Consistency and building relationships requires effort, discipline, and daily practice. 👷🏾‍♀️💕💎 (Patreon)

@therealbrownc TIPS FOR Consistency and building relationships requires effort, discipline, and daily practice.

1. Be kind to you!🧘🏾‍♀️ - creating healthy boundaries between the people that are close to you and new people that you are introducing yourself to is something that you should practice all the time. If we don’t practice healthy boundaries, then we live with regret and anxiety around how others make us feel. Learn how to say no without actually saying the word “no.” For example, Instead of saying “no, I don’t want to,” try saying “I would actually prefer if...”, or “I’m unable to...”

2. Success is not a secret, it’s a system.📚 - This is literally a title of a book. But the quote actually means so much! When successful people are interviewed and asked what did they do to become so successful? The answers are always the same. Here’s what they typically say:

◦ “I removed negativity from my life, and surrounded myself with better people.”

◦ “I decided to write down my goals and focused on a way to achieve them.”

◦ “I started reading more.”

◦ “I created a schedule for myself and dedicated time to do the things that were necessary to achieve my goals.”

3. You are your own marketing expert! 🌱💰- You are also the product, did you take the time to make the packaging desirable? Do you know who you are? Do you know what traits people like most about you? When you are able to answer these questions, the smile you wear and the confidence you exude are a magnet. This energy can literally be seen and felt by others.

4. How can you build a great relationship with someone (?) 💏 - if you don’t even make them feel good? Think of the top three pages on Instagram that you visit daily. I’m sure they make you laugh, or you learn something that feeds your soul, or it may give you the inspiration to keep moving towards your goals. Either way, they make you feel good about where you are and where you’re going. The way you achieve this feeling while building relationships with people is by:

◦ Showing an interest in the person.🤝💓 - If you’ve had a conversation with them and they told you that their dog was sick🥺, that is something you can actually follow up with them on. You can also ask them about their passion, their family, their hobbies, etc. These actions equate to genuine interest being built.

All of this is to say; everything starts with you!

All Love, 

CNC💵☮︎