What should you say to kids about their genitals? (Patreon)

What should you say to kids about their genitals?

What's an appropriate adult response to kids showing off their genitals? How can we empower them in the decisions about their bodies? How can we avoid sexually shaming them? There is no one answer to all of these questions. My suggestions are really built around the conversation being intentional, kind, and without doing harm.