Home Creators Posts Import Register Favorites Logout

Content

Hello, Brains! The struggle is REAL when it comes to making friends. I decided to open up about my experiences with it while sitting with Caroline Maguire, author of Why Will No One Play With Me.

Check out Caroline's book, Why Will No One Play With Me?: https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/books/why-will-no-one-play-with-me/

Focus and structure are both challenging for those with ADHD. Skylight can help. Go to https://skylightcal.com/HOWTOADHD and use my code HOWTOADHD for 10% off! Thanks, Skylight for sponsoring today’s video!

Files

Getting REAL About the Struggle To Make Friends When You Have ADHD

Focus and structure are both challenging for those with ADHD. Skylight can help. Go to https://skylightcal.com/HOWTOADHD and use my code HOWTOADHD for 10% off! Thanks, Skylight for sponsoring today’s video! Hello, Brains! It's often difficult for a lot of us to make and maintain friends, so I wanted to open up about my experiences with friendships... and get Caroline's take on it! Caroline Maguire has a handy exercise that you can download so you can recognize friendship red flags: https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/friendship-red-flags/ Check out Caroline's book, Why Will No One Play With Me?: https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/books/why-will-no-one-play-with-me/ Socials: @authorcarolinem Website: https://carolinemaguireauthor.com/ Support us on Patreon: http://patreon.com/howtoadhd Buy my book!! https://howtoadhdbook.com Check out our website: https://howtoadhd.com Follow us on all the things: Twitter: http://twitter.com/howtoadhd TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@howtoadhd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtoadhd/ Facebook: http://facebook.com/howtoadhd Our Merch Shop: http://shop.howtoadhd.com Need translations for "Getting real about the struggle to make friends when you have ADHD"? Learn how to turn on auto-translated captions here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/15iLAHI7FPdum964u3n8_RsUb0QTEXc66p-RhTmvjpb8/edit?usp=sharing Music credits: "Life of Riley", "Montauk Point", "The Show Must Be Go” Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/

Comments

Carmen Mitroescu

Everything Caroline said plus… BRAVE & CARING. Putting yourself out there, letting yourself be so genuinely vulnerable in front of millions of people who might judge you is incredibly brave. And it’s all to serve others and help them through their journey. I also overshare and I also interrupt and get so excited about a topic and then I go off on a zillion tangents. But you know what? Allowing myself to be that is what trimmed out the people who did not deserve to be in my life, and made space for the people who love these quirks of mine. And I could do this because you inspired me to let myself be myself, and you taught me how to embrace my ADHD, Jessica. So… I’m grateful to you for being weird and quirky - that just made you soooo relatable to me and made me eager to learn about myself. ♥️

Jill Kadtke

If I had a friend like you growing up, I'd have never known lonliness.

Artemis Zeidman

Coming together in community makes forming friendships and being social so much easier. I struggle to maintain relationships with neurotypicals, but find it comes naturally with other neurodivergents (especially fellow Autistics and ADHDers).

Jennifer Kelly

My god. THANK YOU for this 💜💜💜💜💜

Ladybird

I wish there were small discussion groups lead by a coach or counselor. I really struggle with this and am not really sure what I am doing wrong. I am working on cues, and any outside influences that could impact my interactions with colleagues, but wish I felt more comfortable.

Suzanne Strickland

I think we need some community things where we practice saying positive things about ourselves. The part where you immediately went to the negatives hit hard. Because it is so easy for us to do. We need to strive together to make the positive voice louder than the negative one.

Jill Kadtke

How can I find the How To ADHD group on Discord? I'd love to be a part of that community. Every one of you is a fabulous dream come true.

How to ADHD

» Go to our patreon homepage (patreon.com/howtoadhd) » Click the "Membership" tab that's towards the top » Scroll until you see a section that says "Discord Community" » Click "Connect to Discord" If this still doesn't work... » Select "Settings" in the navigation field to the left » Select the "More" dropdown (next to "Active Memberships") » Click "Connected Apps" » Find Discord, then click "Disconnect" » Give it a moment, it should then change to "Connect", click it! If this doesn’t work then please reach out via DM so we can work to get you in!

Beth L

This one really hit me hard. At 50+ I still don't know how to make friends.