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(EARLY ACCESS) SNG EP 525

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Lilly 🌻

James, there’s so much in you that’s resisting wholeness. I know, coz I’ve been there and still working my way out……. You are on a QUEST TO EVOLVE, there is no escaping this quest, so keep at it with the questions and letting it all come up as you’ve been doing lately. I am rooting for you and sending light, love and hugs your way ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Angelia C

I loooovveee the open transparency. I’m proud of you James. 🤞🏼 Also, I’ve never back down from a challenge. Let me know when you’re ready big baby. 🙂‍↕️💋🤣🤣

Triniti Wiley

James doing some shadow work on why you may have some emotional intelligence issues (like maybe your household wasn't very emotionally in touch or maybe you felt you couldn't have emotions) and perhaps some trust issues (maybe pursue some therapy) will help you be able to reframe your mindset on love and relationships love is a frequency and you will continue not to be a match for it as long as your heart is closed to it you imagine the worst outcome that shows a very negative outlook on the whole situation to begin with its normal to be nervous but your almost completly adverse to it that's pain I've been there and I'm sorry but everyone deserves love and there is most definitely someone for you but you have to heal first or you wont even recognize them or be open to them because you can't see past your own emotional bias happy healing I relate to family being your first heartbreak and its honestly the worst feeling you got this though and I wish you all love✨❤️💪🏾❤️

“Doc. Raushaun”

*chuckles*- the way James discovers himself, and then share as if we didn’t know, is hilarious. Good episode.

Katherine Acker

The feeling of control is an illusion. There is a lot of freedom in vulnerability. As you slowly become more vulnerable…..the illusion begins to slip and you realize that you are actually not in control of life and that feeling of safety is a coping mechanism. Even though you say you hate being vulnerable…you still said it out loud for millions of people. This shows how vulnerable you can be. And that’s growth. And that’s huge. Proud of you. ❤️

Abigail Nadia Nicolas

On marriage and divorce rate…. That statistic doesn’t account for the fact that women before only a few decades ago were not allowed to divorce their husbands simply because it wasn’t working or because of domestic abuse. So in another way you can look at it as freedom was granted to women. Another point… the reasons and social pressures to marry back then led people to agree to something they never truly understood. All this to say… it’s still a pretty scary decision to make to spend the rest of your life with someone. But when has anything good been easy

Myriam .

I love that your reading this series your in for a treat with the second book !

Only Da Real

never rely on your women for emotional regulation.

IsleChile

First of all, the "pits of hell" bar took me. Fashion, sports, anime and cooking is hilarious, but admirable at the same time. One time for Jason Bolden. He is HIM! Family experiences will mess you up. Half the battle is acknowledging it. Love this for you all.

Amanda

I love reposts! The original creator gets all the credit.

Janal LePenn

This has to be one of my absolute favorite episodes! So good!

Lauren Medina

Woow..wasn’t expecting James to make me cry today but here we are..🥹…definitely a control thing😭

Candice Ramiya

I say everyday how you grow up is everything. I’m glad I experienced a healthy marriage and unit cause that idea doesn’t scare me. It’s so beautiful

Cwesh Bophi .

can’t wait for Dressed to impressed stream 🤭🤭

Candice Ramiya

The taking family stuff for granted is so true. I had a friend point out that me and my parents say “I love you” a lot. And I was like 🤨 yall don’t?! She was like no we don’t say it like that. I was so shocked. My parents can leave the house. Call to see if they left something and before we hang up we say “see you later/when you get back. I love you” like FIRST nature. I had never realized it

MillieMangolicious

James just needs to know he can endure more than he can imagine.

G..

James being so open and vulnerable is one thing, but being jealous of how Fuhad’s mom talk to him is heartbreaking 🥺

Hypehobo

Straight out a 5yr relationship (she left me for a fat🥷🏽) yall made me call my brother for a therapy session

Marvin Bullock

James forgot to say Falley will look great at 40 😂

Ashley Cherrelle

Well, only reason why divorce is so high is because we ignore red flags. When people talk about their divorce i always think, there’s no way you didn’t see or know this before yall got married. Myself included.

Averi aka Akuma

What i find funny is James says he cant open himself up to that level of vulnerability but he does it literally every day with Fuhad. People are often just as vulnerable with their best friend as they are with their partner. More so in some cases. Shit not even just Fuhad Rem too. Not always about the romantic connection. Platonic ones hold the same wait man

Sam

james i am also terrified of the 50/50 shot.

Jū-Ban (Number Tehn)

Bro. I'm 32/M, this is a valid take on men, relationships, & our fears. Very insightful 🔥

Kesha Samuels

I swear so many episodes I just want to hug James. 🥰

Jocelyn Howard

The fact that James said if they switched bodies he would want to see how strong Fuhad is and check his DMs and Fuhad said he would help James with just general adulting is the most hilarious example of their personalities that has ever been on the show.🤣🤣😭

Devonté

You guys will feel soooo fulfilled when your FYP has little to no cheeks. I had to lock in for like a whole week to clean my FYP. Everytime cheeks come up, immediately click 'not interested' and skip. Now my FYP is anime, cooking recipes, manga/manhwa, gym & business related stuff.

Naz

To add to all the other spot on comments: maybe he hasn’t met the right one. Although we are all imperfect, when you meet your right match things just click. You are able to be yourself and feel safe to test/work thru those insecurities with someone who will not judge you or leave you. The same way he feels safe with his boys, you can find a partner who makes you feel that way. Also: not everyone is built for relationships or marriage. But on the positive side: the fact that he’s willing to explore and analyze himself is a great sign of someone willing to do and be better.

Tray

Daddy Fantasy’s update did not disappoint 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Brooke T

I loved this therapy session episode! James is more vulnerable than he thinks. I think that when he finds the right one he will find peace in safety that he hasn’t felt before. Not saying I know someone who would be perfect for him…. But 👀

Than Stew

Did anyone else catch 1:06:22 but me?? 🤔🤭......the visual🫣

M

Read James read you have noooooo idea whats coming but it’s JUICY I promise! No spoilers guys!

B3thbakes

The riddle was so simple though 🤦‍♀️ i don't understand how she never got it until the end 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Ive moved onto the next book now, but im so here for this! Love hearing James telling them though! ❤️❤️❤️

B3thbakes

Im so looking forward to James reading Mist and Fury! Him explaining it is gonna be great!! ❤️❤️❤️

Tamiijay

I’m hoping if James finds the one he’s able to let his guard down. He puts on but I feel like deep down he wants to love and be loved fully. But I totally get it. Heartbreak from anywhere is a motherfucker. Who wants to deal with that more than once if at all? And family heartbreak is deep. But I’m rooting for you James! Talking about it is the first step

Zoe McIntyre

James - look up avoidant attachment

Raven Tatum

Ayeeee I got the riddle now I wanna read the book!!!!!!

Destinee W.

1. "Im a victim of my own curse" 🤣🤣 2. That ring is a little diamond egg😲 3. The 60% love thing... I get it lol 4. This therapy session... tears. It truly hit home for me❤️‍🩹 5. Love me some Daddy Fantacy😍 and I FUCKING KNEW IT! im SO glad I knew the riddle from the start😆🤣

Vondawithan_a

My ex just wasn't eating the cat right. I thought maybe he just didnt know how or lacked experience. He would use his teeth and low-key chew on my shit, so I asked him whats going on and he finally comes out and says "oh I don't like giving head ".. so why tf didn't you tell me that earlier!! chewing my shit like it's a piece of bubble gum. 🤦‍♀️😒😠

Inès Leca

THIS WAS SUCH A GOOD EPISODE. so wholesome!! thank you for this (also about james’ dilemma, i feel like he’s hung up on the idea that he has to find the one to marry but marriage doesn’t have to be the be all end all!! funny that ya’ll talked about ronaldo bc that’s one example! he’s been with his georgina for ages, they have kids, the whole “thing” and yet he’s only now proposed. everybody is on their own timeline!!)

Chorina

What a wholesome ep. Damn boys this ep slapped! GGs on the open and honesty from real life topics. Actually love to see this. Ellis is right too how cutesy it is how you lads just do this on a random and it just goes deep. It’s nice to hear and good to see. L3 G3 ✌🏼

joseph borden

REM repping that Philly love go birds

Mikaela

What an amazing episode!!! Love the vulnerability and heart to heart.