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“I promise you that it is so much better to be in a good relationship with yourself, than a terrible relationship with someone else. Being single isn’t this horrible, meaningless void that it’s often portrayed as. It’s just you not in a romantic relationship.”

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RZS dran B

I appreciate it ❤️

Galactic Gaming

Thank you. But that can be hard too, sometimes. V-day sucks for me for a lot of reasons

Rasmus

🥰

Just a Toad

As someone who has been single for about 6 years now, I honestly couldn’t agree more. There are time where it sucks being alone but it’s honestly given me time to discover who I am and what I want. It’s also given me time to focus on my career and where I’m going in life. I’m content being by myself, until I find that special someone.

Ka'laar

Thanks for the leg up Tea!

Funflame

Spitting fax 😊 Understanding yourself is so important for a happy life. Having a relationship can (with the wrong person and mindset) distract you from it

Lisa Palmer

I'm actually more me when I'm single 😄

NFinity

Wise words, Miss Tea, too many stay in relationships harmful to them rather than risk being alone or facing the unknown of "if" there will be another relationship.

June

🖤

Shadowy Fox

It's taken me so much of my life to understand this lesson, and it is such an important one.

Jeremy Knight

I'd still want to be with someone though, but it'll never happen because no one wnats to be with someone who can't take care of himself due to a disability. I want someone to be there, talk to me, make me feel good and I'd return it. I can't even have so much as a fling or a sexual reatliosnhip all because my eyes don't work.

NakedAlice

You know, for a while I was single, I had no romantic relationship, but I did not consider myself deprived. Being single is not bad

demonking22

Yeah for the longest time I struggled with this, but more recently I realized I'm happy being single and I'm happy with myself, it's more that I'm depressed from loneliness 😅 I sit at home after work and my weekends are always busy, I just need more friends I can do stuff woth lol, then who knows a relationship may spawn from that 🤷‍♂️

Richard Hardslab

While I agree that being single is better than a bad relationship, I've never been in a relationship. I've accepted that it's a reality and I get fairly regular reminders just how bad relationships can get. But it's cold sometimes. So cold.

Mike Taylor

Being in a horrible meaningless void is better than being in a horrible meaningless relationship.

rubynall

I wish your words of wisdom were more widespread.

Neil Winter

I tricked myself into believing being in a toxic relationship is better than being alone. Or rather, she did and that month of abuse affects me much more than I would like to admit

NakedSunFlower

Being single as well as being in a relationship has its benefits, I think everyone will agree...

Kojiro91

True, I do agree, but also after almost a decade it does kinda feel like a horrible meaningless void 🙃

Casey Hengstebeck

Intellectually I know this is true, but after more than a decade of being single, matched with having lived alone for 3 years now, I'm really quite lonely.