Romantic Interactions and Sexually Explicit Content (Patreon)

I'm working on a new romantic interaction with an NPC in Safe Haven and would like your thoughts on how detailed to make this interaction. I realize some players may not want to see explicit or descriptive sexual content, while others may be extremely interested in this style of content. Of course those are the two extremes and most players fit somewhere in between. While I don't normally like to ask questions directly to the player (what some call, "breaking the fourth wall"), I feel inclined to do so in this game. My biggest concern is that it breaks immersion which I strive never to do.

So I thought of checking with my patron this first. How do you think I should approach asking the players the level of content they'd like to read?

For example, the question will be — "What level of content would you like to read in romantic interactions?"

I'm happy to hear other thoughts in the comments.