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ok so like... i'm trying to word vomit this comic into existence, and explore Goth's (and to an extent, mine lmfao) (a)sexuality a little bit.

Idk if this will make sense... or correct... (altho... I guess there's no correct way to explore your sexuality haha). But we'll see

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Phobos

completely relatable tbh

RJ

v a l i d

Kris Schnell

Goth with super fire effects love it <3

Red

There’s no correct way, it took a few years me to figure it out but from my friends who are too, it’s just figuring out what works for you. And the last one is my fav cuz honestly same 😂 respectfully and with consent of course 💯

JenM

I love this so much!

Kia

Omg this is so relatable.

Xx_Sabishii_xX

Asexuality is truly a spectrum lol like I'm the "I can read, write, draw smut all day any day... But like don't touch me irl or I'll bite your hand off 😂" variety.

ahwie

yeah!! this is so real, like bdsm and sex is gratifying but not in a horny way? very fun very relatable dommy mood

Brittany Huckey

My ace partner loved Lokis monolog from the first avengers "kneel before me" so this sounds accurate

Verllamica

As an ace myself, very relatable. Can't wait for more ❤️

ahwie

🙂‍↕️🤝

Lima Bean

“hot people are hades characters” and “my sexuality is when beautiful men cry” is LITERALLY MY EXACT BRAND OF ASEXUALITY (im also transmasc)

Sevan Pasch

This is a great idea for a comic, I can't wait to read the whole thing.

Kitty

So, speaking as a very sexual person, that "when they slobber all over my strap..." Speech...that shit struck true. So yeah, no right or wrong way to explore yourself, but you have a gift for reaching across the aisle with your work.

Akemi Kaname

I find myself relating to Goth a lot. Like I realized I was Ace like three years ago (while also knowing I was pansexual before hand) and like I wasn’t against sex and I certainly find myself seeing people or characters as hot and attractive (and make lewd jokes) but like there is no urge behind it to wanna fuck. I’d rather smooch than fuck but also like I won’t oppose sex. Usually with my partner I’m kinda indifferent about it but it has the potential to bring my partner joy so I do it for them with the gratification that I’m good at sex yet don’t want it. I’ve had sex and I’m not crazy about it (rather use my hand lol) People always tell me I probably just had bad sex but I don’t think it’s that. Sorry for the monologue lol but what I’m mainly saying is I’m glad to see more ace characters who are still sex positive. Shows that being Ace has more depth to it than most realize.

NaiDarling

Asexuality sure is a frigging spectrum bc I’m aroace and I only relate to some of this. Men crying tho… 🔛🔝

Camwell Arts

The last panel sent me lmao As an asexual myself, who tried to figure this out for like 6 years before feeling like I had a grasp on what sexuality i was, I feel lkke I can confidently say there is no "rightt or wrong" way to explore your sexuality. It's unique to each person, so no one will have the exact same experience trying to figure it out.

Ghost Star

Bro why is this me so much! 😭❤️ This is the brand of demisexuality I really be on. But yes I love and want more people making art and speaking out about their different and valid ace experiences. It's annoying how people simplify being ace to one experience more for their own sake of not trying to understand the complexity of people and their experiences which shapes our identities. We're just trying to figure our shit out and live or lives comfortably.

Rikki Chadwick

NAILED IT THANK U THAT IS LITERALLY ME

Akemi Kaname

Oh for sure it’s also just exciting and assuring to learn about how others understand theirs. Makes trying to find out what your own less rigid. Plus it might help some explore and learn more about themselves.

TaintedSilence

Or, as a teacher of mine once said, "just because I'm not hungry doesn't mean I can't look at the menu."

Amy Cargos-Morowitz

Not word vomit to me; I get it! Can’t wait to see more of this one!

Xharenny Ortiz

Thanks to boyfriends and specific or goth I was able to get to know and explore my sexuality more to the point of realizing that I am pansexual and aroace. And I love it, I'm sex-positive and I see intimacy with my partner as an exchange of quality time and affection but not from a sexual pleasure, so I totally agree with goth UwU, plus from time to time having your partner at your feet is fun 🤭

kurokitsune93

OMG I relate to this so much!! 💜

Kalida

the sense of power makes me think of a Dominant tbh you get more pleasure from the control, the caring for the partner as they give complete trust to you, the you do from what your doing necessarily?

The Virtual Celebrity

Bless his chaotic (and domineering) little heart 😂🖤🩶🤍💜

Aradia

Thank you. This makes me feel seen

TrysKits (formerly Refkins)

I don’t know if this helps at all, but one of the trans men in my life experienced a change in sexuality after he transitioned, and after spending some time considering it, he came to the conclusion that the shift was because of power dynamics. So, before he transitioned, he was interested in women, and his partner (also a trans man) transitioned while they were dating so he had to process being with a man when he’d previously ID’d as lesbian. After this friend transitioned himself, he lost his attraction to women and became more or less exclusively interested in men (which he’d never been interested in at all before). What it seems like to him is that because heterosexual relationships come with a built-in power dynamic (as in, there’s an assumed dynamic in play even if the individuals adopt a different dynamic later on) and that dynamic doesn’t work for him regardless of what end of it he’s on. (Like, it’s almost the obligatory/presumed nature of the dynamics that creates the disinterest.) Thus, his attraction to others shifted to map to the people he could be with on equal ground with, relative to his own gender presentation. That friend is definitely not asexual, and I think this experience of dynamics is independent of allo & ace identities themselves (like how romantic attraction and poly/mono attraction are separate to them too), but the comment about getting a sense of power rather than sexual gratification reminded me of my friend, so I thought I’d share in case it helps with the processing!

wildly oversalted

acearo myself and i am very looking forward to this

imaginarylungfish

Yay!! I'm genderfluid and acespec so I love reading about others' journeys with gender/sexuality. It helps me a lot!

Suckitto

This is so relatable omg

addie

this is too relatable 😭

Makananii

We need more content like this in the world👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Levina H

I recently learned about aesthetic crush and that's so validating. Thinking someone is attractive doesn't mean you wanna bang them, just that they're pretty and you wanna look at them lol that's it

Captn

Hey....at the end of the day it's your truth. If ppl agree with it or not shouldn't matter. If it's how you feel, how you see things, your understanding, and all you're doing is showing it to us then it's right which ever way you write it.

Carter

Enjoying kink and power dynamics without wanting to have sex is entirely valid. Some folks enjoy the peace and quiet kink brings them, some enjoy the vulnerability, and some enjoy the power exchange. There’s nothing wrong with any of it

Miss. Danni Tiger

I Seriously love goth and I love how in depth you explain them.

DaRichMan

I'd grovel under Goth's feet for mercy.

Kirby (つ◕_◕)つ

Not ace, but I appreciate all the work you put into Goth so much bc as a gay trans guy, it took me a while to unpack and understand my attraction to men. I wanted to sleep with them, just didn’t want to sleep with them and have my body be touched as a *woman*, you know? I wanted to be touched as a man, and seen and met romantically and intimately as an equal.