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Follow-up poll for the Shiny Balloon Quote!! Deadline is in a couple hours so please vote

  • THE BEST REVENGE IS TO BE UNLIKE THEY WHO CAUSED HARM. 14
  • HAVING 
COMPASSION 
FOR PEOPLE 
YOU CANNOT STAND 
IS A REVOLUTIONARY ACT  80
  • TO UNDERSTAND THE MONSTER IS NOT TO BECOME ONE 27
  • YOUR LACK OF EMPATHY&COMPASSION IS NOT THE FLEX YOU THINK IT IS  37
  • NOTHING DIES FROM TOO MUCH LOVE 30
  • WE DON’T SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE, WE SEE THEM AS WE ARE 31
  • BECOME THE LIGHTHOUSE YOU NEEDED WHEN YOU WERE ALONE IN THE DARKNESS 110
  • 2025-10-24
  • 329 votes
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Content

Hi all!!

Comin in hot. If you missed the background on all this, catch up here, I posted a poll last night:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/141929044?utm_campaign=postshare_creator

. I am doing a little collab/art project with Michael Schneider aka BLCKSMTH over the weekend and we gotta nail down a final quote for his gorgeous balloons.

Ok, here’s where the last poll left us, and we have EVOLVED!

Mike and I got into a discussion about the “Empathy is Endorsement” quote with Dylan, who said it’s been getting misinterpreted out of the context of their book and TED talk, so he wants to keep it off the hater block. FAIR and glad I checked. By the way, you should listen to both me and Mike’s episode of Dylan’s podcast: “Conversations with People Who Hate Me”.

mine: https://www.dylanmarron.com/podcast/episode-guide/episode-27

mike’s:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-41-balloon-guy/id1257821731?i=1000554190645

……

Ok. So that one’s out.

I chatted with friends, I chatted with Michael McComiskey, I mulled.

This is FUN.

There were some GREAT ideas from the comments in the last post….and I also crafted a new quote, with a lighthouse metaphor, my fave. I love ALL of these

Do your thing.

Here’s the new options.

There’s no wrong answer ….truly

ONE:

THE BEST REVENGE IS TO BE UNLIKE THEY WHO CAUSED HARM. 

-Marcus Aurelius

TWO:

HAVING 
COMPASSION 
FOR PEOPLE 
YOU CANNOT STAND 
IS A REVOLUTIONARY ACT 

THREE:

TO UNDERSTAND THE MONSTER IS NOT TO BECOME ONE 

FOUR:

YOUR LACK
OF EMPATHY AND 
COMPASSION
IS NOT THE FLEX
THAT YOU THINK
IT IS 

FIVE:

NOTHING DIES FROM TOO MUCH LOVE 

-Paul Simon

SIX:

WE DON’T SEE THINGS AS THEY ARE, WE SEE THEM AS WE ARE 

-Anaïs Nin

SEVEN:

BECOME THE LIGHTHOUSE YOU NEEDED WHEN YOU ALONE IN THE  DARKNESS 

Remember how it’s gonna look blown up:

We have a couple hours before we have to get to work!!!!

XA

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Comments

Daisee

*sigh* accidentally hit enter. Trying again. Slight concern with the phrasing of 'having compassion' is the word 'Revolutionary'. Maybe not a good time in America to use that word. And 'Your lack of empathy & compassion'? The problem with that is that almost everyone *does* think they have empathy and compassion- it's just that for the group of people who are currently causing most distress to most people, their empathy and compassion is restricted to a very small group of people who look, sound, and behave like them, and are already in their social circle. But these people genuinely believe that they *are* good people, so they won't get that the message is for them.

Frank

Sorry, The empathy one was the only one I was willing to vote for.

Gaba Kulka

I am super curious why and how "empathy is not endorsement" is out of context or a misinterpretation. I'm genuinely fascinated.

Ashley Benbow

You had an amazing quote from your last tour about grief and I wish I could remember it exactly. It had something to do with what happens when grief is left unchecked inside of you, how it hides in the dark, lifting weights. Even if you don’t want to use it, could you say it again?!

sOne

Some things die from too much love. You have to learn to diversify.

Jen G

I think the lighthouse one resonates more in this community than it would outside of the patreon.

Dahlia

Empathy is everything to everyone.

sOne

I want to change my answer back to the revenge one — it doesn’t get it.