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the next page's sketch is kind of rough sorry. I had a rough night lol.Read it from the start: Discovering Paradise

The following is just some personal stuff don't read it if you're not into it.

I just want to talk about something personal here for a sec. I sometimes feel absolutely bottom of the barrel lonely. Like I'm destined to never find any connection. Then I spiral and wallow in selfpity for hours, just crying. I don't know if it's because I'm comparing my life to others or if it's just something weird in my brain I can't control. Because I know I have connections with other people, and I have fun and love in my life, but sometimes I still fall into this hole.

I don't want to just regurgitate my thoughts about my horrible attitude. I want anyone who feels like this, too, to know that this thought spiral of "I'm alone and I'll never find friends" is a trap. It's not real, and we all feel like that sometimes. Good things take time.

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Robinstic

I think these feeling of self-doubt are normal to a certain degree, most people will experience something like that every now and again. What helps me break out of these spirals is to really think about some specific instances in which I felt loved, appreciated, cared for, and to just focus on them. The voice inside my head is just trying to punch me down for some reason, it helps me to counter it with evidence from my memories. Just like you said, it's not real, it's a trap. I'm not saying this will (always) help you, but maybe it's something you can try keeping in mind 🧡 Concerning the comic: the expressions you drew here are so amazing aaaa!! These guys are so damn cute oh my gosh x3

Manuargpop's Burrow of stuff

Well, that feeling is actually really common. You'll always doubt yourself and sometimes even wonder if you're doing the right things with the people around you. They love you and are there for you, but sometimes you still get this feeling that's like, "You'll never have a friend!" The way I see it is that it's like having a ghost in your head that's trying to make you feel sad by creating those thoughts. I love all the little details you include!! They're amazing! As always, Bubblegum! 💖

Orsuros

Hmm, are there any triggers that seem to set off these feelings of loneliness? Even if we logically know things aren't true, sometimes our brains can go down old paths and bring up old feelings built during periods of stress or trauma.

Stomak

I often have similar thoughts of not finding close connections myself. I understand where you're coming from. sometimes I wonder if I'll just be alone forever while watching everyone else flourish with relationships...