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Tis the Season of GIVING! (Patreon)

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2022-12-10 17:58:08
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It is that time of year again and you are obsessed with the woman you adore. She is so perfect, and smart. So charming, and beautiful. And she is way out of your league.And as your chastity and no touching training does a number on your stupid male brain, all you can think about is giving her all your money.We just want to remind you of a few things your silly brain may forget.1) make sure you can cover your own expenses.Remember that you want to be able to give to her for a long time because that is what she deserves. So create a budget where all your entertainment and luxury spending goes to an account ear marked for Female Supremacy and tributing women.2) don't make your crush uncomfortable.The patriarchy has taught men that they deserve something in return when they please women. So your crush my worry that your gift has strings attached.So try being creative.Leave her money somewhere that she will find it and assume it was discarded.Leave gift cards instead of cash.Don't make her uncomfortable by letting her know you gave the tribute or gift.Other suggestions are welcome just be respectful.3) every woman is your crush.Remember that you serve all women so don't get blinders on. It's a hard time of year for all ladies so leave a little cash surprise in a woman's wallet or shoe at the department store.4) give to charityYour crush generally has charities she believes in. Make a Christmas donation anonymously. She never needs to even know but the money is going to something she supports.5) remember that her existence is your gift. You deserve nothing more. Don't look for her to even be nice to you. You are probably not real friends.And be sure to always be respectful and obedient in the presence of your superiors.Now go out and spread joy to superior women!

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Jason

Thank You for these guidelines. I currently have the honor of regularly giving money to four Women, and it makes me so happy to give these superior Beings what they deserve. Let's all work hard to make our wonderful Women happy!

Daniel Paul

Today is day 11 of our No Touch Chastity Advent adventure to Christmas. In the book club I attend, this fall we read “Conquer Me” by Kacie Cunningham. She has some very wonderful stories and words if you haven't read it yet. One of those stories we are going to reflect on today. This one comes from Chapter Two titled "This one time at Pancake Camp": "Quite some time ago I was struggling with my identification within the lifestyle. At the time I was going through this struggle I felt that all of them were narrow and constraining  I knew I wasn't a "bottom," "submissive" didn't feel like it said enough about who I really was, and "slave" felt like it said things that were't true at the time. My Dominant and I were out to breakfast one spring morning. I was talking about these feelings and finally, in frustration, I said I wasn't ascribing to any of our cultural titles anymore... henceforth  I would be known as a pancake. "I could just as easily have chosen some nonsense word, but pancakes were on My Dom’s plate at the time, while I had ordered crepes. She looked down at them, then back at me and asked, "Why a pancake?" "My reply: "Because you chose pancakes! Because you obviously like pancakes! Pancakes are simple, honest things, not all high-maintenance like, say, crepes. I want to be something you would  order!" (Conquer Me, chapter 2) Wow… So how many times in your submissive journey have you thought about the words we use to identify ourselves and feel that they just don't feel quite right? Are you comfortable with the words you use to identify yourself now or would you rather try on different terms? Do you feel the terms you use could be too confining? What is the underlying issue with the identification we use for our submissive types? Share How would you answer the questions above? Do you identify with Kacie's story? Meditate instead of masturbate… Rule of the day today. It should arouse you.

maruniinii

Budgeting is so important! A broke beta is not useful to anyone. Thanks for mentioning that. Second - I absolutely agree that it is a good idea to try and reduce the chances that we expect anything in return. I have gifted anonymously for a long time, it's really effective, especially with wishlists, including a message thanking her but not leaving a name on the gift! Also, with those who DO know it is coming from me, I send the money with no message, and if they say thanks, I give a polite, short response to show that I am NOT trying to start a conversation and use her time, and instead just wanted to gift her. Ideally, I send money without a message, and they "like" the cashapp notification and that is the only interaction I get, which works really well for me. I try to gift a little to a lot of different women, small enough amounts to not make them uncomfortable, but enough to make their lives a little bit easier, even if it is just paying for a nice pair of boots, or helping with part of the month's rent! The feeling of making her life a little better is honestly great.

Daniel Paul

Today is day 12 of our No Touch Chastity Advent adventure to Christmas. Hey… Can you imagine? We are half way through our mandated no touch chastity advent. Only 12 more days to go. Easy peasy huh? You know… I often ask myself if being submissive means I have to be humble, meek and reserved. It always puzzles me to think that these ideas even exist but my answer to them is always, "no." In fact, I often that one should be engaged in one’s submission, focused on what you love and doing everything in your power to make it the best it can be - because for many of us this is the life we've chosen. Being lazy in life isn't going to get you very far. Plus… Your Crush does’t want a lazy boy as her beta subby. She is NOT your mother! And that goes with being proud. I love that I'm my Crush’s slave. I wear that badge proudly. I love the feeling it gives me when I look at Her and know that my submission to Her works so well and I have everything I ever need.  My submission brings me pride and joy. So for today… this is our activity. (Remember you are encouraged to do this because these activities are an intellectual outlet for our sexual frustrations due to mandated no touch chastity - helping to prove to you… you really don’t need that penis to submit and to serve your Crush. In fact… your Crush doesn’t care about your penis… so why should you???) "You have the right to be proud of what you are. Being a submissive is nothing that should ever bring you shame or feelings of reproach. Your submissive nature is a gift and should always be a source of pride and happiness." - Unknown Today… We are going to tell the world that we are proud submissives/slaves/bottoms/sissy gurls/kitty cats/pets/etc etc.. In however many ways you can tell someone you are a proud submissive today. Here are a few places you can scream it from the rooftops: • Your blog • Twitter • Facebook • Fetlife Update • Tumblr • In a picture uploaded to your photo feed • In a video on YouTube • Through Skype to a friend • In a card • On the phone • (You Ideas) ___________ So did you share? Did you do this activity? Does it make you feel good to be proud of your submission and your choices in life?

Daniel Paul

Today is day 13 of our No Touch Advent in Chastity towards Christmas… Our goal during advent is to share with our beta brothers a way to intellectually deal with our horny frustration from not touching and masturbating our training penis. And to show our Crush we really can tuck it away (or under) and only need it when we have to pee, and that is about it. We are also training to convince ourselves that we don’t need our penis to serve Her. Remember that our FSU training is telling us that at some point… our training penis is going to be totally ignored permanently. So we have to start somewhere and advent helps us get there. This my beta brothers, and riends, is going to be a hard task. But trust me, by the end of it you will have learned something very interesting about yourself so it is worth it! A common saying of old is, "Children should be seen but not heard." In this case it will beta boys (instead of children). I'm going to take a play on that and create a test for all of us. So… Tuck your penis under… It’s Craft Time! You will need: • 2 jingle bells small enough to not get in the way, but loud enough to hear them at your feet. • 2 pieces of yarn or string Tie the bells onto the middle of the string and then tie the string to your ankle. Repeat with other bell. Your goal today is to go about your daily tasks without making a lot of noise. Try it. Learn how to walk carefully and silently. Find out if you fidget or twitch your feet. Learn how to be seen but not heard. So...What did you Learn? Did you learn how to walk quieter? Or perhaps more feminine and sissy like? Did you have to take smaller steps to keep the bell quiet? Did you become more aware of your movements and how you can change them to be more fluid and graceful? Good! That was the point. What else did you learn from this activity? Did you become more docile?

Daniel Paul

Today is day 14 of our No Touch Advent in Chastity towards Christmas… Only ten more days left of this wonderful training! I am afraid… I am afraid that so many of my brother beta boys will not reach their full potential serving their Crush and all Superior Females, because of the fear they will not live up to high expectations or that they will fall into the hands of a Female who can not control them they way THEY need and desire. Or perhaps that fear keeps them from submitting at all, hiding in the shadows unsure of themselves. But I also know that as a beta male myself I can overcome that fear.  Let me share with you an excerpt from "Slavecraft" by Guy Baldwin… "The bliss of surrender in slavery is a wondrous thing- a rare and treasured delight not savored by many. To achieve it, we must approach the temple (in this case of the Superior Female) wherein it awaits those who have prepared themselves for the journey in the spirit of adventure, reverence and courage." "Know this: Submission and Service requires bravery and sacrifice." "If you're not courageous enough to make yourself take risks, then I suggest that you go out and insert yourself into programs designed to help you find your own bravery within yourself. If you are too frightened to proceed toward the realization of your beta male passion, then the acquisition of this courage must be the first part of your preparation for the journey into submission." Think about the fears you currently have about your submission, your role in your current relationship with your Crush or within yourself. What are you fearful of? What keeps you from reaching the depths of surrender and sacrifice that you desire? Perhaps your penis? Your wanting to squirt when our Superiors don’t want us to squirt. It IS after all... our "weakness" Right? Why do you think Guy says that submission requires bravery? How does bravery fit into submission? So let’s share… What are your thoughts on this piece of writing? What fears do you have? Are you brave? How does bravery manifest for a submissive?

Daniel Paul

Today is day 15 of our No Touch Advent in Chastity towards Christmas… Being submissive, we often forget that our needs are important and may even push them aside so that we can focus only on pleasing our Crush and Superior Females. In the hustle and bustle of the holidays even our simple desires are put away for us to overload on gift giving, party throwing, family gathering, and Christmas joy passes. Today we will reclaim what we need and remind ourselves that even though the needs of our Crush is important and a focus for our lives if we don't get our needs met we may lose sight of one of the purposes of the holiday season. Peace in being a submissive beta male. “The paradox is that the needs of our Crushes are not, in fact, superior to the needs of the submissive. Rather, they share equal importance.” – says Kacie Cunningham Make a short list of the needs you have as a submissive. Try to make them as concise as possible. Make sure you list the things you know you are getting now and the things you'd like to have met in the near future. Remember that your needs are what are important today. So instead of masturbating today… It's Craft Time Everyone! Today is a crafting activity day. We are going to make a Needs and Desires Bunting. A bunting is a string of flags or pendants that have meaning or symbolism to whatever theme they all have. So, for example, a celebration of a new baby may have a bunting that is pink and blue and yellow with words and pictures relating to babies. It's hung like streamers over the baby's crib or in the nursery somewhere prominent. What You'll Need: • A piece of string approximately 50 inches • Construction paper in a variety of colors; other options would be fabric squares, scrapbooking paper or even just printer paper • Scissors • Markers, crayons, paints, colored pencils and other art supplies of your choosing • Glue or tape • 2 Thumbtacks Instructions: 1 Cut triangles out of the paper 2 Each triangle will be one need or desire. You can write it out or you can use images and symbols to represent it.  Decorate the triangles to match your decor of a certain room or location or make them stand out. 3 Once they are all decorated, turn them over and fold down the top 1/2 inch. Lay the string down under the flap and then glue the folded flap down. 4 Continue with the remaining bunting squares. 5 Using the 2 thumbtacks hang your bunting somewhere you will see it often. Read each item and remind yourself that you are important too. Seek to have your needs met and remember peace this season when you reclaim your desires. Talk to your Crush about the needs on your bunting that aren't being met and work out how you can make changes to your relationship. Hint… “Your needs” should be focused on “selfless service”. Needs that will help you accomplish selfless service. What do you need to do that? What can your Crush provide you to better selflessly serve HER. Your “needs” do NOT mean you need permission to squirt when you are sexually frustrated to better function as a submissive male. So let’s Share… How did this activity turn out? Did you find needs that are not being met that you can correct today?

Daniel Paul

Today is day 16 of our No Touch Advent in Chastity towards Christmas… This has been all over the internet but it's a great find. Read it and connect to your own submission for today's activity. Contemplate instead of Masturbate. "A Submissive's Prayer" - Author Unknown “Allow me the strength to answer questions I can't fathom. Allow me the spirit to know Her needs. Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts. Allow me the serenity to serve Her in peace. Allow me the love to show Her myself. Allow me the tenderness to comfort Her. Allow me the light to show us the way. Allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Her. Let me be able to show Her each day my love of my service to Her. Let me open myself up to completely belong to Her. Let my eyes show Her the same respect, rather I sit at Her side, or kneel at Her feet. Let me accept my punishment with the grace. Let me learn to please Her, beyond myself. Grant me the power to give myself to Her completely. Grant me the strength to please U/us both. Permit me to love myself in loving Her. Allow me the peace of serving Her. For it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make Her life complete, as She makes mine.” So let’s share… Have you read this poem before? What do you think of it? Do you have a poem of prayer that touches your submissive heart?

Daniel Paul

Today is day 17 of our No Touch Advent in Chastity towards Christmas… Can you believe you have held it in… and without touching this long? This training proves we beta boys CAN do it, and… our training penis is really not that important. It really doesn’t need stimulation to be happily frustrated! And best of all… We are doing this for our Crush. Today we are going to touch on “gratitude”… Showing gratitude is a wonderful way to express to someone that you care for them, and who they are and what they have given to you personally or to the community. Take some time today to say 'thank you' to someone special… perhaps your Crush, or other Superior Female that has helped you in your submissive journey in one way or another. This “thank you” can be an email, text message, phone call or face to face. A few special ways to say thank you would be recording a video and uploading it to YouTube, sharing your moment of gratitude with everyone. Also, take the time to really detail why you are grateful for someone. Don't just stop at 'thank you'. Much like the complement activity you should learn how to give a strong and beautiful thank you. So let’s share… Who are you grateful for in your submissive life? Why?

Dan

I was feeling submissive and wanted to give money to my crush and my Mistress, so i gave her $30.00 on her pay pal. She has not mentioned it and usually thanks me and feels badly if she forgets. I will not remind her this time and hope that she received it and has used it for what she wants.