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Incoming angry rant about family members who spend more time worrying about what they're getting after another family member dies instead of just grieving like a normal person.So last month my grandfather died, the patriarch of that side of my family. He was a showman and was, at one time, very wealthy however he died with almost nothing in liquid assets. Instead he has actual assets, that are to be sold off after his passing, with the heirlooms either being donated or going to certain family members.A particular piece of shit in my family, who we'll just call a....leech on society, is demanding that he get things that the will does not specify should go to him, but to someone else.Despite all this, despite the legalities of it, he's throwing a massive piss party fit about it and being a total jackass and basically causing massive drama in the family and it has emotionally exhausted me and everyone else. We're all trying our best to just make sure grampa's stuff is preserved and the stuff that is to be donated to be sent to the proper places-- and he's greatly impeding it, making what is already insanely traumatizing (going through and seeing god knows how many pictures of your dead grandfather with you as a child, things he owned, things he cherished, his every day items). The era of my grandfathers wealth ended decades ago and all that is left of it is the things he acquired over the years and he specifically wanted certain things to go to certain places.... and this POS is mad that he's not getting any go at the really valuable stuff so he can sell it and use the money for drugs.Sorry if this is a bit too personal, but this is just what I've been dealing with for the last week or so and its drained me and I find myself crying and angry. I am drawing a little tonight, as its the first time I've felt like doing anything.But god does this shit make me mad....

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SJS

That's awful, i had a friend go through sneering like that when her grandpa died. It was like a bad telenovela. People like that have no shame. Sorry to hear you're going through this and i hope things get better soon.