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I’ve been getting a lot of questions on how to know who to match with on vanilla dating sites. With these sites, you have to mutually match with someone before you can start chatting. You may think just because you set the age filter to older men that they will all be walking wallets; not quite. Here are some things to look out for on profiles.

1. Career

  • A certain career can give off a good idea of what the persons wealth level is. Any positions such as “executive”, “president”, “owner”, etc are great to see. Any fields dealing with medical, tech, real estate, finance, etc are also good indicators of a good income. If they haven’t listed their career, don’t count them out just yet, see if the other strings below are listed.

2. Interests

  • Interests can also be a great indicator of wealth. Things like travel, dining, art shows, sporting events, etc are perfect interests for a potential sugar daddy/sugar sub to have. Being passport ready can work out in your favor. An interest in dining out shows that they’d most likely take you out to a nice restaurant on the first date. Make sure their interests align with yours.

3. Photos

  • Ok, so these men are older; we all know that their photos are either gonna be awkward selfies or some kind of corny pose. Look for outfits such as suits, ties, or casual wear that is put together in a presentable way. Travel clothes are also good to look for. You want to get a feel of their lifestyle from their photos.

4. Wording of profile

  • This is a BIG one to look out for. If they’re discussing sex or saying things like “amazing cunning linguist” you may want to stay away as they are already showing what they want off the bat. Look for words such as “genuine, generous, loves to show appreciation “. Things like LTR = Long Term Relationship, so look out for that also if it’s not what you’re looking for.

Good profile examples:


Bad example:


Comments

TheSensualSunflower

I'm looking for more information around conversation and establishing the SD arrangement past the opening conversation. I'm currently conversing with a few people on Tinder and trying to figure out how to gradually set up the sugar baby part.

Mekala

Do you think it’s better to avoid mentioning that I’m a stripper to any potential SD? I’m looking for a non-intimate relationship and I don’t want to mislead. Thank you 💕

Phenyo Melody Madiba

I’m not sure if you’ve spoken about it or if I’m not in the tier... but I just got approached by a man on Instagram saying he wants me to be his sugar baby... this is my personal insta, not my findom insta... so I was suspicious but I played along just to see how it would go. He’s instructed me to send him a pic of myself and I’m like?? This is Instagram? Definitely seems sketchy. Should I just block?

Bryanna Porter

So I made a bumble maybe a month or so ago. My searches are usually 6’4 +black men . So apparently there’s the “bee line” where you can see who likes you already. I usually skip over anyone non black…..until yesterday (granted I swipe left 99.5% of the time anyway) but I started looking though the men who have shown Interest. I kid you not … ALL OLDER WHITE MEN. What am I missing here because I’m 6ft with a 54” booty so I’m thack thick. I had NO clue they like thick black Women… maybe a fetish but nonetheless I started matchting with them just to hear them or atleast entertain myself. I swear the verbiage you speak of ive read froM them on their profiles or through convos or their careers “retired, attorney, CEO” I see I been having this possible lifestyle literally waiting for me to acknowledge it. I’m so intrigued . Can’t wait to learn it all

Makeda

Many Black women think that White men aren't interested, and that couldn't be further from the truth. Men are MEN, and heterosexual men like women! Don't let a personal hang up block a blessing...in the form of a deposit. oxox

Shanell

So what would be a great example on OUR profiles?