How lewd is the player character? (Patreon)

I'd like to gauge the expectations for this game as we move forward and briefly explain my intentions as well.

My intention for the player character was for her to be caught up in a series of semi erotic situations without ever really engaging in the sexual act.  Something more of a soft core tease.  Current examples in the game are being left with skimpy clothing after being captured, or having her clothes outright stolen and left to wander in the nude.  The hardcore stuff would then be reserved for NPC's.

I'm considering my idea may not be what everyone is looking for though.  So I'm opening this one up for community consideration.  

Would you prefer the player character to be involved in sex acts or remain an observer of such acts/ caught up in soft core semi erotic situations?