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mrs-laufeys0n

I don't know about anybody else, but I often find it really, really embarrassing to have to ask for help just walking to my car. I'm highly independent and often don't want to ask just for the reason you said - guys make a big deal of it. In any case, I think you did the right thing.

Lizzzard324

I think your sweet and adorable and I love your terminology for what you did. "Going on a side quest". Your life really is a video game. I really thought for a min you were going to say "I asked if you felt comfortable bc I'm The Grey Knight and it's what I do".

AbsolutelyLena

Maybe she felt embarrassed about feeling like she needed that; I sometimes do that too and feel like I'm taking the “easy” way out of a spooky situation, even though I always emphasize how independent I am. And it’s far worse if the guy (as decent as he might be) reminds you of that.

Jennifer Fraser

Sounds like you're a pretty good feminist already. I think "thanks for not making a big deal about it" means you treated her like a human being. Many men would ask why, say no, get defensive, make an argument about women's irrationality, or actually be that perpetrator of whom she is fearful. A little compassion and human decency go a long way in this world.