🕯️🔮Collective Oracle Reading🔮🕯️ (Patreon)

Hey witches, today is my birthday! 33 on 3/3! Here is a 3-card oracle spread using The Romance Angels Oracle by Doreen Virtue. The themes in this reading are all about loving yourself, setting boundaries and watching out for red flags. Does this reading resonate with you?

1.) Stay Optimistic About Your Love Life

Positive thinking and faith will bring you romance.

The Romance Angels send you this card to remind you that you have a strong influence upon your love-life satisfaction. If you've been complaining or worrying lately, the angels guide you to shift to a more optimistic perspective. Even if you've had your romantic hopes repeatedly dashed, there's still reason to hold the faith that real love can be yours.. if you believe it!

Today, take action steps to positively manifest the love life you desire. Whether you're single or in a partnership, begin by visualizing yourself as romantically happy and satisfied. See and imagine yourself with a wonderful partner who embodies the qualities that re important to you. Imagine that person appreciating and loving you, too.

You can write lists and conduct journaling sessions about your feelings, hopes, desires and intentions. You can also create a "Dream Board," with images and phrases related to your love-life goals pasted onto a poster board or journal. Daily, look at this Dream Board with positive intent, and follow any inner guidance to take actions related to your dreams. You can make these Dream Boards for anything you want to manifest!

Your positive outlook will help your relationship with yourself and everyone else around you, too.

2.) Love Yourself First

Your self-respect makes you more romantically attractive.

If you desire more romance, first look at yourself (in a caring and noncritical way, of course). The more you love who you are, the greater your capacity to feel loved by others. This means trusting yourself to take good care of you, and it may entail becoming more assertive. Don't worry: you can see be very loveable while affirming your boundaries.

Perhaps this means spending more time alone, instead of in a relationship. During this period, you can delve into introspection to understand the patterns of your love life. Ultimately, you can take responsibility for attracting, and agreeing to, every relationship you've had. To heal your heart, find the blessing and lessons you've gained from each one. For instance, have you become stronger, more independent, or more patient as a result of your prior partnerships? If so, let everything else from the past go except for the lessons and the love.

This card emphasizes the importance of loving yourself first - especially as you prepare for your next relationship or heal the one you're in. As you gain self-respect, you'll begin attracting more loving people into your life. This will lead to healthy friendships and romances, based upon mutual respect.

3.) Pay Attention to the Red Flags

The signs are cautioning you.

The Romance Angels sent you this card to help you notice the unhealthy or disconcerting parts of your relationship. If you are swept up in a new romance, this card serves as a cautionary warning. Pay attention to your feelings and impressions with regard to your new suitor. Don't allow emotion to blind you to characteristics or habits that won't work for you in a relationship.

A "red flag" is a sign that something is off. It can include an indication of dishonesty, disrespect, flirtatiousness' with others, substance abuse or lack of integrity. While your new love interest may treat you wonderfully well in the beginning of your relationship, it's vital that you watch how he or she treats others. Someone's basic character is revealed by the way in which he or she talks and acts with restaurant staff, valet-parking attendants, and other miscellaneous individuals.

If you're in an existing relationship, these red flags may signal a need for an honest mutual discussion, or couples counseling. This card doesn't necessarily guide you to leave a relationship. Red flags can be markers along the path of healing. The Romance Angels will guide you to take steps that are healthy for everyone involved, so do follow your intuition.