#74 Find The Love Of Your Life Online (Patreon)

This podcast topic was inspired by a chat I had with a member of our lovely Patreon community. 

In this episode I give my best tips for strategically setting up your online profile to attract the *right* type of person for you.  

This doesn't have to be a romantic relationship, the tips could also be applied for meeting people you'd just like to be friends with. 

Years ago, before I created my blog (daddyiwantthis), before I ever opened up about my abdl side to anyone or even came to terms with it myself, I struggled with meeting people because I was basically just a blank avatar on Fetlife. I was afraid of being exposed so I didn't include anything. 

It would be awesome if you could just have a blank profile to keep your identity safe and people could give you the benefit of the doubt, but that's not the case. 

The fact is, the more information you provide on your online profile, the greater your chances at having someone reach out to you or reply to your messages. 

Now I'm not suggesting you go out and post a selfie and tell people every single detail of your life. 

There's a delicate balance between posting just enough to give us an idea of who you are while also protecting your identity. I dive deep into that in this episode.

Give it a listen to learn my do's and don'ts when it comes to setting up your online profile. 

All my best, 

Lo