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DO:

1. Communicate effectively with finsubs to let them know your financial expectations


2. Always have your payment methods easily accessible, especially for silent tributes


3. Post tributes that you get here and there; this sometimes encourages others finsubs to tribute


4. Write up debt contracts for finsubs who may be on more of a budget


DON’T:

1. Don’t mention findom on fetlife; the site will ban you for this language. It is ok to post within findom groups specifically


2. Never reach out to a finsub about sending you money; it’ll make you look desperate


3. Don’t have your real name on your findom payment methods


4. Do a cash meet without vetting the finsub

Comments

amiracle

Hi Mistress Marley I have one question about findom don't number two. So if we see a finsub paypig on Twitter and they are saying they got scammed and they want a real Dom if you inbox or like there post it gives off desperate

Ashley Stafford

What's a good initial tribute for a sub? I had one send $100 and I thought that was low. He said he didn't want to disappoint me and asked what I was expecting and now I don't know what to say lol

Lexie

I'm trying to upgrade my paypal account to a business account but there's a notice saying once you upgrade to business account I can't receive friends and family payments. does that mean when I receive tributes and money, it will be put on hold?

Butter Scotch

How do I remove my name from my paypal, because right now it is only saying my real name and I want to change that.

Tae

I have a question. I was dm'd from a retweet page asking to pay $5 to retweet me and help get subs. Is that even a good idea? Would I be better off just doing it myself?

Mistress Marley’s Sexcademy (18+)

You’re better off doing it yourself. It’s not hard to get subs on your own and even if they find you subs, it’s not guaranteed that they will be the sub you need. There’s plenty of pages out there that will do free promo, I discussed it in the findom twitter lesson

Tae

Thanks babe!

LOLITA WEBB

Question, for bgc is it optimum screening.com or .net ?

Dessi Dis'Asster

So I just created a PayPal and it is a business account. It causes me to put things on hold. Should I worry about not receiving the money or tributes?

Goddess J

I see a lot of profiles on Fetlife with findom in the profile. How would you recommend letting people know that you're not there "just for fun" (but I'm not a pro-domme either)?

Queen Emmy

Hi Mistress Marley! Would you still recommend not mentioning findom on FetLife? I see that a lot of girls still are doing it now and they seem to still be thriving on Fetlife.