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Dear ones

I hope this message finds you feeling okay wherever you are.

A day of grace, or more. And sorry not sorry. I promised to write my lost-tradition annual survival notes yesterday …. and lo and behold I spent the day just actually surviving.

Down one full oven, four extra accidental teenagers in the house on one hours’ notice before the meal; we wound up with 18 instead of 14 at the table. It worked, but I’m a walking crispy fried brussels sprout of a human.

I’ll be back tomorrow (I hope) with some words that are inside of me, but for right now I have the most softly luminous peace in my heart I’ve had in ages.

We pulled it off.

May you all be full of grace, the deep and actually useful kind. May you have it for me, and for whoever is in your house tonight, and for whoever is in your own self tonight. Whoever shows up.

The news here in the states is just more and more horrific.

The grace, the mercy.

It’s needed more than ever this season.

I am, above all, more indebted to you all than ever before, and I hope you know it, feel it, and understand it when I say that it means the world to me that you’re my patrons and still, after all these years of up-and-down art and up-and-down life, find it in your hearts to support my work and career as a musician and a writer.

I love and appreciate you all so very much.

Thank you.

Xxxx

A

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tess

Beautiful. Happy thanksgiving!

Michael Andrade

Up early after a good day's worth of prep, facilitating, eating, laughing, accepting. Grace was (and is) present. Spent some time mopping up from our great-nephew's dinnertime high-chair performance. At two years old, he's a percussive lad that worked mostly with whipped cream this year. His grandpa snagged a picture (not for public release) that intimates what it may look like later when the lad is learning to shave. Suzy and our nephew worked cullinary magic, casting delicious spells upon the group. As the levels of wine diminished in both bottle and glass, folks remained civil and steady while temperatures fluctuated wildly for the individual. Consensus was not attained on home climate prescription. It never is. But fans and blankets were at the ready. Maybe we ate too much. And maybe we didn't resolve the more pressing issues in our family or neighborhoods with our gathering today. But we made it through with peace. Grace. And gratitude intact. And if any of y'alls wanna drop by, we not only have scrumptious leftovers... The family cookie party is next weekend 😜🍪

Pamela Kirsch

Sending so much love and I hope you bask in the peace you are feeling ❤️

Anna J

Things not going according to plan is a holiday tradition in itself. I recommend the movie Pieces of April if you haven't seen it. It's about how things don't go according to plan on Thanksgiving for one family who is struggling with life in a lot of ways. A sweet movie. It's been many years since I shared a boisterous holiday day with lots of people. My family is stratified since the passing of my paternal grandmother in 2016, who was our rock and unifying matriarch. But it was with no less love and grace that three of us gathered at my mom's apartment, where she prepared a superb feast that tasted just right, and I brought my favorite two dishes to make - cranberry sauce and pumpkin pie from a fresh pumpkin. We reminisced about Thanksgivings from our respective childhoods, spoke other family members into the room, and gave thanks for the love and comfort in our lives. And it was good. And now for one of my favorite parts - coffee and pie for breakfast 😋

JessTCreate

The survival mode is so real... I drove 3+ hours to see my in laws only to have my sis in law mock how quickly we ate vs the full day in the kitchen her mom and I worked to create the meal. 🤦🏽‍♀️ My grace for her is waning and I'm exhausted

Kathryn

This resonates so strongly for me right now. Thank you for the reminder to have grace for myself.

Joanne Sprott

You are totally welcome. And thank YOU for keeping the lighthouse shining.

Fran

Pieces of April is a little gem of a movie - thanks for the reminder, Anna

Scott Meekins

I want to thank my mother for every Thanksgiving dinner each year and the leftovers that follow. Amanda, I hope your festivities were great!