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Bailey Bradley

You may have missed it, but shane freaked out and left because Ilya called him by his first name

ondraya

Don’t take this the wrong way, but I feel like you’re letting your uncomfortable feelings towards sex scenes block you from fully comprehending the story being shown to you. I only say this because you seem to be missing some nuances and unspoken elements of these characters…and quite a lot of what we understand about these characters is in the unspoken. And things that are spoken, like Shane and Ilya using each other’s first names for the first time in this episode, seemed to be missed. And that was the big moment that ruined all the progress they had been making. The actors and creators and have talked about this, but this show is not just doing these sex scenes because they’re hot. The story and relationship dynamics and progress is IN those scenes. AND they’re hot. You obviously don’t have to like what the story is (not saying you don’t like the story), but I think there’s a difference between “not liking the show’s plot line” and “missing the things the show is telling you and not liking it because of the things you missed”, do you get me? For example you say you wish the show would show us their relationship developing by them talking and getting to know each other (ie dating) when that just…isn’t what the story is. This is 2 closeted male athletes in the early 2000s in a sport that is infamous for being toxic to this day. Shane is dealing with the pressures placed on him because of his race and the expectations he places on himself to be The Best™️ at hockey and please his parents. While also wrestling with his sexuality and clear attraction to Ilya that he isn’t fully comfortable with yet. Ilya’s dealing with being from Russia (a place that is actuvely hostile to the LGBTQ) and from an abusive and toxic family that expects him to provide and represent, while also fighting the desire to get to know Shane better for his own safety. And I couldn’t tell if you noticed them showing this a couple times , but Ilya’s father has memory and health issues that are just another thing for him to deal with. All on top of being almost alone in a foreign country, speaking a language that he’s not the most confident in. Which doesn’t always pair well with Shane’s neurodivergence. So their communication issues make sense. And they’re not gonna be able to just…date. But despite that, in just the first 2 episodes we see the fact that after their initial attraction they clearly enjoy talking to each other considering they kept texting despite taking years to meet up to have sex for the first time and they keep talking. There’s a feeling of kindredness between them, that keeps them coming back. They have multiple tender and wholesome moments before, during and after sex. Shane LIKES that Ilya is assertive and playful as he’s quite passive and introverted. Ilya LIKES that Shane is “boring” because his life is so chaotic and unreliable. We’ve seen them evolve to the place they are in episode 4 where they take the next step to more intimate levels and they like it but it took a long time for Ilya get there and the changes and clear signs of deeper feelings scared Shane off and the fear of what those feelings mean for his sexuality and his career drove him to Rose. We’re supposed to root for the potential of what they COULD be, because they’re not there yet. This is a romance at the end of the day and maybe it’s just because I personally cannot stand instalove tropes, but I find Shane and Ilya’s relationship much more interesting compared to Scott and Kip’s, which is cute but…easier? They have their own struggles and it’s a nice story, but it’s quite basic and predictable imo. I like that Shane and Ilya have to work harder to get to the point of being together emotionally. To me, they have more interesting hurdles and a more engaging journey. You didn’t know about Shane’s autism before this so I get it, but we’ve seen that his character is, as you said, constantly nervous and shy, but that’s just how he is. And he does banter back with Ilya consistently, that’s just their dynamic. Sorry if any of this felt rude or mean, I’m just trying to share my opinions on the show and your reactions so far. You are entitled to feel how you feel, but I think it’s an interesting show to have a dialogue about how its telling the story. Can’t wait for your reactions to the final 2 episodes! They’re widely considered the best of the season.

TessReacts

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I totally get that the show uses intimacy to tell the story. I’m just reacting in real time and sometimes certain scenes make me uncomfortable or pull my focus a bit. I did miss the first‑name thing, that’s on me, and now knowing Shane is autistic definitely helps some of his behaviour make more sense. It doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying the show, I just process things differently. I appreciate you explaining your perspective and I’m excited to see how the last two episodes go.