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My Asexuality (and how it relates to my transness... I think lol) [18+] (Patreon)

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2024-06-03 16:01:42
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYBODY!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

I wrote a little comic exploring my own asexuality and how it relates to my identity as trans guy, spoken from the perspective of Goth.

Haha I'll admit I'm a bit scared to share it in the first place because I don't want people to think that this is what ALL trans + ace people are like, or that my experience isn't exactly a trans or ace experience... but I still wanna share it nonetheless--I hope you'll allow me that luxury! I think I haven't really made anything that explores my own identity explicitly (furthest I've done is that Goth monologue in episode 191)... So yeah.

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rose

THANATOS CAMEO ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

NaiDarling

Your journey and discovery is your OWN. Those that relate can join but those that criticize have no right to! Thanks for telling us your story!

Matt Holloway

Your voice is always valid and your experiences are true for you. Thank you so much for sharing a part of your self with us!! *hug*

rose

omg what is up with thanatos stealing all the trans masc ace ppl… haha but FR IM SO OBSESSED WITH HADES RN AND EVERYTIME I SEE THANATOS I JUST GO HEIXNXJSKS

mia

thank you for sharing hun!! have an amazing pride month <333333

Daimos Miura

🤣💜💜💜 this is why Goth is amazing

PavlovsGhost

And goth holds first position strong in my heart! What a shock /j Srsly tho, this is a side of Ace that NO ONE talks about because they dont want to seem "invalid". Its so wonderful to see characters beloved to me so much represent things ive seen and understand. It only makes me love them more <3

Vic Sueyro

Happy pride Ray ❤️🥺 loved this a lot. Thanks for sharing a piece of your experience and opening your heart!!

Theo

this. this is exactly how it feels. I love the way you've explained it. thank you for sharing your experience with us, it means a lot, and it creates a space for all of us to share ours with each other as well. thank you!!

LESZMart

ace and trans here too, thanks for speaking out 💜

Livid Garden

Honestly glad you shared. It's always scary to share these experiences. I know I've tried explaining my bisexuality to people but they still don't get it. I feel like this is a good explanation but maybe add more emphasis that is it YOUR experience. Cuz lord knows everyone likes to believe everyone in every group is the same 😮‍💨😮‍💨

Nyx

From a fellow ace, this is incredibly real

WhoDoo

Your identity and sexuality is uniquely yours - and I think this is a really effective way to express and otherwise talk about it!

mar (otasatic)

As another transmasc acespec guy, your voice is always valid!! No experience is universal and ppl who try to police your identity based on your experiences can go to h3ll 💖

Momo

Thank you for sharing, your experience is totally valid!! Its a personal experience and people may relate or not, but its still valid :} happy pride month~ (nb ace here and tbh i resonate w some things in these panels a lot hdhdh)

Rieta.Sapphire

It always hard to explain my Ace side people 😭 and this is how I feel sometimes ❤️🙌🏼

Verllamica

Thank you for sharing!! I know it takes courage for anyone to share anything on the internet, let alone something as personal as their sexuality/gender experience. So thank you! A lot of people aren't aware that asexuality is also a spectrum, and not every ace is sex-repulsed.

Aspen

Highly felt- im demisexual and trans and most of this is relateable <3

Robyn

This is incredibly brave of you, even as a more “cis” woman who is still trying to figure things out, this gave me some really good insight into my own ace experience. Thank you for your beautiful art 💕

DJ Evan On Earth

Omg I am such a dumbass. 😆 Ray, constantly: Out of all the boys, I mostly relate to Goth. Me: Well they definitely look like him in all of their selfies! And it's pretty cool that they wrote him as a transgender dude, that's a great way to give the comic some inclusivity. ..... OH. (pretty much an actual train of thought I had weeks ago)

The Virtual Celebrity

Thank you for making this 🫂❤‍🩹 I know it must not have been easy, considering how private you are and how much you try to avoid giving your haters ammo against you. But you're helping SO many people better understand themselves by being so open and vulnerable, and God will bless you for that immensely. So thank you so much again and happy pride month! 🫶🏽🫰🏽💝

Skip_lo

As aroace, thank you so so much for this comic I really appreciate it and thanks for being vulnerable 🥺💜

JenM

Thank you for sharing your experiences Ray! As an ace myself it's so refreshing to see the incredible variety on our spectrum.

Cat

As a Trans person I love seeing otger Trans people and what their journey of self exploration is like. I personally believe that figuring out what your gender and sexuality is should be encouraged and not necessarily gatekept. You are a wonderful man, I hope you know that.

Ritt!

Thank you for sharing your experience!

Mona

Thank you for sharing and it’s always a joy learning about other trans experiences as a trans guy. It’s refreshing to see media about the intersections 💙🏳️‍⚧️

Autumn_moon

You are valid ♡ and thank you for your courage of sharing your pov ~ I'm grateful to know I'm not alone - I relate alot to this-.

Roshie Luna

I'm Trans Demi, I find 'porn' hot and stuff and like people are conventionally attractive. However like I don't feel like sleeping with someone unless I connect with them if that makes sense. Idk why I'm posting this here 😖 anyway I've already typed it out. Thanks for the awesome art as always.

Drachenstern

This is just beautiful, rhank you for sharing 💛 Also, Nerd gf is a mood

ahwie

this is so relatable 😂 i sent it to my therapist (shes a cool sex educator and is always open to learning about LGBTQ+ experiences) the way gender expression relates to sexuality! attraction versus what i actually want to do 🙂‍↕️ thank you for sharing! i feel very seen with this 🤝 we are not alone!

Dragonlet

Second this! Your experience is just that: Your experience. If it feels right -to you-, that's what matters. You cannot control what others will feel about it, and that's okay. Much love and support on your journey, may it be fruitful, whatever that means to you.

MochiCheekies

Im not ace or trans, but something that I found through exploring my own sexuality is that everyone’s experience looks different. Everyone is valid, and I think that’s what makes our community so beautiful. Happy Pride! 💜

Amy Cargos-Morowitz

I fucking knew I was going to like this even more once it was completed! Everyone already said it, but I’ll say it anyway; thank you for sharing your story. You are braver than you think, and deserving of validation from the world. If you ever wish to share more of your life experiences, we are always ready to listen and give you our hearts, you wonderful man, you! 💗💗💗

Emma

Always love the Goth content and I appreciate how much you share with us about yourself. Happy pride!🥰

Changeling Moth

I feel you on the body dysphoria point. I'm hypersexual, and telling new partners which parts of my body I hate having touched always feels awkward. Its usually ultimately worth it though if they use that info to make me feel validated and respected. I hope this was therapeutic to write!

Amy A.

Thank you for sharing your experience! I don't identify as ace or trans, but I love when fiction and art make me rethink labels (my perception/understanding of them) and my own identity. Because page 4? 100% Yes. And the panel with the evil cackle? Absolutely. That's what I want.

foof

I love this and I relate to it a lot. I appreciate the way you portrayed concepts that are hard to put into words

Liam Coballes

As someone who is trans and within the ace spectrum (demisexual and demiromatic) I relate to this so much. I love how you depicted your experiences and appreciate you sharing this with us. You’ve been an inspiration for me for a long time and I love everything you put out! Hope you have a chill Pride month!

Toz

Thank you for sharing! This is beautiful. <3

Mooshie

LOL the hades character is too accurate

Aryn Gloom

i love this so much!! i always related to goth deeply myself-- i'm a non-binary asexual and i've always loved seeing his expression of sexuality since it felt so genuine and real to me. i'm a little more sex repulsed about irl things, but when it comes to fantasy my feelings are so similar it feels crazy tbh. my sexuality feels closely tied with both my gender as well as my autism-- i'm some form of aromantic which can make me feel confused sometimes since i'll find characters or people hot and want to read smut or look at 18+ fanart of them, but the idea fo doing anything like that with someone's myself is basically nauseating. while our experiences aren't identical, no one's are, it feels so deeply relatable and genuine. thank you for giving me such an amazing asexual trans character to love and learn about! i hate picking favorites of the polycule because it makes me feel guilty and i love them all so much, but goth has to be top (lol) for me... i just connect so much!

glhw

Thank you for sharing! 🩵

Lima Bean

same bro akshdjsjjs

Jinx Luna

As a transmasc person, who is probably pan, I feel this so deeply. Like aesthetically, I know what I like when it comes to people, but touching is so unsettling and I couldn’t care less. But if they wanted it? Probs down.

Uncle Andy Art

THIS THIS THIS!! I'm a gential repulsed ace, but I do enjoy participating in kink. I'm not interested in penetration (to myself or to others), but I will absolutely chokeslam any consenting individual into the wall as I degrade them. I enjoy being in control and watching as my actions/words spawn so many reactions from my partner(s), but there's nothing sexual about it for me personally.

wildly oversalted

i already said more on twit but again, thank you for sharing. acearo nonbinary and i definitely resonate

addie

this is why i love this webtoon so much because ive never read anything with ace rep that ever came close to describing my experience until i read this. it feels really nice to be understood 🥰

Makananii

Thank you for sharing!!💖

Rikki Chadwick

Love it 🤘🏻🖤✨ happy pride Ray ^w^

I-Failed-Or-Fell (Not Active)

Pfft I love this. I'm glad you're comfortable with sharing and with comedy too lol! Happy Pride and go Acr Trans ppl :3

Drakochan

This is definitely something I've been evaluating about myself as well as a nonbinary transmasc person so thank you for sharing your perspective <3 seeing all the other experiences makes me feel less alone and willing to share my own more openly

super

i love art that makes you think!! i relate to some of these aspects, and i also really enjoy your art style with how it relates to kink 💙💜 thanks for sharing

PortgasD.SolidScript

So relatable! My husband is ace but has sex for the intimacy… kind of like some kind of super cuddles. It’s so validating to see Ray/Goth talk about this and makes it easier to understand the different ways people feel things. 💗

DaRichMan

I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to share this with all of us. You are completely valid and love just the way you are. Also, Happy Pride Month.

Dawn Stockhausen

Sounds like a Dom to me. In no way am I telling you what I think you are. The act of wanting to exert power over someone else during intimate encounters is quite domineering. Also....nevermind...anyway, have you found a good therapist that specializes in helping ppl sort out their most inner conflicts? Sometimes the answer is right there, but since humans tend to doubt themselves and/or not see our whole selves as someone on the outside looking in, we aren't always able to perceive and articulate or describe ourselves accurately/comfortably/satisfactorily (idk, whichever word works best)! I hope you find happiness and comfort in yourself. I know I tend to ramble in these comments, I think it's because I see my own struggle through you. Be well and happy!

SoraNoRyu

Love this! Will there be a pdf version to download like the other mini-comics? Also love to read Goth talk about how he feels about sex. I've never come close to trying myself out in that respect - being autistic and aromantic, I kinda just stay six feet away when I can - but I know I'm usually more comfortable touching others than being touched, and I heard a lot of autistic people report the same, so it may also be a sensory thing. Like, it's easier to manage and enjoy touch if I'm in control of it or at least initiate it directly. Especially the first image is also very similar to a panel from a comic about autism, so this seems to be a shared experience. (Not saying you might be autistic if you're not. It's absolutely possible for two different things to have the same outcome, like hypersensitivity to touch and dysphoria in this case.)

Mgirl02176

Felix! My asexual iconic king! This was actually very refreshing (especially for an 18+) Happy pride month!

Yaliss Ngom

Imma be so honest, reading it the first time made me feel some type of way because of my own experience with sex, but after reading more comments explaining it and thinking about it I understand much much better! And if that’s not the whole point of pride idk what is 🥰

RikasGrayWolf

*is simultaneously sad and happy at the sane time* I forgot this was a //mini// comic. I was wholeass excited for more updates to this exploration. 😅😆🥲

EmpathyIsCringe

As an ace person who likes sex I can relate. But for me it's more about feeling close to my partner rather than feeling empowered (also im a bottom lolz)

Suckitto

I relate so hard to this. Thank you for sharing. It's great to see positive rep about asexuality.

everard thehandless

This is the way i feel too. I think you articulated it beautifully

Sharoumane

Sounds like an ace dom more like - and he's very aware of it

Sharoumane

Transmasc dom here, I'm allo but vibing with your description of power. I think I'm a demi bottom, if that makes sense? It takes a long-term and profound connection for me to be sexually attracted and gratified as a bottom or a sub, while I will gladly top strangers, especially when it's just bdsm.

Roro

Diagnosing Ray as Dom

Lexness

As someone who's nonbinary and identifies as ace, but also probably one of the biggest sluts anyone will meet....I get this lol the IDEA of sex? BIG yes. Actually HAVING?.....okay, but I'm tired/hungry/any other reason why I can't.....

Jme

Im sorry, isnt that how sex feels like? XD. And also what would you expect to feel when someone is sucking on the dildo in the strap? XD. I'm a guy and I dont have a very sensitive glans, like I have never actually feel pleasure from rubbing my thing xD. In fact unless something turns me on a lot its difficult for me to cum, cause is more like I feel good mentally than physically. But I do feel aroused to the thought of controlling other guys in s3x. But regarding you i don't know if I would say you're ace, since you actually enjoys some kinds of sex intercourse, also I dont intend to invalidate how you feel or anything and I hope this doesn't come as rude or disrespectful in any way

Muja (Adrian)

Me in a nutshell. Thought I was just crazy.