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Ep 360 - Fuhad opens up (Patreon)

Published:
2024-01-25 15:00:11
Imported:
2026-06

Content

AYO CB's!January's been a heavy one for us! A lot of heartfelt moments already! Fuhad shares something personal, then we pick up with something a little more light hearted after that!

We discuss bleaching our Dads butts and wearing gimp suits on our commutes to work, told you, light hearted hehe!

Enjoy!

PS! Cult babies if you wanna link up with your fellow peers join us on Discord! Add Remskkii#9108, once he accepts your request, please send him your patreon email address. Gxng!

Files

SNG EP 360

0:00, FUHAD OPENS UP 10:32, WEEKLY CATCH UP 29:03, PICK YOUR POISON 40:23, THREAD 43:46, BOBBY LEE 48:26, AITA

Comments

Brandi E

Also on AITA…she obviously has post partum depression and she should probably talk to her OB.

Ayo Cherry

Sending love to Fuhad as someone who also has ADHD and it makes me wild anxious. I’m getting meds as well, it’s a process, be easy with yourself. ❤️

Andy Foley

First and foremost, thank you Fuhad for sharing. You have started a new journey within yourself that will bring you clarity, relief and comfort. You will know what is best for you once you and your doctors figure everything out. Not everything works for everyone so there may be some trial and error but you are on the right path to understanding yourself. Congrats and good luck. You are not alone and besides your real life loved ones, you have cult babies who support you and will always be here for you. I don’t often comment in here but I am going to weigh-in on the comments about James’ reaction because I understand both sides of the coin of where people are coming from. This is obviously just my opinion and fellow cult babies can agree or disagree or read it or ignore it. It’s all good either way, this is a safe space. As a person who suffers from a chemical imbalance, I initially was upset by James’ comment about the ADHD medication because I know the comment is not factually accurate. I did want to scream at my TV “James! Stop talking!!!” I think most of us did. It was uncomfortable. But after I stewed in my initial opinion, I thought the following: 1. James gets uncomfortable with serious situations that he doesn’t know a lot about, that he wasn’t expecting to hear about and that is happening to someone he cares about. Admittedly he said he gets uncomfortable and doesn’t know what to say. 2. Fuhad is James’ bestest of bestest friends. We know how important he is to James and knowing what we know of James, it would eat at him knowing that Fuhad was going through something physically, medically, mentally and/or the thought of Fuhad thinking he was anything less than the terrific person he is. 3. James will likely feel 5% mad that a lot of these comments are dissing him, but more importantly he will feel 95% bad that he came across in a way that he would never intentionally want to come across and it will probably make him feel sick if he thinks for one minute he made Fuhad feel unsupported. 4. This is a Patreon episode. This didn’t go out to the whole world. This is a place where we can make mistakes, learn, grow, be vulnerable, be mad, sad or whatever. It is a safe space to be human. 5. At the end of the day, as Fuhad learns more about what he is going through, James is going to learn more about what Fuhad is going through. He is going to be more educated and will support Fuhad 100% like he always has done. He loves Fuhad and Fuhad loves him. They are family, bro’s, boys, besties forever. So after I thought about all that, I wasn’t upset anymore. Fuhad, I love you. James, I love you. We all love you both and support you always. xo

BigDawg420

Just to let yall know food doesn’t slap that’s not what that word means slap is about the bass slapping the trunk of a car. Food is fire not slap.

Ankerria Johnson

Fuhad I love you so much. I have friends around me that deal with the same thing. The relief and the acceptance they have bring their true selves has been crazy. They seem empowered and ready to go for whatever. It’s love

Ankerria Johnson

I couldn’t lips everyone. But you know, I got ass for days 😭😭😭 grab it lmao

Ankerria Johnson

What do y’all do with yall partners? Lmao.

Zoe McIntyre

Right guys! I'm going to bite the bullet and watch my first anime! Don't know if it will be my cup of tea but hey ho... netflix suggestions??

Amber

Ellis!!!!!!!

Chris Mwendwa

Ellis gatekeeping the avocado and banana guacamole ):

brandon spillman

I work in a pharmacy and some of the ADHD medications that patients take seem to have them co-dependent to function. The pharmacist I work with say as an adult you should try to find ways to help with focus on your own beforehand.

Megan Hill

You man are looking slim!!

chanely santini

that marshmallow comment had me crying at work 😭

Harmonie Simpson

With the AITA, I felt the same way after I had my son. Guys don’t understand that everything changes dramatically after you have a baby too. Chemically you’re all out of wack and you can be like that for years postpartum. And with a new baby who eats every 90 min, constantly needs you, you never have time to do the things you need to nevermind relax its overwhelming. She did tell him that she wants to initiate the sex but he didn’t listen to her. He needs to also understand that life is different now because there’s a child.

Jaishil

I have ADHD... i was diagnosed by a doctor..... the medication is scary..... for me it tunres me into an unemotional robot....because of HOW high i am without them.... so emotional, happy, i even shake sometimes because of the energy level.....i have a tablet on the days i need to drive long distances or study for hours.....its not a fun pill to take..... i stared at a wall for an hour once because it makes you calm down and focus so hard......

Adina

Fuhad I’ve got diagnosed with ADHD. When it comes to that, just follow your gut. If you feel like trying out medicine do it. Maybe ask If you can start at a lower dosis and then increase it when you don’t feel a difference. I feel like you don’t directly jump into the trance that comes with some of the ADHD drugs, because you will actually feel the difference as soon as the dosis is right for you. Often doctors just start at the highest dosis, which can be very scary and put you off from taking the meds.

Bree Wilds

This makes me want Fuhad more, im still torn but geesh Fuhads full teeth laugh makes me weak

Jessica Nauman

You can take low dosages and not become reliant on your meds! I have ADHD and the amount of benefits I got from a low dose medication versus unmedicated was incredible. People who stay up all night are taking 30-60mg a day. I am not sure how it is in UK because I’m in the US but I have a lower milligram prescription that truly made me feel productive and proud and happy about myself. A good psychiatrist won’t over prescribe you. Xo love to you and thank you for being open about your diagnosis xx

Emma Aisya

Sending Fuhad big love. As a fellow ND diagnosed last year at 35 yo (after my son was diagnosed as autistic, ADHD [AuDHD], PDA and my husband AuDHD), it’s been so affirming to understand how my brain works and how that impacts my work and relationship and myself. For instance it makes sense why Fuhad thrived in that fast paced restaurant job cause his brain needed it. Also ND folks tend to flock together… 👀 James 😝

Pholisa Fatyela

Sending huge love to Fuhad. Big ups for talking about it not a lot of people are able to do that. 🤎🧡

Joshua Brinn

Hey just out of curiosity what where do I find the test

_MissMayyy

Yessssss Fuhad, I love that you get some relief! I have adhd myself and I did think I related to you so much.. I’ll be honest, there’s not a lot of support for adults with a new diagnosis.. but I hope you do get the help you want 🫶🏻 big moment for you 👌🏻

Abi

She just pushed a baby out of her vagina???

Abi

You guys never give from a girls/womens point of view what they could feel like

Kiera Deseree

My parents wouldn’t let me get meds for my adhd as a teenager and I suffered. I started taking them as an adult and I cried because I finally felt normal. My whole life I was made to believe I just wasn’t working hard enough or good enough. I felt insane. So much wasted potential simply because my parents didn’t give me the tools. Now, as an adult I’m rebuilding the life I feel should have had and working on my first book.

Assoh Nibs

try Ox-tongue tacos. Yummy!!!!

Amarni Mills

So happy you opened up about ADHD I have recently be diagnosed with it and are now on meds for it, but I’m happy someone I really look up to has the same thing I do I guess and that’s exactly how I felt after being diagnosed I felt like a sense of relief coz I finally understood why I am the way I am :) good look on ur official assessment fuhad 🩷!

dennen

i have had adhd for my whole life diagnosed and all i can say is i dont think medication is the right way to go man personally it dumbed me down a bit and changed me for the worse its better to just start to realise the things u do different and try adapt them if u need to🤷🏽‍♂️

Quianna Lige

thank you for sharing Fuhad and for being vulnerable! idk i kinda wish james had reacted differently tho. like i get certain situations may be difficult but i just expected more from him.

Sophie Elliott

Good for you fuhad. I have combined ADHD myself and it has opened up so much for me, it is every common for people to be diagnosed later in life. I'm 26 and I was diagnosed 2 years ago.

Sophie Elliott

Medication isn't the only route for assistance with adhd, there are therapies

KBLovelock

I am merely another random fangirl, but man I am SO proud of you Fuhad - I know that takes a lot of strength and vulnerability. There are many versatile ways to approach and I have no doubt you'll find the best fit. I am also, after going on a mad binge am just proud of you ALL; Rem, Ellis, James, and Fuhad for how far you've come in such a short time. You are all wonderful, thank you for bringing some brightness to my days. I wish you all nothing but the best.

Sorbie Ware Reece

So proud of you Fuhad for having this conversation about your journey with ADHD. I hope this encourages others to not be ashamed of wanting to have the knowledge about their ADHD. James wanting to protect DADDY 🥹❤ For the married couple, I agree that she should have communicated better with her husband about how she feels. For her to not have the conversation the first time it happened is not helping her situation. As you lovely gentlemen said the husband is seeing it from his point of view. But as a mother postpartum is no joke and having a three month old and having sex 6 times after birth is a lot on a women’s body and mental health. We can’t have sex 6 weeks after birth, on top of being fatigue, exhausted, stressed and having our periods again (some ladies still have their periods during pregnancy). There are many more reasons and sex is the very last thing on our minds. This can also make her mental health decline as she might even be going through postpartum depression. But like you said there wasn’t much context about this story.

Shirelle Forbes

So James having a dinner date without Fuhad ? #tobyrevenge

Pablo

Broo “Tell me about your week, I want to know what happened?!” -Love James

King Julien

Fuhad, I felt encouraged hearing you share your experience with ADHD because I value awareness. I have ADHD combined type. The stimulant meds are definitely not a cure. For those without ADHD, taking stimulants help them be more focused. In folks with ADHD, the stimulant medications help our brains to function close to a neurotypical brain. Some patients with ADHD sleep better after taking their stimulants because their minds are less cluttered with random thoughts. I can take adderall 30mg and go to sleep. I’m a huge advocate for kids getting their diagnosis as in childhood so they can learn and practice strategies to live with an ADHD brain in a low stakes environment. I was diagnosed as an adult and learning more about my differences, coping strategies has been rewarding and stressful.

Inathi Mshumpela

“Take all the drugs” had my lungs out of my body😭😭🤣❤️

MissMae

Poor Fuhad is dead behind the eyes after James made it about him.... it's brave to open up the way Fuhad did, and so dissapointing to see him shut down.

Tiffany Foster

My brother got diagnosed with ADHD as a child after having a 10 minute assessment, was supposed to be an hour. Immediately got diagnosed and was given medication- Ritalin. My mum said that for the first time since he could WALK this man sat down for 8 SOLID hours in one spot. Where as you couldn’t get him to sit still for 5 minutes. Like he was a DIFFERENT person. Now he’s an adult(29) he doesn’t take medication anymore and has learnt ways to deal with it in a way- it’s a good thing to have a diagnosis because you may not need medication just plans on how to deal with it

Amarina Art

I'm surprised Fuhad was diagnosed. Because I always thought James had ADHD. But props to you and your journey! Glad to hear it's already bringing you mental relief to start the rediscovery of you.

Sharae

Pyp—I don’t think they thought about the fact that once they go to jail they’ll still be getting gripsed by the people there too

Samira Rohan

Why is this video unavailable?

Nicola Webster

AITA fuhad read that she had told him she wasn’t up for it after the baby and he didn’t listen to her

Shari O'Hare

Aww fuhad. I felt his ADHD chat. Theres a lot to be said for feeling validated and having all the parts fall into place. ❤️

Moni

Fuhad....thank you for sharing & shining light to mental health.🥰🥰🥰