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[Ramble] Long and relaxed update-y talk [All sorts of things] [Cosy] (Patreon)

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2022-04-22 14:23:50
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2024-05-06 00:36:25
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I have to get out the door! So no time to think about what I should write here.Hi! You're great. I hope you enjoy 🤍

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Phantasm Cat

(Pt.1) "I've moved over 20 times" oof, I felt that. I've been through many places throughout my life, some that were temporary, some that I thought were temporary, and some that were quick split second decisions that led to some interesting memories. What I love about moving to a new place though is exploring, I love seeing what's around the neighborhood and finding all the hidden secrets, like an empty corner store or a hard to reach park. Wherever it is you go around the world, I'm wishing you all the luck, you'll do great out there~ Trying out the vegan route, hell yeah dude! Exploring veganism by yourself is incredibly easy, but yes it's the social environment thats tricky. It's still difficult for me, even years later, but you do what works best for you and what you feel comfortable with. Speaking of which, Happy Earth Day! 🌎🌍🌏 For mental health, it makes sense. What happened and what is happening in your mind and your world is for you, and you are under no obligation to share those with people if you feel you don't want to share them. It's always on comfort, what you feel comfortable sharing and who do you feel comfortable sharing them with. To me, I'm comfortable sharing my experiences if people ask and are genuinely curious, but my main concern falls on whether they really are curious and if they're comfortable talking about such topics. Whatever it is thats going on, I'm wishing the best for you. DUDE YOUR MEOWS, THE MEOWS, THE ALMIGHTY MEOWS 😻 At this point, it feels second nature to meow back, and I must admit your meows are sounding more realistic. I shall search for old audios and streams to double check the progress... for science.

Phantasm Cat

Ah, a question for the ramble!! Just one this time. Let's say you are driving in the middle of the night (rip car, you will be missed), unfamiliar location, no signs to tell you where you are, just you and the road ahead. In this moment, do you feel alone and disconnected with the world, or do you feel free and embrace the solitude?

Kaya

I have too many overwhelming thoughts and feelings happening at once right now to express and articulate properly and fully but this ramble brought me so much comfort on yet another day filled with a crippling sense of anxiety. Not surprisingly ended up in tears several times throughout. Thank you Crunchy, but also thank you to all of you active commenters because even though i don't comment nearly as much as some of you I absolutely love seeing your comments, both on posts and on lenses, and seeing kindred spirits here. Now I will go and listen to the YouTube audios I didn't realize were there while I try to get through my day.

_S

(I think I accidentally deleted my comment so I had to rewrite it 😑) - Bless you 🤧 - But I liked the carrot gag! I actually laughed. Also 🌈JUMPCUT TO THE COUCH🌈🤣 - These days I feel like I people forget (or don't know) what it's like to be off social media and be private with their lives. I still have fb and insta but I barely use them. Idk, I just don't feel like I need to share every aspect of my life, and I don't want a permanent public record of all the dumb things that already come out of my mouth 😅 - I've been thinking a lot about my own work lately. The actual content of my work I still enjoy but the management sucks. I'm in a grey zone of wanting to leave, but being comfortable and liking my colleagues. I wish I could say I loved my job as much as you enjoy making content. I'm planning on talking to my boss about working fewer days, but I'm also a coward lol. Need more time to build up courage 👀 Anyway, thanks for sending all the good feelings, even though you've got some things going on in your mind too. I always look forward to your updates and audios, especially after a long day. Look after yourself Crunchy, and enjoy your night out! I'll post some questions if I ever think of any ❤️

cosmicdreams

i have to head out soon as well so i’ll keep this brief (watch it be long anyway) it was so nice to hear about how you’re doing, that you’re feeling settled in your new place and overall feeling happy, that’s great to hear :) your mental health is yours and doesn’t need to be shared, but i just wanna say, and it might not mean much from a stranger on the internet, that i’m proud of you for working through your trauma and being conscientious of your mental health. healing isn’t linear, we have good days and bad days, and processing and working through trauma is a difficult process but so important to finding inner peace. wishing you all the best with this ✨ can i just say that it makes me feel so comfortable to know that you are thinking about and are firm with your boundaries? i feel that having that separation between you as a person and Crunchy is essential to keeping this healthy and sustainable, so i’m really glad that you keep these boundaries in mind that being said, i’m also trying to keep these boundaries in mind when commenting, and i think that’s especially important for the rambles because while you do share parts of yourself here, it isn’t the full picture, and that’s good, but i think from a listener’s perspective it can sometimes be easy to fall into the assumption that we know more than we really do. anyway this is just stream of consciousness, not really sure what my point is here but wanted to talk about this a bit i’m just happy for you, i’m glad you’re doing well and truly wish you the best in every aspect of life. you worked hard to make this full time, and you should be proud of yourself 🤍 wishing you and everyone here good health, fulfillment, and finding something to smile about every day ✨ thanks for the ramble! happy timezones

Mrs. Dubose

Okay, I'm going to attempt this. Jumbled brain is at the wheel. Also, I'm going to be very transparent because maybe someone else needs to hear this, too. Thank you for talking about your boundaries again and for your plan to make an FAQ. It is so much easier to establish and maintain one's own set of healthy boundaries when you know where the other person stands. If I'm being completely honest, I've been struggling with my own boundaries in recent months. In large part because I care. Finances, mental health, partners, all of that stuff you mentioned is intensely personal and nuanced, and offering that up for public comment would be... ugh. There are a million different opinions on those things. Laying out such sensitive inner facets for inspection would be so painful in my opinion, and your decision to keep them private is a good one. (Not that you need my or anyone else's validation.) I think my own temptation to step up to that boundary is born out of concern. You have done so much for us with your content, to comfort us, to reassure us, to give us a safe place to escape when we need it. And if something appears to be not quite right on your end, whether it actually is or not, the compulsion to show you the same care you have shown us is STRONG. But you are right. We don't know you. We don't know your exact circumstances or the whole picture. Because you are a creator and we are your listeners. And it is always good to be reminded to take a step back from that boundary line when needed. So thank you for that reminder. I will say, based on the limited information you've given us during my time here, that you are strong, resilient, incredibly hard working, adaptable, and innovative in the face of whatever comes your way, and I have SO much respect for you and those qualities. Now. Lighter stuff -- I wonder if I could convince my boss to let me put a bed in my office? 🤔 What a perfect setup. (But also? EXCUSE me with the whispery recording from bed talk! May I remind you that this is a ramble, sir, I'm trying to think serious thoughts! 😂) I'm really looking forward to your cultural ramble. Your background is full of so much STUFF. I'm so curious. I want to know everything (within the boundaries. 😜) This is not my AMA question, but when you talk about kissing your friends, do you mean cheek kisses, or are you actually kissing everybody on the lips??? Also, I still think you're in the home stretch with the hair, but by all means, cut it off because there is nothing worse than cooking rage! The first thing I do before cooking is tie my hair back and wash my hands, and then if there are people around the kitchen I tell them to GET OUT. 😂 AMA question -- if you could relive any moment from your past (just once, not repeatedly), would you do it? If yes, what and why?

Acedia

On the mental health aspect, I only share what I'm comfortable with sharing, an that's usually only when I'm venting into the void or wanting to inform someone about a certain aspect of mental health. But NO ONE is under any obligation to answer any questions about their mental health. It's comes off as rude at the very least, to be asking about it. (Also don't EVER ask anyone about their scars, if they tell you cool, if they don't, they have decided that it's currently none of your business.) Because you don't know that person's situation or past traumas. You don't know what could be a trigger or stressor for them. Trust them if they say they got it under control. Especially as a content creator, they have their own support network of friends and family. I think I might've said something once, but since then the only thing I'm sending Crunch is positive vibes and the hope that things work out for him. I might have more thoughts on other things later, I just wanted to go ahead and jot this down.

Acedia

A light hearted question for Crunch and chat to answer ( if he hasn't already): what superpower would you want and why? I've always been tied between shape shifting and teleportation. One would allow instant travel across the globe, and the other I'd probably just turn into a dragon or something and soar freely. Either one would be used to rob banks and fund my luxurious life of crime lol.

Invisible Skye

My (ok not so) lighthearted question for Crunchy and "chat" - What is a quality about yourself that you really like? (Physical or non-physical - you choose.)

cherucaustic

My question for Crunch and the lovely patrons here is simple - If you had a soundtrack to your life in 5 songs (or more) what would those songs be? Can be songs you think describe you or songs you resonate with or ones that were playing during core moments. You choose.

cosmicdreams

my questions: - what has been your favorite audio to record? - which audio are you most proud of? why? - which audio creatively challenged you the most?

cosymary5

These are my AMA / ramble questions. I’d like to know how you got into music / singing? The barbershop quartet and all that? Also, curious to know what American media have you recently watched? Do you have a favourite tv show?

Ange

A lovely ramble, Crunchy. Glad you're settling in your new place (which seems to have great light btw, given your lens photos). I quite like being in a new place, it's the act of moving - the packing and hauling and unpacking and finding places for things - that is daunting. I'm really glad to hear that you enjoy your job, and find it meaningful. Taking a hobby, or a creative outlet, and making it "work" can definitely change our relationship towards it (I'd be interested to hear you talk on that if ever you'd like). It does matter though, and you really have made my life better through what you do. I'm clearly not the only one, either. I'm glad that you can see that, and that we've let you know that you affect us positively. I do think that an FAQ with a note about personal interactions is a good idea. Things can be blurred with any type of content creator, but particularly with the sort of intimate and vulnerable space you occupy, I understand why some people reach out. Also if a person has listened to some of your older audios, there's some encouragement in those to message you. My question: what's the most unexpected thing for you, to have come out of this community? (Take "community" as you'd like - GWA, audio porn in general, Patreon...) Happy weekend hugs and absolutely sending kisses!

CarelessWhisper

I've been overthinking what to say for too long so I will keep it short. ❤What you create matters. ❤I appreciate your boundaries and they make me feel safe to interact here in a fun way. ❤I'm glad things are going well for you. ❓If you can hear your neighbors are you concerned that they can hear you? 🤔 Thank you for spending time with us and Happy Birthday 🎉

yellow seong

Happy to hear you're settling in to your new place, Crunch! Happy to hear from you in general 🥰 If there's anything I can't do, it's probably trying to become a vegan/vegetarian 😭 Also probably because it's quite challenging to have such lifestyle from where I'm from where almost every healthier/better option is more expensive than meat for example. Accents are so cool! I remember binging all the Harry Potter movies over and over back one summer in high school to prepare myself with the last installment. And when we all got back to school, everyone's so confused as to why I sound different 😂 People have told me though that I sound like I'm from some part of the US but I feel like it's kind of a mix now since I work with Aussies and unintentionally mirror them in conversations 🥲 I'll always say this but I'm proud of you all for making your mental health a priority! im still proud of u even if ur just coping now and cant do anything about it yet ❤️❤️❤️ "yOu'Re A pOrNsTaR?!" 😭😂 That's so funny but relate af 😭😭😭 pls i thought u were gonna cry for a sec there 🥺 Crunchy is probably a comfort character of mine now. You're always in my heart, bestie. Go chase your dreams ✨ Qs for Chat and Crunch ✨ 🧐 You mentioned that it feels like you're working all the time, what do you usually do to divert yourself from the idea of "work"? Or maybe hobby(ies) you have that can help immediately shift your attention away from it? 🧐 (I'm asking because I'm in need of new things to consume lol) Any movies/shows/books that you'd always recommend? Any language for the film/show is fine ;;u;; These are mine: Movie: 3 Idiots (Hindi) Show: Mr Sunshine (Korean) Book: The Perfect Marriage by Jeneva Rose and Into The Magic Shop by Dr. James R. Doty Have a lovely weekend 🌻

V for Vitаlуа

(Surprisingly, I manage to be busy even on my vacation 🧐) I will not be a bore and not repeat in the second / third round everything that has already been said here without me. Not my style. As for the hair. Personally, I'm going to cut my hair because my hair has reached the point where it gets in my way, which is annoying. We can set a date and go to the hairdresser together. Question: Well, apparently, I have to repeat my question from yesterday about sex toys? So to say, that everything would be officially documented. So what about it, Crunchy? Do you have sex toys?

_S

A late question for everyone, inspired by Cherucaustic because I always love music questions and finding new music. Songs that make you feel like the coolest mfker ever 🕶️ I already mentioned Day Tripper by The Beatles. Here's some more from a mix of eras: - Living in the 70's, Skyhooks - Evie (Part One), Stevie Wright - Summertime, Ray Conniff - Dive, Luli Lee - West Coast Love, Emotional Oranges - Fly As Me, Silk Sonic - Burj Khalifa, Epik High - Lesson 2, Epik High Making myself stop here otherwise the list would never end.

ash

i hope i'm not too late for a question, it's been a busy few days for me! a burning question i have is: did you lube your cream switches before soldering them into your rev67? ((but also if you'd like to answer this through a ramble, i aint complainin 👀))

ash

also, just popping on with another question - if you could choose to change just one thing about the world, what would you choose? and why? sorry if this prods ur brain a bit too much!