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Hi Hello!

I wanted to post an update, especially for those of you who may not be active in the community chats.

***trigger warning for discussions of loss and grief in the first bullet point

Updates/Feedback Requests

  • You may have noticed I haven't been quite as active in the comments, chats, etc. I hope you can understand, and I appreciate your patience. Legend's health had regressed substantially. His mobility had become extremely limited, and his signs of pain had increased dramatically, requiring us to really ramp up his pain management medications. I promised him a long time ago I wouldn’t be selfish and make him suffer just to keep him with me as long as possible, even if that meant breaking my own heart…so I had to let him go on September 14th. I spent the couple of days before with him as my primary focus. He hadn't been able to handle being outside in the heat for the past couple of months, but we had a huge cool front move in that week, so I was able to help get him outside and make a place for him to sit so he could see our horses and the cows next door. I also moved the couch across the room, so he could see outside and the sky no matter where he laid. I ordered him all his favorite treats, and he had grilled meat for all his meals. We laid down and cuddled all day and all night, and watched our favorite shows like Scooby Doo. I had a vet come to the house so he could be as comfortable as possible. Legend and I were snuggled up until the very end, with Salem beside us. To compound this, my grandfather was rushed to the ER on September 4th and was admitted to the ICU. He started to stabilize and was even transferred to the regular hospital, but on the 11th, he took a turn for the worse. There was nothing that could be done but wait. He ended up passing this past Saturday, the 20th. To say I'm devastated by the past few weeks would be a vast understatement. I was lucky to have had a lot of things already filmed and in some cases already scheduled to post, so my uploads haven’t been affected much thus far. That said, I'm nearing the end of what I had previously filmed. I think I have things under control, so nothing should be affected going forward either. However, I will update everyone in the community chats/in a post like this if anything changes while I'm getting affairs in order and continuing to grieve.

  • I know things have been a little different since finishing up with GNX, and starting to transition things. As I've mentioned in the past it's really important to me that you all feel like you're a part of this community and are receiving content you are excited about. I was hoping you might consider filling out this Google Form Content Questionnaire to let me know what you would like to see content wise. It shouldn't take more than a few minutes to complete and it is 100% anonymous it doesn't require your email or anything.

  • Vambie Reacts' Kendrick Lamar Journey document was updated a couple weeks ago and I added check marks to the things that have been posted (at least for the all-access members, they are a few weeks ahead of YouTube). That said, if you have requested something in the comments/chats that I've missed could you please let me know in the comments section.

It's been a rough few weeks, but if you can give your loved ones a call or an extra hug + your fur babies a treat and some extra love today for me 🫶🏻 As always, thank you for all the love and support, and I hope you have a great night or day wherever you are 🖤 - Vambie

Comments

JB

🫂

Sara

❤️❤️

JB

Legend Forever ♾️

Reginald Torian

Oh my god. I hope you’re able to take the time that you need. That’s so much to handle at once.

Calvin Wine

Thoughts and prayers are definitely being sent to you! Allow yourself time to feel all the things you need to regardless of the emotion.

algorerhythm

So sorry for your losses, losing two loved ones in such short time must be incredibly difficult. But at least it sounds like you went above and beyond to make both of their final days as comfortable and full of love as you could. And I'll say it again, give yourself the time to grieve and don't worry about maintaining your busy release schedule for now. I'm sure everyone will understand if there are delays or fewer drops for a while. RIP Legend and Vambpa 🖤🌈

Jay D

Here for you, Vambie. So sorry to hear what transpired the past few weeks but I'm glad it's over and I hope you're doing OK.

Maya

So sorry for your lost. 😞 please take care of yourself and take however long you need, you’re in my thoughts 🫶🏽

Ayon

I feel your lost. I followwd you because of your humanity so deal with yourself first we will be here when you get back. Sending emotional strength 🙏🏽

Dylan

The content has been great, but nothing should come before your health and well being. I'm really sorry for your loss and I hope you take as much time as you need. I'm sure none of us would get impatient with a time like this

MrDavis

Thank you for the update and I'm so sorry that you've had to deal with back to back losses in just a short amount of time. Hopefully you allow yourself plenty of time to mourn and find some solace in knowing that you didn't prolong pain for either of them 🙏🏾

Steve Noris

I’ve posted comments before but just to say again, I think you would very much enjoy the weeknds discography, his early three albums are amazing and all story oriented, only warning is that Echoes of Silence (the third mixtape in trilogy) does include some references to possible SA as the persons consent is never mentioned/discussed, the weeknd is a character and this becomes very apparent especially moving into starboy and the final 3 albums which are amazing storytelling pieces, it would be very interesting too see you attempt to dissect the story of after hours, dawn fm and hurry up tomorrow as his discography is technically one long story, My dear melancholy, isn’t fully part of that as it is very personal and talks about relationship issues and whatnot with Bella Hadid in there on and off again relationship and Selena Gomez with their relationship and rumoured break up reason. The final three albums also come with an accompanying film hurry up tomorrow staring Jenna Ortega which is a metaphorical answer to the final albums reveals. Thank you very much for all your hard work in making these reactions and I’m so sorry to hear about your loss, wishing you all the best. ❤️

Wakandan King D

Very sorry for your losses & make sure you take all the necessary time for your mental health before you’re back doing anything full time . May god bless you and your family 🙏🏾🤍

bd

So sorry for your losses, sending love ❤️

chuck skeeter

Spending your remaining time watching Scooby Doo? Legend lived up to his name 💯 Condolences for your losses Vambie, take all the time that you need 🙏🏾

S Dot

Condolences for your losses, sending love

AFLO

I'm sorry for your losses ❤️

MrMars06

🫂take as much time as you need!

Jeremy Ely

I am so sorry for your loss Vambie sending lots of hugs 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂

Beaver_

That was rough to read. I really hope you don't feel pressured to continuously pump out content through this unimaginably tough time. Sorry for your losses.

LilrNdy

Sorry for your loss, try to take this devastating pain one day at a time but if you can’t, it’s understandable, sending virtual hugs 🫶🏾

Inglewood

My condolences to you and your family 🙏🏾

Aisback

Big hugs

CJ Mullins

All the good vibes headed your way. May they rest peacefully.

Okasanlamar

i don't know if vambie said this publicly or in the chats or somewhere but just to confirm, she isn't reacting to No More Parties In La right?

Derek Ince

Vambie you would love going through the omegle bars Harry Mack. Always puts a smile on, and hes the goat of freestyle. Drop 2 Harry Reactions a week till you catch up.