ADMINISTRATING AFTERCARE (Patreon)

Aftercare is EXTREMELY important in any scene you participate in within BDSM. You never want to finish a scene without administering aftercare. What is after?

After care is the attention given at the dvd if a scene or session. It’s a check in for both the Domme and the sub to come down from the “high” of intense play. Here are examples of aftercare that can be given to a sub:

• Offering water or a snack
• A hug if comfortable

• Towels to clean up
• Light conversation

• Words of affirmation (“You did do good this session.” “I love the way you serve me.”

This is also the time where you can suggest that the sub write you a review, whether publicly on Fetlife, or privately through your messaging apps. Reviews = more clients = more bookings = $$$!

Allowing a sub to leave without aftercare is irresponsible. Imagine if you were getting whipped, bound, humiliated, etc during session and then you’re just kicked out after; it wouldn’t feel so good.