#71 When Your Partner Only Does It To Please You (Patreon)

We aren't talking about reluctant partner's today, we're talking about those partner's who only role play to make you happy and don't enjoy it themselves. So if you find yourself in this position, this is the right episode for you! 

*Sigh* I know we all dream that we'll introduce our kink to our partner, they'll try it once and LOVE it just as much as we do. Sadly that's usually not the case. 

My boyfriend doesn't love playing the little role but he will do it every now and then to make me happy. I knew I should feel grateful but I couldn't help but feel a little annoyed! How could he not enjoy being loved and cared for? 

It used to BUG me. And before long I was turning him down when he'd offer to play the role because it didn't feel authentic to me. After a while I got frustrated and my mommy-side felt neglected. I was itching to care for someone. 

It wasn't until recently that I realized it doesn't matter if your partner loves it just as much as you do. If you have someone who's willing to go outside their comfort zone to please you, you're pretty damn lucky. 

It's easy to get wrapped up in comparisons. I'd get sucked into Tumblr and see all these MD/LB accounts and long for it, but for no good reason! I had a loving boyfriend who was willing to play the role, I just wouldn't let him. 

Sometimes our partner's get pleasure from bringing up pleasure and that's okay too. 

Have you ever had a partner who only did your kink to please you? Did it bother you too or have you always felt grateful? 

All the best, 

Lo