love we often seek, and it's very courageous to get support and do what it takes to recover when we go through difficult times. Much love xo

Hannah (Ronnie's gallbladder)

Oh god. Thank you so much <3 Yeah I need to work on a lot of things too tbh. And I don't know if that was clear. But for this polyamorous part. I respect that. I am bisexual myself and nothing against his sexuality at that point. I dont know if that was clear ':D

thatgirlknitstherapy!

You're all fine,it sounded very complicated and as though he was not giving respect to the relationship you had with him. That's really sad, and hurts. It sounds like you are honest with yourself and significant people about your struggles. I'm of the Brene Brown persuasion: "power in vulnerability". Yet, not everyone embraces honesty or realness, when it's probably one of the most precious things in this world. Take care of you. It's honest, vulnerable and sensitive souls that do struggle with some harsher aspects of life, but these are the most beautiful aspects of life and our human experience, to share and be met with the kind of raw honesty you demonstrate here. It lends well to K's question/ invitation to share a personal anecdote, so I think he's pretty real, raw and values honest vulnerability too. Just be gentle with your beautiful heart.

Kayla

Do you like giving massages or receiving them better or both and why? Do you consider massage a love language?

Skittsbaby

Intimacy is so new to me, even at 23 years old. I recently just got engaged and because of childhood trauma I just got comfortable enough with the basics. I also suffer from body dysmorphia so touching in general not only triggers that but my ptsd as well. So things like cuddling, holding hands etc are very foreign and new to me and holyyy was I missing out 😂

lost light

For me it was taking a shower with someone and we washed each other. He scrubbed me down and I scrubbed him down. There was no hot and heavy sexual tension it was more of taking care of each other. You know how in Japanese culture they wash each other's back? Yeah, it was just like that. I love that type of intimacy, the "I'm gonna take care of you" kind.

marsandjupiter

Hello K? If your partner wants to start the action, do you prefer being asked for permission or you'd just prefer them going for it? (for example: she comes to you, unbuckles your pants and starts pleasuring you). Haveyou ever felt uncomfortable over something your partner has done to you during sex time? If yes, have you talked about it or did you keep it to yourself? kisses<3

Isabella

Hi all! I hope you don’t mind a bit of a racy question but we’re in a safe space here 😊 not sure if someone asked about this but K, what do you think about anal sex? I have been with my man for years and we have tried it once….not gonna lie I think the positioning we were trying it for the first time (doggy style) was probably not the best idea so it hurt like hell and we stopped, never to spoken about again 😆 not sure if it’s something I would want to try again but some tips would be nice! Everyone have a great day !

Karabo

Hi K, thanks for the amazing audios. Your audios are always so descriptive without zeroing in on a body type or specific kind of person. Has that always just happened naturally or is it something you consider when making your audios? It's very cool how you are able to that because then every kind of listener can picture themselves in the scenarios you set. I am a big fan from South Africa.

Sarah Velez

The most intimate thing I've done with someone and it was not sexual has to be taking a shower with one of the guys from the swim team I was on in high school. Never been shy about my body so I didn't care about sharing the stall since all the other showers were occupied. Plus got a free back scrub out of it. My question for you, has there ever been a particular fetish or style that made you uncomfortable the first time but then later you gained a taste or liking to it?

Bimbo bunny

Hey K, I'm new here! I've been sleeping so much better the past month since discovering your audios 💕 I just got home from Scotland tonight and I'm exhausted! The most intimate non sexual thing I've experienced was recently, when me and my friend (also a female) fell asleep cuddling/holding hands on the bed in her airbnb, drunk after a night out. She's an amazing friend and it was nice to feel so close to her. So my questions are 1. Have you ever dated an English girl? 2.Thoughts on breast implants? (something I'm seriously considering getting) and 3. What makeup styles/looks do you prefer on girls? Hope you and Nutmeg are well! 💕Xx

Angel Face

Oh gosh heya K, this might be really embarrassing to say, but I think my most intimate nonsexual moments have been with VA’s and I’m 24 years old. I’m kind of a extremely late bloomer like never really experienced anything, which definitely makes my imagination creative. What advice would you give to someone like me? Also, sometimes I compare myself with other women in terms of what their bodies can do versus mine like I see women that I can have multiple orgasms and after one I’m totally disinterested, even though I want to have more or women/ppl who can get great pleasure from just nipple play or even giving a blow job and immense pleasure with intercourse. Yet, I find it to be a struggle to find pleasure, in penetration alone, it’s more like pressure than pleasure and without a vibrator it can be difficult to orgasm. I once saw a woman experience exorcism like orgasms with such ease over and over again with her partner, and mine are often just meh. Sometimes I think maybe I’ll just have to wait for my future partner to give me that experience but I want to be able to do that with myself. Not feel like I’m defective or some thing or the guilt behind it. This is long and I don’t know really what I’m asking here but I’d appreciate whatever advice you could give share.

ell

this is pretty short and a random question but will there ever be a part 5 to “keeping your secret” 🤭 luv u

florella

hi K. i've been here for almost a year now but this is the first time i'm leaving a comment. i always feel shy or nervous to do so cos i feel like i might be exposing myself in a way? your audios have made me feel really good and sleep cozy through the night and it's always a treat when i get your notification. so thank you for being being so comfortable to listen to 🫶🏻 for me i've never been in love, but i would imagine sitting in silence with the person you love, having eye contact and just being present in the moment would be very intimate for me, knowing that both of you choose to be there for one another. i recently finished darling in the franxx and i really enjoyed it. i still have lingering feelings from the anime ☹️ my question would be have you ever been to singapore? if yes, was there a local dish that you really enjoyed? if not, would you see yourself visiting the country someday? ☺️ love from singapore xo

VelvetThorn

Aww thanks, Jamie!☺️It was pretty brutal- 19 years later & I'm still haunted😂So glad it gave you a laugh!

Nova

Hope you're doing well. When was the last time you had a cosy night in? And what do you like to get up to on those kinda nights? 😉

florella

also, is it possible for you to do an audio where there's a size difference between the guy and the girl, one where she feels uncomfortable at the beginning but through communication, you guys find ways to make love better 🫣 just an idea. x

Lacy

Hi K, this is my first question to you ever! *feeling shy* I have been following you for many years since I stumbled across one of your YouTube audios. I am in awe of how you keep consistently delivering and uploading week after week, for years now. I really admire your hard work and perseverance in delivering audios for so many years, even when you had a full time job, teaching in a foreign country and moving back across the world, exercising, seeing your family, taking care of your dog, juggling dating life, etc. all without skipping a beat! What strategies do you use to make sure you are consistent? :)

CourtneyLynn00

How would you feel about doing a pregnancy series on your channel?

Kay

Hey Kay, a weird question but in audios where you take your mic into bed with you, how do you account for sheets that rustle too loud??? I’m very curious for some reason how you make it sounds so genuine yet so smooth

Krystal Katara (Kit-Kat)

hi K! so, I'm gonna try and make this as brief as possible, and I apologize in advance for this being so long! but I just have a few different questions for ur next q&a that u do! and the more I thought about them, the more I wasn't sure on how to go about asking them! I just didn't want to sound strange or awkward wen putting it out there! I just hope they make sense! and btw, I definitely appreciate the way that u show so much respect with the way u answer everyone's q's, u truly are a miraculous gift! Q1: wat does the K stand for in ur name? answer if u want to! Q2: Answer if lead to, but are u seeing anyone, or married perhaps? and for the most important one, Q3: Now, this is coming from a 30 year old, yes me, and not that I have one, bc I don't, but, I for one am a strong firm believer in terms of being happy by just being with the person I love most! I personally feel that I don't need to get frisky just to be happy or to feel pleasure, bc just being with them is all I need to feel fulfilled and satisfied! my question is, and I know that ur not a matchmaker/therapist or anything like that, and I really get that, but, do u believe there's any chance for anyone like me to be in a relationship with someone like me, or with someone, (preferably a man my age) in general at all? I've just been longing for someone to call my own for a very very long time, such as a companion, friend, or even lover! I mean, don't get me wrong, I love the idea of cuddles like snuggling and kisses, but I don't really like going any further! anyways, I hope u can answer all, if any, of my q's! ty for ur time K! much love, take care, and as always, God Bless! -Krystal Katara (Kit-Kat)

Tefi ∇ᵒᴥᵒ∇

Hola k! :) what is your MBTI? and do you feel represented by that MBTI? Hope You’re doing well! kisses

Cindy Koh

Hi k, i hope ur doing well ♡♡. Okay soo my qn is what genre of music do you love to listen to?

Lucky

Im curious do you live in an apartment or in a house with your dog?

Sara

Ik I‘m late, but I would really like to know if you listen to rap/trap music? 🤍

Leyndell

Hi K, hope you’re doing great! Just passing by to say thank you for what you do. Going through some constant hell lately and I always find myself listening to your audios. You’re truly a blessing! Anyway, I was wondering… what is a story you love to tell, but hardly ever get a chance to? Also, have you ever desired or longed for something but, once you got it, discovered it was overrated?

Shiina

I'm so late this will probably never been seen let alone answered, but here goes anyway! The most intimate non-sexual thing is super tiny: sitting side by side, just close enough that our thighs were touching while playing video games. Physical touch is a primary love language for me but because I'm an awkward bean, people tend to think I don't like to be touched???? That former partner was the first I explicitly told that I wanted to be physically connected as much as possible. They ended up being one of the few who understood that it didn't mean sexually and made effort to touch me as often as possible. And a question: Has it been discussed whether or not a male/male audio would ever be done? Occasionally, phrasing is used that tickles my spidey sense and makes me think of two dudes. Oh wait a second question (*^▽^*)ゞ What do you think of couples sitting on the same side of the booth or table at restaurant? Do you feel it's weird or cute? One of my coworkers thought it was weird AF and made fun me for liking it. Have the best of days!

Samantha

hi K! I was volunteering at my local animal shelter while listening to one of your q&a’s today, and in the q&a you mentioned you wanted to volunteer more! So i was wondering if you did end up volunteering and if so, where did you volunteer/what did it entail? =) ♡ I highly recommend volunteering with the cats even though it makes me sneeze like crazy lolz

Taylor Ace

Answer to your question: probably when I taught my work crush how to tango dance. I swear everything in that moment just felt like a scene in a movie🥰 Whole world just seemed to slow down around us, so that would’ve been it for me😚

Buttercup

I'm going to have to say the most intimate, non sexual thing I've done with someone else was feed them, literally. I was nurturing him and for me, that made me feel like a goddess mother or something lol. Maybe I equivilated it to him sucking on my nipples. Like I'm needed. He needed me. And that was erotic. Maybe that's why I like baking haha. And as far as questions go, I always feel odd when you post these because idk what to ask you lol like a deer in the headlights. Like you're not a person somehow lol too good to be true

Hope Padilla

Hi, Isabella! I really wanted to comment on your post because I actually do have some experience in this and wanted to give you my insight! When I did it for the first time years ago, I actually kind of liked it... In fact, I was the one who initiated it because I was very curious and really wanted to try it! The first time actually wasn't too painful, at all (also doggy-style position). The key is to be very, VERY relaxed (which I was). The more relaxed you are, the less painful it is. Another time I did it, it actually ended up being quite painful because he had done it unexpectedly (in a different position this time) and my body was just kind of "in shock" at that moment. I was not prepared... I remember tears immediately building and streaming down my eyes. He stopped, though, knowing that it was hurting me. Based on my personal experience, anal sex is quite enjoyable when I'm super relaxed and when I KNOW that it'll be happening. It's when I don't know that we'll be doing it that will most likely hurt me to the max... Everyone is different, though, but I just wanted to share in case that might help you in the future! 😊 💖

Niya

Whats your favorite part of the day? I prefer the evening, after diner or house duties where I just lie down and watch a tv show or a movie ☺️. And for your question , sorry but I can’t find a moment where I was intimate with someone 😂

Nixie

Hey! I’m still kind of new here and usually way too shy to comment 🙈but here goes… Hope I’m not too late to post this, but: if you could visit any tropical country/island, where would it be, and why? Hope you’re doing well and taking care of yourself. 🥰

angelina

he said in a q&a that he was a water sign, i think… he said he was whatever sign scorpio is in

Alexis Avenged

yo, sincerely - fuck the Patreon app lmao I'm so sorry it wouldn't let me reply to you, but I figured out that it works on the website?? idk, it's also gotten RUDE about notifying me of audios, too. ANYWAY. that rant was to stop me from crying 😭 lmao ⟨spoiler! It didn't work hahaha⟩ I wish I could hug you. You are so kind. And I genuinely just wrote a novel ‹make that two!› in response to your kindness rambling on «and on and on...» about my dog and blah blah. Even just writing it down was helpful. But I deleted both replies - I don't wanna be "that guy," ya know? I DID put the replies in my notes app, just so I can keep it and look back on some of my favorite stuff about him. This is sincerely the deepest hurt I've ever experienced. I have never experienced love the way that Jack loved me and I loved him. And then when his "sister" moved in with me again, she and I grieved him together and I miss her gentle spirit. We FINALLY bonded in the last few years of her life 😆😁... When we all lived together before my sister and I moved out in completely different directions, we had her dog, Ryder, and we got my dog Jack to keep her company, but then my sister moved and I moved and then we've lived together and apart and together and apart a couple times but she and my dog grew up together and for some reason she and I never bonded really well .. I think it was my fault cause she was the first dog we had gotten after my childhood dog passed away and I unfairly compared her to my first dog I think. But we came together in the end and that was the best! I finally earned her trust and love hahaha. 😄 So, I just want to sincerely thank you for just being NICE to me. 🥺 It means a lot like.. a lot a lot. 🖤🖤🖤 I have been struggling. ⟨ not just with his loss and the loss of his "sister" six months ago for her, two years in September for him, but I had brain surgery a year ago and I'm running out of options to help the pain before they cut the nerve up my face - I have Trigeminal Neuralgia aka the suicide disease as many cancel their subscription to life due to the pain, making it the most painful of condition in medicine. But I digress...⟩ and struggling alone. I've had this for so long, everyone is over it. So they just don't care to hear me speak - about anything, really. I always had someone to talk to when I had dogs...They weren't kidding when they said grief comes in waves. ANYWAY..Tell me about your pet(s)! what are their names? What breed(s) are they? Do they have a bajillion nicknames? All of our dogs have had several names that were somehow related to their actual given name at one point lmao. What's your favorite memory with them? Tell me anything, tell me everything. Thank you again for being such an amazing person and being so willing to reach out. I want you to know, you can reach out to me as well. 😊 Anytime. xo

Erin Knowles

You're so pretty omg 😭❤️

Sara

thank you, you too Erin ☺️❤️

thatgirlknitstherapy!

@Alexis Avenged sorry for the lag in responses. Jack is an awesome name for a dog! Ryder, I really love that name! That's got a really special significance for us, that name. I've considered it for our fur-kids more recently. My dogs have been so important to me. My first girl, Niki (Nix, Chicken, Missy) was a very sweet, very timid until pushed far, then asserted her boundaries, was my very easy, low fuss, compact little resilient Aussie Terrier. She shared our "all girl" home with my best friend and I. A stress-head and quiet as a mouse, but a small but mighty lady who lived long with me. Max/ Macki/ Maxi, he was an impulse adoption. A gentleman, an absolute gift and stunning boy. A gangly, but extremely handsome chocolate spoodle. A goof-ball with complete respect for Niki and absolute devotion to his people. He chose his person in my other half, and was loyal as anything to the person who needed him most. Amazing reader of social cues and very sensitive, but such a happy, easy-going soul. Left us too soon and it broke our hearts. We had two months to know he was sick and ensure he was always with supervision and company. Rex/ Rexi/Roo/the King/ the Boss/ Demon dog/ the Boss- initially we thought we had a very withdrawn wallflower after our confident and self-assured Max. We soon found a bond with Rex and Dog-father formed. Rex was valiant, big hearted, like 3 dogs compacted into one! He had oppinions, huge thoughts on how things should be and ran us, the house, the routines from the comfort of his position on the couch. Rex had chronic genetic health concerns and over five years cost us probably the equivalent of private schooling in exploring every non-invasive treatment option and making his life as comfortable as possible. Our absolute beautiful ruby cavalier/ toy English spaniel who manipulated his way and bent all to his whims until his mobility became too bad for us to leave him for going to work. Lenny- my heart and soul. My little man who was picked out of a pound by a shelter. He's such a striking mix of small dogs. He's got nervousness about being in danger and overwhelmed by being around heaps of other dogs and in open spaces around other dogs. Yet, the second you hold him close, he MELTS into you. He's just in bliss with touch! He's very attentive and keeps vigil over me, but has his own understanding of "public laws" that are not always understood by all around him. Our law informer and justice of the peace, monitoring every move in the common areas of the units! Ferdi(nand)-my gregarious, absolutely stunning beefcake beagleir, who is 18kg of cheeky, opportunistic adventure and food-seeking wrecking-ball, but so darling! He's so big-hearted, so warm and loving, so keen to be with us, so optimistic and enthusiastic about everything (except the cat! He has huge, obsessed stalking of cat then noisy interrogation of the cowering cat!). He's my baby of family, with touch of the cavalier melodrama and comes to me as Mama if he's in trouble. He's my surrogate partner when Dog-father is on night-shift. Dog-father so wanted the beagle breed and we were lucky to find Ferd looking for a home when we were aware we'd not have long with Rexi. Ferd is sensitive and reads our emotions with his genius cavi social skills, and is working to win Dog-father over. He's got me completely on toast and just spoiling him with love! Sounds like we don't take care of our dogs and replace them, but they are our lifeline. We're total suckers for dogs and always love the idea of adding another child to the family. We'd have had a large family of kids of fur or human if we could afford it! We'd foster, adopt more, all of it! Message me anytime on terwanda79@yahoo.com.au. You seem like my kind of person and I'd love to see pictures of your dog!!

Estrella

Hi K! Me again wanting to say Happy New Year! And just in case you use this comment section again for next Q&A, I want to ask, have you ever read a manga called "Hibi Chouchou" or "Like a Butterfly" before? Did you know about Kawasumi in your profile pict? If you haven't, I highly recommend it for a wholesome and very cute ride 🥰 when I saw your profile pict a year ago I thought, "omg isn't that the guy from Hibi Chouchou?" 😆 I just have a very soft spot for guys in glasses. Hope for a wholesome and fulfilling year for you this year. Also, stay healthy and happy! 🥳🥳🥳