I Am Bragging 🫡 (Patreon)

I am bragging:

I have had financial power (and responsibility) over four people for years. I have never demanded time, affection or intimacy from any of them. It was my choice to financially provide. That did not, nor will it ever entitle me to them or their affection.

That is providing. It’s what my mother did for me, and it’s what I will continue to do for the people in my life.

Paying for things does not make you the most important person in your home or your relationship. It just means you pay for shit. If you pay, you do so willingly or not at all.

You’re not a provider if you’re using your money to control or belittle the people you claim to love.

I will continue to provide and love my family. It is a choice I make. I am happy with my choice.