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90 Day: The Last Resort 0207 "If You're Not First, You're Last" (Patreon)

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Content

Julia reveals a painful secret that affects her marriage with Brandon. Ari's peace offering doesn't have the intended results with Bini. Gino's rejection has Jasmine at a breaking point. Sex therapy reveals intimacy issues with Natalie and Josh.

Episode Discussion Starts at around 17:17

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Elisabeth Berry

What kind of bar was this??? Can’t even make an Old Fashioned??? Or did production only pay for beer, wine, and well liquor with one mixer?

Carey Addis

Ari can shut the hell up about Julia. She has no idea what it’s like to fear infertility. She’s not a therapist. I can’t stand her negative, smug, self-important take on everything and everyone.

Carey Addis

Rob and his mantrums 🙄

TT
>>161286259

I hated that moment too. She got pregnant by "accident" when so many couples are not in that circumstance.

TT

Why does Bini not swear on the life of only his one kid? He has another one too!

amy

Re: Abducted in Plain Sight. There is a great serialized podcast...!

Alyssa Krieger

My discovery+ cut to a commercial for Bipolar medication during Natalie and Josh’s segment 😭

Ebonie Porch

I had a whole flashback when yall started sing that Destiny’s Child 🥰😂

Hannah Snyder

hearts are with you all! <3 KEEP GOING QUEENS!!!

Rayana Gilbert

Now make Mattie watch the documentary about the IVF Doctor that impregnated all those women

Cecilia Adams

Maybe it’s just me, but I have a problem with a one on one intimate moment with the therapist and Josh and Natalie. It was different as a group session. The therapist just watched them intensely. I’m kinda with Josh on this one. Even though he’s an ass.

Kaiko

Wait they’re putting you to sleep when you get a colonoscopy? I was awake. They gave me a small dose of fentanyl. I remember it. I didn’t feel any pain just pressure. The worst part was the prep. Have fun! 😂

Captain of Something

On top of requesting unnecessarily complicated drinks, you KNOW that Gino probably doesn’t tip 😤

Captain of Something

You’re right poodz, they’d have to drive 40 minutes to that bar. They went to the Hitching Post Saloon in Apache Junction.

Carey Addis
>>161305640

I understood his feelings. I think he’s very conscious of being on camera. But I also think that sucks. Because he’s only there to be on camera, so he should have to play along.

Carey Addis

Did anyone else see the quick shot of Natalie stuffing her face with fruit? Her mouth was FULL. Then to shove that fruit plate at the therapist and say “you forgot your plate”….Girl! Stop!

Linda

🗣️NEVER ORDER FROZEN DRINKS AT THE BAR!! The quickest way to make a bartender hate you (unless they’re pre made in a machine).

Dara Medina

As an alternative to the colonoscopy, your provider can order cologard. That’s where you send a poop sample to the lab. My kit is in the mail. The more you know.

Sam Lo

The way I sell my patients on colonoscopies is that you get those GOOD drugs. That propofol chef’s kiss 👌

Val McCue

I’m not a Gino fan but I got worried for him when Jasmin went to grab the rock 🫨 Seeing Jasmin’s shoes on the dresser still bothers me deeply.

brook vanderford

Just letting you know that this one did not download into my Overcast app today… the last three have been missing. I know it’s not your fault but I’m just keeping you in the loop.

Daniel Bower

I'm glad they included that scene with Gino and Jasmine. That felt like the most real insight and authentic we've seen into their relationship in years. I bet they had that identical fight for months and months if not years at this point. People get a bit lost with Jasmine / Gino. Yes she wants sex. But I think more importantly she wants ANY type of intimacy or affection. He wouldn't even give his own wife a hug or a kiss on the cheek goodbye for heavens sake, but wants to sleep in the same bed as her? C'mon. Gino likes to crank himself to porn, Then knowing he won't be able to perform even with the help of his blue pills, pushes her away and starts conflict so he can use it as a shield to prevent any possibly chance of intimacy. Yes boundaries and consent are so incredibly important, but that's not the issue here. Gino has an issue with sex and intimacy and weaponizes it against Jasmine. And because as she says herself she is 'crazy!' and yells and screams it overshadows the core issue. No one should have sex if they don't want to. But if you are married you need to be honest to your partner. He isn't going to ever feel comfortable having sex with her (or anyone else) unless he is honest with himself about his masturbation habits and porn. I'm pro porn, love it. But I see the problem signs in Gino.

Jessica K
>>161315772

A gentleman of my acquaintance felt like a mess after the propofol, and, still loopy, he goes “I don’t know how Michael Jackson did it.” Me: hon, Michael Jackson is dead I don’t think it went well for him.

Sam Lo
>>161315772

Oh noooo Lolol. Your reply 👏🏻. I’m deceased! 😂.

Jessica K

“I’ll have a snakepiss slider please” 😂

Hollan Read

Vodka soda with a lime. Keep it simple and keep it moving. I bartended for way too many years and grew crotchety and old before my time. Everyone just needs to know a simple drink that they like and isn’t complicated. You always know those people who never leave the house because they are like: “Ummmmmm…I don’t know. Something fruity?” Vodka sodas all round and shush! If you want to be fancy you can get flavored vodka. Huckleberry is good. 😂

Jessica K

Apparently in the city I live in there’s one doctor, who is an attractive single gay man, who hands out some very high percentage of the city’s Prep prescriptions then just like strolls over to the gay bar on Friday night where he is recognized by EVERYONE 😂

Peggy Ann

Yes! Every time I hear Reba, I think of Reba McEntire

Jude
>>161308003

Yes! she was eating like the little fat kid with the chocolates in ‘Matilda’ 🤣

Jude
>>161305640

It was creepy how she just hung around listening outside their patio doors 😆

Jude
>>161287948

What a fckn baby! They should’ve left him in the desert for a few hours

BRITNEY PORTER

Thank you for reminding me of a song I used to live “F**ck The Pain Away”. It’s been in my head all day 🤣

AlexaGraham

Reba’s facial expressions during Natalie and Josh’s segment had me cackling 🤣😭

Dana Tabala

Also, don’t forget to get your mammograms starting at 40! Prostate exams for the dudes start at 40 as well! 🍈🍈🍑

Melissa Warhola

Hey sissies! I’m also obsessed with the In Plain Sight doc and can’t hear the word ‘relief’ the same way either. I recently listened to an episode of the podcast Trust Me that interviewed Jan and it was pretty fascinating although nothing can compare to the OG doc. I don’t see episode #s but it was from 11/16/22. I also highly recommended the podcast in general- it’s all about stories of people in cults/high control sitches. Sending you and all the LA peeps all the love and good vibes this cold dead heart can muster! Keep going queens!

brook vanderford

All three missing eps just downloaded into overcast. Success! 🙌😉

Reality Gays
>>161346643

Oh good! Maybe they’ve solved the RSS feed problem! Maybe they’ll let us know about it tomorrow 😂🙃

Sarah Austin

In addition to Abducted in Plain Sight, is the fictionalized adaptation (with the victim’s supervision) Friend of the Family starring Anna Paquin. I felt it really humanized the story. Also can’t speak to colonoscopy, but an endoscopy is a piece of cake! (Not to belittle anyone’s fears, just a word of encouragement.) One minute you’re falling asleep, the next it’s over and you’re awake.

Angie C

I know that your city is hurting and I'm so sorry. I'm continuing to pray for Los Angeles 🙏

Sarah Smith
>>161350572

I’ve had two endoscopies & I agree that it was no big thing (& neither was the colonoscopy - the prep just sucks)

Rizzy Ramone

Did you catch Ari on BTS literally saying Julia isn’t trying hard enough to have kids? Oh my sweet Jesus on rollerskates, I nearly had a rage aneurysm…

Amy Kalasunas

Ive been demanding that my BF watch Abducted in Plain Sight for YEARS & we finally did this past weekend.... he was apoplectic ... One of the best docs of all time

Pamela S Jones

I have stage 3 colon cancer (which was discovered at my routine 10-year colonoscopy) and I am beyond thrilled that you are championing colonoscopies! Thank you. And I am saving your new show for my next chemo session next week (after triple-checking that my earphones are SECURE and won’t blast your gay wonderfulness all over the chemo clinic!

mess_this_blessica

If y’all want to donate, one way is that Trixie Cosmetics is donating all proceeds for now to a charity that you have a few choices to pick from when you check out.

Jennifer Riester

Well, the prep is wall to wall shit talk 😂

Molly Kreutzfeldt

Is there a reality gays Venmo account or anything? I’m in South Dakota so feel helpless, but I’d love to donate money for someone to purchase formula and or feminine products.

Molly Kreutzfeldt

Also had a colonoscopy at 21 and all I remember following was the worst. gas. everrrrr.

Kait Marie
>>161382688

Hi, a lot of families have individual GoFundMe’s set up. I’ve been donating to families impacted to the Eaton Fire in the Altadena area of LA County. Or if you feel more comfortable giving to organizations there is the California Community Foundation, Pasadena Humane, American Red Cross of LA Area.

Whit

Ari showed her true colors for everyone to finally see.Ari isn’t serious about saving her marriage she is there for revenge.Don’t forget Ari had to call her husband to tell him she was pregnant with Bini’s baby. They are both cheaters.Ari is weaponizing her whiteness & Americaness to control Bini’s ability to see his son.

Whit

Bini has cheated but I don’t think he cheated in their home in Ethiopia b/c we’ve never seen any cheating footage and Bini isn’t smart enough to hide cheating from a camera crew.

jey

this opening 🤣 peak gino here 🤣 and mattie playing butch is hilarious but also for some bizarre reason, comforting? 😆 why?!

Jujuy
>>161398177

Just recommended intro to pal who doesn’t watch tlr but knows Gino!

Nikki

I ordered a Dirty Shirley with Grey Goose at a bougie little bar in a tourist town. Bartender very seriously told me she had no idea what that was. I went from 30 years old to 75 in 10 seconds. 😂

jey

1000% agree on the gino take - i think there is a big neurodivergence/touch sensitivity thing happening that is complex but there is also some degree of withholding or just lack of willingness to compromise on intimacy at all.

Renee Revolinski
>>161395516

I disagree. Bini has been lying to her for years about infidelity. When someone is gaslighting you (and making you feel like you are the crazy one), it is normal and validating to finally hear the truth and have said gaslighter come clean. Such an easy out to change the narrative by calling out "whiteness."

Jessica Pyper

Is it possible Gino has a history of sexual abuse?

Jennifer Whirley

We call Dirty Shirley’s “Tom Collins” up in MN!

Heather Greenwood

My favorite thing is when you call it like you see it. Love when you say FAG! 🤣🤣🤣 Love it

April
>>161331382

Specially when Natalie was all “here, take your things, we don’t want them”

Not my govt name

Brandon is so fickle, he just agrees with whoever he’s hanging out with but no one ever calls him out on it because he’s a nice guy

Not my govt name

Where can I find Natalie’s two piece olive dress?? 😭😭

Laura Vega

I've never experienced the transactional nature of a sugar baby or a go-go boy situation, but I've been to cat cafes where they ignore you once the treats are gone.

Laura Vega
>>161289577

I don't get the pearl clutching at swearing on the life of a child or loved one. It's just a saying; it's not like anything bad is going to happen.

Anne Cooley

Julia's fear is legit. I am in my mid 40s and always knew that I couldn't have children. In my younger days, I never wanted to get the official word. I sabotaged a lot of relationships because kids can be a real deal breaker. I finally found out in my mid 30s and actually had a hysterectomy. Society makes women feel so much shame if they aren't able to have children. Luckily, my husband was okay with no kids. But there was a couple drunken crying moments, early in our relationship, where I was convinced that he would leave me. We have nieces and nephews and we are totally okay with that! ❤️

Crystal Cole

Had a colonoscopy without being under. I got the world tour of my colon. It was really cool!

Ashley Elizabeth

All I can think of is those twin sisters. Colonoscopy & endoscopy: "same time."

Lizzy

I am so lit for Gayly Dose tomorrow 😭😫😭😫😭

Lizzy

The abducted in plain sight mom had the NERVE to write a book?? Her and the father should have had all their children immediately taken because they are so damn stupid and gullible they were an active danger to their children . Matty’s next true crime step, the Jonestown death tape! (Jk)

Kelli Kay
>>161289577

Yes! I was looking for this comment. Wasn't it another American woman who took the child back to the states???

Tonya Beth

Is Natalie not dumb? Seems like it would be pretty easy to get what she wants from Josh if she could stop being a freaking nut job for 30 seconds. She cannot help herself for even one moment.

amber

Hey poodle and Maddie. Glad ya'll are safe. Am I the only one thinking. that Nicole thinks she is like that somg by Kali Area Codes. Not realizing she is the hoe in different area code. Instead of having hoes in different area codes

amber
>>161538987

Thank you I couldn't help being upset at parents through out that documentary.

amber

How bad do we think Jasmin is going to go when she and Geno divorce. I also see her getting a hotter younger man/boy toy

Carey Addis
>>161607091

Her insistence on an open marriage makes me think she already has someone in mind and is trying not to cheat.

Lizzy
>>161538987

I was so pissed at them. They are clinically stupid. That girl wouldn’t have had to gone through any of that if they just had 1 atom of common sense.

Brooke

I just got done with my surgery from stage 3 colo/rectal cancer. I spent all last year fighting it. I was diagnosed at 39, I was told by my surgeon it had been growing in me for at least 5 yrs. No genetics, family history. Just a part of the ever growing statistic of young women who are getting this. Get your colonoscopy, even if you are under 40, they should be dropping the age to 35 with all the data. I'm lucky it didn't go to stage 4 and it was caught by chance by my obgyn. Please, advocate for yourself, get it done. Not doing it is idiotic, it's not a big deal. Chemo , radiation, and potential death are obviously worse than drinking liquids and getting anesthesia.

Mary
>>161361529

SAME! Unless you are someone who cannot have kids, you have NO idea what it is like. I didn't like Ari before, but I dislike her even more now.

Rizzy Ramone
>>161361529

That statement qualified her for a seat on the bus IMO. Her Pick-Me misogyny was on full display, it’s beyond mean girl. Nutslie is an easy target because she’s…well batshit insane, but Ari is a snake. No wonder the only female “friend” we’ve seen is the one she was paying to do everything for her!

Rizzy Ramone
>>161460875

Every time he says something “witty”, I expect to end it with “am I right, fellas?!”

Amy Diehl

I cried more during this episode than any other. Especially for Julia and Jasmine. Riveting!!