Pro tip: if you don't want a shitty toothbrush, don't abuse anyone 🫡 (Patreon)

For context, I shared a story about dunking an abuser's toothbrush down the toilet.

The rest is as follows:

Person responding to the post:

"it's completely subjective what an "abuser" is though to this person, "he's kinda mean to you sometimes? Oh he an abuser gurl. I'ma do this disgusting and cowardly act now tee hee." (clown emoji).

My response:

"Yeah, because punching someone, raping them, financially controlling them - that's subjective right? Oh wait, no - no it's not. I'm versed in abuse. I was born into it, raised by an abusive father, seen my sister subjected to the hands of a rapist and a coward. I know what abuse is and I know that I can't force a victim to leave. They have to make the choice and be ready to leave in their own time. So, yes, I did take his toothbrush and I dunked it in the toilet. If you don't want a shitty toothbrush, don't assault my family members. Disgusting? Yes. Deserved? Absolutely."

P.S. Being mean is fucking abusive. It's not okay to put your partner down, berate them or be cruel. It is a different degree/form of abuse, yes. But it's still abuse. People think as long as you keep your hands to yourself, everything else is fair game. Shitty behaviour is so normalised in relationships and it's fecking disturbing.

You don't get to treat someone like shit and then not suffer consequences.