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With a few days left before the weddings, the couples enjoy romantic final dates.  Colleen expresses doubts. Can one couple resolve their conflicts?

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Amy Diehl

I'm not the biggest Cole fan but that conversation between he and Zay reminding me of a conversation I've had with my own husband. I was alot like Zay after my first marriage ended. I could NOT be vulnerable & or emotionally available. It's actually something I've been working on. The way she came in and totally took over the dinner he was trying to make was wrong but I totally understood why she did it because she needs control. She craves it because of her life experiences. I get what he was saying, he wants lovey dovey, and she's not that way. If she wants to stay with him she has to try to bend towards him a little bit more. My husband is so sweet and generous & SENSITIVE and I see that in Cole too . I remind myself That being sensitive is not a weakness and giving him a compliment here every now and then does not diminish my light. And TAKE a compliment!

Amy Diehl

YES MATTIE if this show was 35-40 year olds that would be so much better!!

April V

The way Zanab (sp?) treats Cole...is triggering for me because she treats Cole the way my ex husband treated me. Like NOTHING I ever did was good enough and I dealt with that for years! The straw that broke the camel's back was when he came home from work one day and dinner wasn't gonna be ready for another 15 minutes and he flipped out. And that's when I took a deep breathe and told him I couldn't do this anymore and asked for a divorce. Best decision for my mental health EVER!

Nicole Lynch

Who didn’t see this coming? Poodle hates the idea of a bracelet welded together on this arm?😂😂😂

Nicole Lynch

Good for you!!!! I had such a hard time watching this scene. It was terrible.

Reality Gays

Ohhhhh this is waaaaaaay different than just dressing up as her. Groooooosssss. Poodle explained that teeeeeeeribly. -M

Melanie Michaud

Oh man. My husband is Colombian and whenever we visit the Bogotá we have always removed our jewelry when going out. I was just imagining myself trying to explain to someone trying to steal the bracelet that it can't come off 🤣🤣

Claire Pancerz

You guys, I hate to say this, but Cole is very triggering for me. The messiness, the dirt, the fact he doesn’t see it, and the fact that she has to follow behind him and clean everything up all the time - this is me and my husband. I will refer to my husband as the Pasha when he majestically pushes himself away from dinner…leaving all his plates, etc., in place. It horrifies me. He literally does not see clothes draped on the floor, glasses everywhere, stuff disarrayed. Sigh. He’s nearly 60 years old!! Never gonna change. And I didn’t realize he was this way because when we met, he had a housekeeper who cleaned it all up. Cole kills me. He is way too young emotionally to get married, and his messiness and immaturity is a problem. Phew. Had to get that out. 😬

Brenna Parhad

I would bet anything that Zanab shared with Cole that she had mental health struggles and that’s why she had such a strong reaction when he asked her if she was bipolar. He was smirking when he asked and was needling her by asking multiple times

Tess

I was so with Cole. Zenab just kept criticizing him. He did something nice just say thank you. During their dinner scene I was thinking Cole cannot marry this women who makes him feel less than. Then he said the bipolar comment and I sighed and he started to lose me again.

Peggy Ann

What if you needed an MRI or something that you need to take jewelry off? That bracelet isn’t practical

Megan

The motorcycle scene… I literally said out loud “oh god, Poodle is going to love this”

Molly Kreutzfeldt

Woah. Epiphany. Maybe the title is a double entendre. Love is Blind. But then some are also blinded by looks and sees pass all the flags. (as you said with Bartise and Nancy)

Arden

Enneagram: Mattie is a 2 or a 9. SK is a 5.

Val McCue

Her voice is like nails on chalkboard already and when she puts him down it is just unbearable. Good on you for walking out of that relationship!

Caroline Dickie

Blighty Day is a married couple and they’re covering LIB on their patreon. The first ep is on their free feed

Val McCue

Ughhh in a heart beat, only BARTise would think that’s “romantic” what a tool!

AnitaBonghit 69

If I had to guess Bartise's career without already knowing like you did on a previous episode, I wouldve guessed some kind of Andrew Tate knockoff or one of those gun rights YouTubers that talk about concealed carry and prepping.

Ashley Goodwin

I may be the odd one out here but I don’t think Alexa and Brennan are going to make it. He’s such a simp and she’s gonna get bored. I also feel like he’s in over his head and quickly going to realize it.

Laura

Yes him smiling while repeatedly asking her was a dead giveaway it wasn’t a genuine question. He said it to be vile and mean. I don’t like either of them but that was gross to watch.

Lucy Robinson

My adhd makes me really messy, and it’s something I hate about myself that I work really hard at and usually fail. Some people are messy and it’s not a maturity thing.

Claire Pancerz

That’s a good reminder for me not to judge (or only judge my husband!), so thank you. There are so many things in life where we just have to try to walk in other’s shoes.

Kai

zanab is very passive aggressive and a stick in the mud but i just can’t with Cole and his childishness.

Brittany Walsh

Poodle, take it from an 8: we don't need Mattie's compliance to include him in on the enneagram fun. I hereby declare he is either a healthy 9 or a healthy 2.

MicaS

Love Poodle’s description of what Bartise says as a combo of Brene Brown, the 4-Day Work Week and the 4 agreements. Also thought Matty’s comment about Netflix being like an affair was insightful.

Lisa F

that’s exactly what I was thinking because I’ve had those exams where you have to take them off.

Lisa F

I don’t think he’s a simp but I do think he’s a laid back casual kind of guy and she’s not. On top of that, her family expects him to eexpress his commitment in marriage by what he can give her. They’ve mentioned travel a few times. Like, I get it…financial stability for couples is important; but I don’t think it should just be on one person.

Lisa F

Zanab was so chill on their boat date; but then she was super critical about the way Cole was cooking. Like…let him flip the chicken the way he wants. And if it’s not seasoned the way you like it; just tell him later. I would’ve felt picked on too.

Lisa F

Raven cleaning and wiping down the chairs made me chuckle. Like…their place is spotless. What are you cleaning?!! 😆 Speaking of them…I do feel a kind of arranged marriage kind of thing with them. There’s no chemistry; but they do seem to respect each other and are OK with their lukewarm relationship. I could see her being very comfortable having the independence while he’s away at school but appreciating the financial stability that she knows he has.

HHB

Got married at 50, dated him on-and-off for 17 years before we said "I do". Wasn't wanting for him to ask, I was just living my life!

Jilliann Gardner

Lol I am read for filth with my permanent bracelet. I got it with my best friends to celebrate 20 years of friendship. It’s on my Apple Watch wrist so I don’t even notice either at this point.

Jilliann Gardner

It cuts off with scissors. They will reattach for you after. I’m the basic bitch with one as a friendship bracelet lol.

Jilliann Gardner

Cole and his keep sweet bullshit was so offensive! This was a big turning point for me because he was starting to win me over.

Marcy Rodenborn

My daughter is an Undergrad At Berkeley and I’m forcing her to take a Data Science class in the hopes that SK is her TA. She’s going to keep her eyes peeled at school for him.

Jujuy

also, you often have scans/ procedures where you need to remove anything metallic ( retired RN here)- good luck with that!

Nikki

I think that’s just the role Brennan plays. Men that are overly agreeable always have another side to them. He’s arrest record got posted online also.

Suzanne P

the last good show that addressed women 35-40 was Sex and the City!