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90 DAY FIANCÉ Before The 90 Days 0711 "The Fault in Our Stars" Part 1 (Patreon)

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This is part one

Tigerlily pushes Adnan to compromise. Rayne and Chidi reunite. Matilda sees Niles' autism affecting their relationship. Veah learns Sunny hasn't been totally honest with her. Newcomer Joe is certain Magda is the one, but his family isn't so sure.

Niles / Matilda: 13:55

Adnan/Tigerlily : 32:45

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vicky hurley

It makes me crazy hearing anyone not SEE TigerLilly. She is manipulative & smart. I saw her stripes when putting her only real friends, her hair n make up team, in coach while she flew first class. The fun of money is in giving. He is gross bartering to underpay. My only pity is she doesn’t know that if she were to get pregnant, and bring that baby to Jordon or God forbid have the child there, that child would never be permitted to leave & his mother & sisters would take that child faster than her head could spin. All while she’s pushing 50 and he’s still young and at play. Ready to take on the next, much younger wife, for more children because I believe having many children are important to him. YES I too agree I wish she’d educate herself a little bit to verbally really challenge him. It’s like those idiots who love Trump when everything he stands for is to hurt them. I have no pity for her because she is smart enough to Google educate herself if she weren’t as arrogant as him. Sissy Love!!

Holly Ellis

I grew up in Ghana, they have 70 (some say 90) languages. The one they’re speaking in the show is Twi, it’s the main language of the Ashanti people who live in Kumasi. Thanks for the podcast this week, it was sorely needed.

Kathleen wallace

Thank you Poodle. I feel the same as you but I’d add scared. I’m frightened. I’m incredulous. Thanks for letting me hear your thoughts and letting me share. I pray it’s not going to be as bad as I foresee. On to the show! I NEED distraction right now. ❤️

TT

I needed this on this day!

Reyna
>>154967500

"The fun of money is in giving" It took me reading this to get it to click about her.

Elizabeth

I love you all, Sissies 💙💙💙💙

Elizabeth

I’m afraid Mattie will get to the orthodontist next month and then he’ll be told that the braces will unexpectedly be staying on for another four years 😬🤪🤣

Elizabeth

“I’d have to watch you finger your disgusting Invisalign.” One of Poodle’s greatest quotes…and also how the rest of the world is looking at America 🤪🤪💙

Elizabeth

TWO BI-CURIOUSes? That’s exactly what the nation needs 💙

TT

Also, to me. so much about Niles has less to do with autism and more to do with him just being a man. Delaying telling the truth, etc. However, he's a better communicater than most.

Martha Allen

Thank you for your opening thoughts. I am still feeling numb and angry and scared. You two made me feel better.

Carey Addis

I work with a lot of black and Latino people. Every single one voted for Trump because our economy in Ohio sucks and people are struggling to survive. One of them said “voting for social issues is a privilege of the rich”. So I am trying to see things from that perspective-Maslow’s hierarchy of needs- and not take the outcome personally.

Emily K

Thanks for sharing, Poodle. ❤️

Lynn

I cried after the last election due to happiness and this time I can’t stop crying because of utter disappointment and I’m so saddened. My mental health is definitely affected and I don’t know how I’m going to deal with the next 4 years. It never entered my mind that she would not win!! 🥲🥲🥲

Amy

Tigerlily's little baby voice airhead act is so effing toxic. It perpetuates the idea that women have to act that way to get and keep a man. I can't stand watching any of her and Adnan's segments

Amy

Also, thanks to Poodle for sharing his very eloquent thoughts on last week's outcomes! It felt like it could have been taken from my own journal.

Megan

Ha! I’m currently listening to the episodes before Covid and Jake had just come back from China. To hear the enthusiasm in his voice back then, before people like Veah came along and sucked out his soul. Good times!

Erika D. 🧡

Dammit Poodle. 😢Monday morning listener here. You wrote everything Im feeling. 😢 Still in shock. Still processing. Still spinning. Digging deep to love the people who are close to me despite who they voted for. It’s hard. I just wanna be home and lay with my pups. I’m feeling lost. Love you both. Thanks for always bringing it. 💜

Jude

I love you guys

Liza Windmoeller
>>154985803

This. If people do not live in red states (I’m in Wisconsin) and spend time actually talking with the people behind the votes…it’s very hard to understand where anyone is coming from. I’m brown and I do not support Harris. I do not support Trump. There’s a lot I have to say, but it’s hard because I’ve been attacked very viscously for saying simply how I feel. Isn’t that what y’all are doing too? It’s not fair.

Liza Windmoeller
>>154973950

Okay but even if they did? There’s isn’t not a place for them. I am in the middle and tend to lean more conservative with my views. As a brown person that’s been talked over and told I’ll be deported by the same Harris supporters who were all for immigration last week (many POC didn’t vote how white ppl wanted so therefore we aren’t useful anymore). I didn’t even vote. The complete hate coming from the left though has left me shocked. I have many many screenshots of nobody believes me, but people are turning into exactly what they think the right is. My two cents. Those type of generalizations are harmful as hell.

Liza Windmoeller

Hey sissies (and boys)! I just wanted to share my thoughts also, since this is a safe space. Not all Latino/latina people are doing okay, and a lot of it is coming from the left. The side preaching love and acceptance. I have countless screenshots and been told personally (🥰) that I will be deported and they just can’t wait. I didn’t even vote. I support neither candidate and I have plenty of reasons for it. Which of course I’m demonized for just in itself, but I expected that. I DID NOT expect the white people on the left then screaming about “fuck all Arabs and Latinos” and praising them now getting potentially getting deported. Asking how to go about contacting ICE to get their neighbors deported ect. It’s evil. And this is Because they didn’t vote how the white people wanted. We stopped being useful to the white people. THIS…and THESE type of people scare me a lot more than who was elected, and MAGA supporters. I live in a red state and actually live amongst many. I talk and take the time to understand, and not fucking once have I ever felt discriminated against. Not once. The generalizations that all trumpers are nazis and all Harris supports are just so amazing….is absolutely not true and laughable (again, don’t believe me? Message me and I have the proof). Be kind. Your way is not the only way. Mainstream media is absolutely not true most of the time, and remember how to critically think. ♥️

Jeredith Jones

You've met the Lily, time to meet the poodle

Ariel Koch
>>154973950

I think this one is hard. The MAGA platform / ideology is anti LGBTQIA and I don’t know that two openly gay hosts need to create a safe place for people who support that right now. It’s also not my place to decide that, it’s theirs. On the other hand, I do recognize that not everyone who voted for Trump agrees with 100% of the MAGA platform and may be very supportive of LGBTQIA rights. For me personally, voting against the basic human rights of Mattie and Poodle would not lead me to believe they should welcome me with open arms. I do live in SC and understand it’s complicated, that’s just my perspective. I do not have a public platform and would defer to / support whatever they feel is best for them right now.

kay
>>154973950

I agree, Ariel. They will, like always, just infiltrate our safe spaces and try to guilt us into feeling sorry for them.

Amanda
>>155003820

Whether you voted for Trump or didn’t vote, the result is the same and will lead to dangerous consequences for anyone who is not straight, white, cisgender and male. If you could not vote to protect them/us, you essentially voted to hurt them/us. To come into a space that only exists because of the entertainment gay men provide you and announce that 1) you did not support them and 2) you now cannot deal with the consequences of your actions is hurtful and will not garner you any sympathy, at least from me. I do not want anyone deported, but since Trump has said it’s one of his priorities, I do hope that the people who ARE forced to leave are the ones who could not bring themselves, for whatever reason, to support our most vulnerable communities.

Liza Windmoeller
>>155003820

Seriously? So I’m not allowed to have an opinion? I am part of the lgbtq community myself, an immigrant, disabled and a woman. I’m absolutely allowed to have my own opinions and can share them. Do you not see what you just did? You literally told me because I didn’t vote the way you wanted me to I’m a horrible person. This was not for sympathy. It is to create dialogue and share my own experiences and thoughts, but I guess because they do not align they aren’t welcomed here. 🥴. Thanks also for showing pretty much what happens immediately after POC says anything that’s not aligning with the rhetoric.

Holly Wagner

Thank you for acknowledging and speaking to the election. The results make me feel like I don't live in the world or even planet I thought I did, and coming to this community is comforting. KGQ ❤️

Amanda
>>155003820

I didn’t say you weren’t allowed to have an opinion. I told you how your opinion made me feel.

Liza Windmoeller
>>155003820

Um yes you just did. You wrote an entire comment about how my opinions and literal experiences are essentially invalidated because I did not vote - and how dare I come in here and announce “I didn’t protect the boys who provide my entertainment” . What a lovely thing to say. …… also idk how me saying people from the left who last week supported immigration are now calling for mass deportation to prove a point, and being blatantly racist made YOU feel some type of way. I am part of the some of the vulnerable communities you JUST put you care about. Huh. Being attacked repeatedly though for opening my mouth (mainly by people making generalizations like your comment) and not daring to agree with liberal white women is really getting old.

Julie Perley

Your thoughts on the events of the past week are much appreciated. It’s been rough but the fog is slowly lifting and hope is all we can do. ❤️

Tricia theisen

I think my husband’s mother may be a Mother Poodle. My husband is one of four and none of them acknowledged their parent’s anniversary. My mother in law has brought it up four different times and their anniversary was at the beginning of the month. She says “I’m over it, I guess… but…” and told my husband “I know none of you took the time to wish us a happy anniversary, which I’m over, but you may want to call your grandmother for hers… because you forgot mine…” it just occurred to me that she’s a Mother Poodle minus the “guh!”

Carey Addis
>>154985803

Yeah, here in Ohio we have a very very large population of Indian immigrants. Most voted for Vance because of his wife. I think of the cultural significance for them and it makes me happy, gives me some peace. Politics and voting are so nuanced. Not black and white at all. So, as discouraging as elections can be sometimes, I hope we can all stay judgment free in this community and support each other.

Cynthia Franck

Thank you for expressing your feelings on the election! So many people will say “we don’t talk about politics here” but we have to start. This is the most depressing thing that has happened in a long time and it is shocking . It’s just sad that a behavior of a mad man is going to be signed off on by an entire country. And he said “this will be the last time you have to vote” that’s his plan. 🤯🤯🤯 Also people saying the economy is bad— it’s booming right now, what people are feeling is inflation not a bad economy.

Carey Addis
>>155003820

With all due respect, Amanda, you didn’t use feeling statements. You spoke from a place of fear. Fear is how the bad people of the world control us. I don’t think we should judge anyone’s vote at this juncture. The atmosphere is too emotionally charged. We can feel our feelings, use them to support each other, but we shouldn’t use them to put each other down. I am old. I have lived through many elections. I have seen many presidents come and go. We will be ok. The world keeps spinning. We are but one country and one culture. We should keep perspective on our worldly significance. But mostly, we shouldn’t turn on each other. That doesn’t help us understand each other. I’m sure Kamala would tell us to take this time to listen and learn, not judge and react. Liza, you are allowed to not vote. That is your freedom. That is democracy. Please don’t feel bad or feel like you need to defend your choice. No one should put an emotional gun to anyones head and force them to choose.

Carey Addis
>>155003820

I just reread Amanda’s comments and it makes me sad that 7 of you hearted it and only 2 hearted Liza’s. She IS the brown LGBTQ person in danger. Yet when she brings a different perspective, you all heart a comment that says “you will garner no sympathy”. It makes me sad. None of us in this community deserve to be told that we are an enemy and are part of the problem and get no sympathy. It’s an angry response. I understand it, but it needs to marinate and be revisited in a time of calm. How many of you that hearted the comment are white and straight? Sometimes it’s best for us white cisgendered straight people to sit back and shut up.

Dana Tabala

BCDP 🤣🪦 Also YAY! Thank you for deciding to cover both!!!

Magda Anna

As a Polish sissy also named Magda, I am all to accustomed to hearing my name pronounced MagNa (especially in the midwest). SMH so annoying!

Elizabeth Gouveia
>>155053144

Why???? I don’t get this. Maybe bc I had a great aunt Magda but it’s such a clear distinction. It makes me so mad at him when he says her name wrong

Scott Stodelle
>>154985803

I know some is going to writes their hate speech on me but I’m a MAGA and super fan of the boys. They say a lot of things that’s I find stereotypical of straight white males but I take it and understand that is their open. And I was truly shocked and disgusted or offended there is a thing called unsubscribing. But I works in the restaurant industry here in Chicago and have for the last few years from 2011 till now. A lot of people don’t understand that the Latino and Hispanic people voted on immigration. One of the guys I worked with explained it to me very simply. You want in like at Disneyland for space mountain and it’s like 2 hours. And right before they get in people crowded the line. And get their citizenship papers before people who have waited 10 To 15 years. My sister in law waited and working for 20 years. Last point and I wait for the storm. I don’t want boys using the girls bathroom and yes the south loops elementary school systems signs are posted that boys who think are girls can use them. School has told them why but you explain to a group of girls that know the buys that use the bathroom. And the school telling the girls that they are both girls and these kids and been going to school together since kindergarten. That I find wrong but a conversation between two consenting listeners is different. Matt and poodle may not like with my opinion and feelings but there has to be some they agree with. Like I don’t agree with everyone of their views or believes but where we have common ground I will stand side by side with. Bring on the hate

Scott Stodelle
>>155003820

I’m sure you don’t know this but President Trump doesn’t hate gay people he had the VERY FIRST OPENLY GAY CABINET MEMBER. His name is Richard Allen Grenell#2 Washington Blade: Trump brings up global initiative to decriminalize homosexuality at U.N. “In a surprise move, President Trump included in his speech before the United Nations on Tuesday his administration’s global initiative to decriminalize homosexuality in the more than 70 countries where it remains illegal. … The remarks mark the first time ever outside of Twitter Trump has acknowledged the global initiative, which is being spearheaded by U.S. Ambassador to Germany Richard Grenell, the highest-ranking openly gay person in the Trump administration…” #3 Former President Donald Trump is facing criticism from some conservatives after his Florida estate Mar-a-Lago hosted a same-sex marriage. John Sullivan, vice chair and treasurer of the Tennessee Log Cabin Republicans and his husband Dan Medora, got married at Mar-a-Lago on February 23, Let’s take bets how long does it take for them to kick me off but I’m sure it will not be the boys but that doesn’t like to hear what they disagree with anyway KGQ

Michelle Levy (@atlargebookings)

Beautifully said Poodle. Thank you for sharing your thoughts / writing. Love you both so much. It’s a terrifying time. At least there are many of us who will get through it together. 🩷

Liza Windmoeller
>>155003820

Yes I do know some of this, but people don’t want to hear it. Look at the first response I got and that is primary how everyone is “feeling.” Everyone opinions is based of feelings and fear right now and if you come in with any other type of information or perspective…HOW DARE YOU? You and me both, thank you for speaking up 🫶🏽

Ted Danson
>>155003820

also why are you the only one allowed to have an opinion that’s “right” like what

Liza Windmoeller
>>155003820

…are you okay? Like are you actually reading anything I’ve said? I said my opinion/experience and was attacked and told that im x, y and z for not voting ect. So I responded and then dialogue happened. Idk if you know this but that’s how conversations work. If you’re insinuating my anger at being talked over repeatedly by white people and told I’m horrible is me saying I get the only opinion here - you’re very wrong. But I’m allowed to defend my stance, especially when it’s insinuated I’m the enemy by people who supported immigration just last week. Your comment could also be applied to Amanda’s no? Why isn’t it? In her (and your eyes ig) eyes that is the ONE opinion you can have, otherwise you’re horrible. People are allowed to say what they feel. Just like you are now 🫶🏽

Candace Hoffman-Hussain

Repeatable moments so far. Poodle’s reflections made me teary 🌈💙 lol I am 42 and getting my braces off soon. 😀 My parents had a dog named Muffin! When I was very young. The neurodivergent bluntness. Totally empathize. I support an autistic client who recently told me my breath stank and I was a bit embarrassed but it motivated me to see the dentist for a cleaning the next day 😂.

Jessica K

Thank you for your opening words Poodle 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Kristi

Poodlelily!

High Skyer

Poodle your words were beautiful and I related to them deeply. Thank you for the share.

Lizzy

On Wednesday all I listened to at work was a mix of Reality Gays and Slipknot

Anna

Poodle baby I cried and cried listening to you read. Thank you so much

Abby Ziff

FWIW you all have ruined this comments section which should be a fun place to zone out. You can acknowledge Poodle’s powerful words without having to tell your whole election story. This isn’t the place. I live in DC, I’m a woman of a certain age. I have had it up to here and this 90 Day comments section was one of my escapes. Take it elsewhere please! 🙏

Amanda Kayes

Thank you so much for sharing your words, Poodle . I can certainly relate. Sending love❤️❤️

Amy Diehl

I love Niles & Matilda!!!

Amy Diehl
>>154985803

Sorry to tell you this, but boys and girls both use the bathroom in your house!

Alex

Poodle you are speaking to my heart, I’ve been keeping it in all in this past week but this helped me to release ❤️ thank you

Carey Addis
>>154985803

Phobia=fear. A fear can be overcome with education and experience. That’s why we should be welcoming in this community. Sissy love is a powerful thing that can help change peoples’ perspective.

Beth

If you’re a liberal/Democrat and this election result shocked you, please for the love of god get out of your bubble! To anyone paying attention the last few years, it should not come as a surprise. Democrats ran a terrible campaign with an uninspiring candidate. If you want to make things better, invest in building community regardless of who someone voted for and pls remember that both parties are owned by the 1%. Only we can save us at this point!