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Good morning loves. Pre-first-sip-of-coffee selfie for ya. Greetings from my house in Bearsville, NY….with an Irish mug.

How are you all doing? Drop me a comment. It’s been a moment.

I’ve been more offline than usual for a while..summer, family, breathing, rebuilding the undercarriage of this here Patreon and gearing up to write new records and books this coming year. Tilling my soul and getting ready for planting. Rest time. Kid time.

I currently gotta house full of grandads and moms and four kids under 9 and I’m just quietly re-assessing my whole life plan while making endless sandwiches and doing endless dishes. I like it. It’s weirdly calming.

I’m simplifying as much as I can in certain departments while digging into the necessary complicated.

This is my first cup of coffee today but not my fucking last. Our little passion community speakeasy/cabaret - Graveside Variety, which is being partly funded by ALL Y’ALL - is opening for community coffee hour today (Sunday Aug 6th) from 9:30-1, I’ll be down there with the kids if you wanna come say hi. 33 Rock City Road, Woodstock. More here: gravesidevariety.com

Bring me a story and bring muffins and baked goods for everyone.

We will make coffee and tea.

Tonight I’ll be at the venue with Lance Horne and co for “Party Around a Piano” (our dorky musical theater piano singalong/karaoke night) and it always fills up, so get a ticket now if you’re coming - 6pm doors 7pm show.

I’m thinking of doing a song from The Greatest Showman….

I love you all a lot.

I’m brewin’ an essay/piece - if I can manage to find writing time this week - about broken and repaired things. I keep wanting to make things and not quite getting there.

I’ve been very slow over there, but it’s cranking back up this fall.

Just a slow, slow, season. But I’m still recovering from so much horror. I’m letting myself off the hook.

This week I get some work time. Got a list of things to do as long as my eyeballs. Along with trying to write and figure out the 2024 year of touring and releases, I gotta schedule some webcasts for you and clean up the Patreon, it’s been messy and it’s time to weed.

There’s a lot to do. But I’m learning - finally - how to also relax and fall into to glorious mess a little bit more. Arms of love all around me. Enjoying that is the key to life. Let the dishes sit.

I’m happy. So much is falling apart and uncertain, but funnily, I don’t mind.


It’s just like that.

More soon.

🌈♥️🌊

I love this shot. This is Ash this morning with his best friend from New Zealand, Aya, and his cousin Alana. Aunt Donna at the fridge. All the generations.



…and that’s Holly and Lisa G at graveside two nights ago, opening up for Joan As Policewoman. I’ll do a big old graveside post later this month. It’s been so so so good.

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And here’s a buncha friends at my house, helping move donated furniture :)

Xxx

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Liz Armanini

I’m doing alright, been better, been worse. I started listening to your book last week and I love that you narrated the audio version yourself!

Drag Queen Jesus

Lol. From the title for a moment I thought you sent me a personal email. Amanda, would you consider writing a letter of support for me? -And

Michael Strobl

Speaking about touring in 2024... if you consider coming to Europe/Austria, is it possible to get in contact for organizing a gig in Bruck near Vienna?

Elizabeth

I'm doing okay. I'm three weeks into my 23rd year of teaching, and I'm very tired. I am teaching 9th graders this year (I volunteered) and so many of them are already lost. I love my job, but I already need a break.

Laura Wellner

Shit be crazy, the world has way too much shit going on, it's tough to sit by and watch or keep track of it all. On my acre of the world, I'm trying to get the house painted in between rainy days, the garden is weedy as can be, it's that time of the summer where I give up on intensive weeding and harvest what needs to be harvested, mow the garden paths, and then collapse on the porch couch in the late afternoon, read a book, and watch butterfly fights and hummingbird wars in the flower beds. Eventually, I tip over and take a nap with the "resident" feral kitty, her purr is medicinal. Art making has been a little back-burner-ish, I'm contently tinkering with small things. I'm writing Substack posts, and photographing finished art projects, and editing poems. Wee donkey and tinier goat are aging, their health issues are stabilizing. Wee donkey looks fabulous, the vet was impressed with how soft her coat is, which is good considering she has Cushing's disease and a typical symptom is a rough and shaggy coat, so my efforts regarding her diet are paying off (yay, flaxseed!) The goat is quite the lay about, taking it easy for the rest of us as her arthritis is setting in, she's on daily pain meds, she is stiff in the morning (I feel her pain, I can relate!) Once she's up, and moving around she's fine, she's eating and drinking well, gives her donkey a head butt to the belly every now and then to piss her off, the donkey pins back her ears and bites her, which is normal friendly playing around. Maintaining the the two old ladies quality of life is a full time job, I'm glad I'm retired so I can spoil them.

EmVT

I’m feeling on top of the world because I pulled a muscle in my back last week, and yesterday was the day it turned the corner from “this is just how it is now” to “I am invincible!” 😃 also feeling the summer fully being its own character and just riding with it. Loving that you decided to put graveside on IG! So happy that it is feeding you, you look so happy! The photo of your library book made me swoon for libraries. Off to find my second espresso and figure out my day, have a good one Woodstock/Graveside crew 💜

Suzanne

Good morning. I'm still in bed with a cat on my feet. I just spent my first full week at home since... April? That's probably right? In that time my husband's kids moved out and my house went to shit, but I wasn't home long enough to pull it back together, although we've been gradually working on it with help from my older daughter. This week being home was wonderful and yesterday my daughter and her boyfriend came over and we finally finished cleaning. We dug out of the boxes and crud and trash and now I have a living room and dining room again and my kitchen is suitable for cooking in. So I made a simple but delicious meal and had my mother in law over, and she said it was one of the best she ever had. I made Greek yogurt in the Instant Pot last night, I'll get to straining that today. Hopefully I can find my cheesecloth.... I have a bunch of fresh fruits and granola etc and may even take it with me for a healthy breakfast while I'm working out of town all week. My ADHD brain is trying to sort out my day, so I am going to go make coffee for myself. Enjoy your time with family and friends. I'd hoped to catch you at Riot Fest but that is not meant to be. So hopefully I'll find another show I can get to, or maybe when I take another vacation we'll just roam out to Graveside and enjoy events there. Anything is possible.

Jessica Demcsak

Good morning! Coffee o’clock for me as well.

Erika Blumberg

I’ve been down but I’m sure tonight will pick me up. Bringing 5 friends!

Anna Bruce

Morning Amanda! Coffee time for sure. So many activities, all sounds so fun and rejuvenating 🖤 Living with joy 👻😻

Dianne Pater

good morning from steamy Savannah. I'm at a conference full of scientists talking about plants, which i love, but is also exhausting. Amanda, I've been wondering if I could maybe do a meet a scientist thing for kids (and anyone else interested) at Graveside sometime? I have friendly activities, could bring microscopes and I have a strawberry DNA activity that is always fun - you can actually SEE the strands of DNA bc strawberries have SO MUCH DNA. It ends up looking like cotton candy. If we want to get really gross, we could pull water out of the stream next to Graveside and look at the creepies crawling around in the water. Just a thought. xo

Pamela Kirsch

Love you so much 🩷🩷🩷🩷. This bra will forever remind me of camp and I think I need one now. Ahhhh love a house filled with love. Leave the dishes, yes! So happy Ash has his pal and you have yours - I spy a lance! 🩵🩵🩵🩵

Michael Murphy

Honestly, with the enactment of the Energy Independence and Security Act of 2007 (EISA) last week, my life has been made a living hell. So many people think, "Oh, we should have should phased out those old inefficient incandescent and halogen bulbs so many years ago." But what they don't realize is that that mentality is all well and good, UNLESS YOU HAVE PHOTOSENSITIVE EPILEPSY, as I do, or, for that matter, are Autistic or have ANY sensory sensitivity disorder, even if you're not on the spectrum, plus CFLs (and now, even more so, LEDs) also affect senior citizens and infants and toddlers. Plus, the intense luminescence of LEDs (from streetlights to overhead lights to smartphone screens) directly prevents everyone (whether mentioned above or not) from getting enough sleep and/or good quality sleep, which has been proven time and again to cause everything from irritability in the morning to cancer long-term. Plus, if we say, "Oh, but it's great for the environment!" that's a lie, too, since the levels of toxicity of the materials that comprise the different types of lightbulbs, from manufacturing to disposal, actually stack up like this, from least toxic to most: 1)Incandescent 2)Halogen 3)Tube Fluorescent 4)Compact Fluorescent Lights 5)LED. But most people actually believe that somehow the order is reversed! What this really amounts to is that I literally cannot go any place indoors unless I've vetted it and/or negotiated with the proprietor first, because the default position is they would already have CFL and/or LED bulbs installed. Restaurants. Box stores. Libraries. Someone else's house. Even my own synagogue -- nowhere is safe except my own house. And what's more, the EISA is in direct violation of the the ADA, because it is a Reasonable Accommodation for stores to change their bulbs back to incandescent and halogen, but as long as they claim that the cost to do so is an Undue Hardship, the lights still remain a Direct Threat for people with disabilities -- i.e. a violation of the ADA (and Rehabilitation Act). Further, ever since CFLs were installed at both the Wayland Town building and High School Field house in 2012, I haven't been able to attend any town department hearings or Annual Town Meetings, meaning this farkakteh law brought about my voter disenfranchisement, violating 3 of my 1st Amendment rights. So, it's not just a violation of health protocols, not just eco-UNfriendly, not just a violation of the ADA, but also unconstitutional. Other than that, no strong feelings.

Tamara

Good morning from the last Sunday of summer break in Florida -- I return to the classroom tomorrow. A lot of thoughts and feelings around this school year, not a little anger and "What fresh hell is this," but trying to not lead with that. It is hard. Going to walk in this heat for a few miles and enjoy the sunshine and my freedom (ha!) a few hours longer. 👩‍🏫

Teresa Toro

My husband had a (justified, TBF) fit last week and removed someone from a board, but really angrily. I've been doing damage control ever since – and even though I'm excellent at it doesn't mean I enjoy it. Nope! I'm stressed out from handling my whip and chair, really exhausted, taking care of a persistent summer flu, and trying to get ready for a couple of upcoming performances I should be excited about but right now just feel like more obligations to make me tired. And of course, Rolf's sister finally died from the cancer that's been eating at her. I know I make that sound like something she's just done to us, right? —in truth, it's a blessing as her pain had started to intensify. He and she had finally gotten to a precarious but okay place in their relationship — cancer brings gifts if you are willing to see and accept them — so at least Rolf has some closure there. I don't have access to a circle of trusted friends any more, and am keenly feeling that absence in this intense time. I am so, so tired from twisting and dancing away from that ever-moving thing called one's breaking point. I got my art in the mail and it was truly a beautiful dose of calming medicine – I am going to hang it in my studio today. Thank you for that, Amanda. I can't wait for the Dresden Dolls shows over Labor Day Weekend, where I can hopefully let loose a little, or a lot!! (Sorry for the unusual whining today lol)

Michelle Driscoll

Thank you for this reminder that the magic is in the mess! I’m resting up so that my spoons are high for the sing-a-long. I’ll be there, cane in hand, because my neuromuscular disease has been raring this summer but it can simmer the duck down so I can come bask in the glow of musical theater sing-a-long medicine tonight!

Nicolai Giedraitis

Winter is more suited to brooding behind a keyboard (the variety attached to a screen)

Vigilant

Good afternoon. I’ve been… working hard, Summer is go time for gasoline delivery drivers— 13-14 hour days. Looking forward to my mon/ Tues “weekend”, and spending some time with kiddo and spouse. Gonna have to take a Saturday/Sunday off and come see Graveside while something’s going on.

Jen

❤️❤️❤️slow is good. Gentleness is good. Trying to remember that myself too. Thank you.

Niki McQueen

" So much is falling apart and uncertain, but funnily, I don’t mind." - I SO hear you. I literally think I've become immune to bad news, or grown enough and learnt to deal with it better. Things will be what they are regardless of how much I worry, so what's the point? I'm tired of contingency planning and predictive texting with my thoughts....they have better things to do. xxx

Julia Mason

Lovely day. I am swamped with work, but it's partially because the AAP is finally listening to my insistent, persistent and consistent requests that they do a systematic review of the evidence, and that got me in the New York Times. So, it's a lot, especially since I was told many months ago that I could provide background information but I could never be actually quoted (in the NYT). The Times, they are a'changing.

Christopher Werner

On the other side of so much falling apart and being uncertain, to paraphrase Anais Nin (thank you, Maria Popova) regarding not doing anything (while on vacation observing nature,) “There is no need to portray, to preserve. It is eternal, it overwhelms you, it is complete.”

Vicki Callanan

I love your newsy posts. I’m glad it’s been a gentle time. I’ve been at Elodin’s fifth birthday party - lots of rainbows and unicorns and kids on bouncy castles. So much fun. Sending love 💗

Emilly Orr

Wau. How am I doing. "Not well" is the short version, and the longer version still isn't that long, because...we can't figure out the why beyond the bulk of it. 344 days ago, I developed what reads for all the world as a tension headache--save, they go away when the tension around the skull is removed? And this...hasn't. But that was just the start of fun things. Since then, I've been diagnosed with gluten intolerance, had my legs basically stop working off and on, and now the left arm's pretty much just hanging off my shoulder. It's so much fun. I've been given four MRIs, have added in three more specialists to my rotating panel of docs, been removed from several medications because they feared kidney failure....It's a whirlwind of joy. 10/10, do not recommend. I am very good to hear you're in good spirits, though, and yay for all the generations mingling! That's very neat.

Jenna Bruner

*sigh* Recently moved our lives 2500 miles to help care for my parents. My 90yo mother is a huge music lover, has speakers outside so she can listen to her jazz and whatever other "tiny records" she finds at the local thrift shop. She recently discovered Norah Jones. Beautiful. We listened to some "others you may like" music on YouTube and Cat Power came on. Beautiful. I was like oh oh...Amanda Palmer, The Ride!! I find the video (a live session) and she immediately starts talking over it, then criticizing it. I lost my cool, turn it off, tossed the remote into the couch. She said "oh thank you for turning that off!" I stormed out. Came into my tiny house, cried and came to Patreon to find Amanda. 💕 She never fails me. YOU never fail me. I'll go in and apologize for storming out, but I will not apologize for feeling disrespected about music I love. I just have to remind myself that she is 90, and as much as I'd love to think she knows better, I don't think she cares.

Lynn Goodman

It's a weird time here. I have all these unfinished projects in various states of completion, and nothing ever seems to get done. I mean, I wrote an entire book, but it's been sitting there for several years now, patiently waiting for me to revise it. And about a month ago, I learned why: I was diagnosed with ADHD. This is great to know, and I should have some help with that this week. But...it maybe could have taken less than, oh, half a century or so to figure it out? So today I'm sitting here, surrounded by chaos and pieces of dreams, utterly overwhelmed at the mere idea of attempting to impose some semblance of order.

DebbieG

Glad you are taking things more slowly and as they come. I wish I lived in Woodstock so I could be a regular at GV. Things are stressy and a bit scary, I'm buying the building I live in from my friend's estate. So my downstairs neighbors will becone my tenants. More responsibility is a bit scary. I know it will be ok in the end...saw a cardinal in front of the door the other day; hopping towards the building. my friend who also saw it thinks it's my departed friend telling me it will all be ok. Otherwise I saw some good friends yesterday and seeing more this week. Music is healing. ❤️

Robert Williams

No friends ever came to help move furniture for us ☹️ But as most of our friends are other military families they were all busy moving at the same time 🤪 Glad that is done now we’re retired. and we’ve given away all our extra furniture now 😁

Amanda Eckert

Oooh what song from The Greatest Showman? I’m hoping it’s Never Enough cuz it’s the best

Paula Nicholson-McKay

My mum passed away about 48 hours ago and I'm struggling so much. My heart is broken 💔 I don't really know why I came here to comment with that, it just felt like a good place to do so. X

Lynn Parlett

Hello back at you my lovely! I'm currently in BC Canada visiting my parents (89 and 91)- which is a novel in itself. I closed the shop on June 24th in Tasmania and spent a 10 days stocktaking, packing, moving, taking stuff to auction or storing it or donating it. Spent a week sorting the stuff I'd had to just pile up at home because I had to be out of the shop. Spent a week preparing for a festival. Did the festival. Got ready for an overseas trip and flew out exactly one month from the final trading day. I'm a bit dazed and confused (coffee is my saviour). Also excited about next steps. Oh how I wish I could add a couple of days to my trip and drop into Graveside - but I'm not flying that way around the world. Keep on doing all the things, hugs to all. Big love!

Kelly Goodwin

Added the death of the artist to my holds list at the library…. spoiler alert: artists will never die!

Becky Irvine

Hi! We miss you in the southern hemisphere x

holly

i’m easing back into a more regular routine after taking 3 weeks away from home, for a family vacation in utah visiting all the cousins & extended family on my partner’s side. but the last week we were there i took an emergency trip to missouri to my folks, to support them because dad had a heart attack. between the travel, the stress, the lack of sleep, the too much coffee, i’m just exhausted. and glad to be finally home, glad that my kiddo has a wonderful wilderness summer camp this week & next. glad to have quiet time at home with my partner. glad to be back in my kitchen cooking. glad to be back in the yoga studio teaching. grateful & exhausted in equal measure. sending some of the gratitude to you! 💞

Jenny Hippensteal

I’m not functioning so well at all to be honest. Upset that I haven’t even had the energy really to keep up with your amazing self and everything you do. I just got the print in the mail and I love every single little thing about it. You take the time to take care of us. 🖤 Just kind of taking everything a day at a time, trying desperately to find an appropriate place to live when my lease is up in January…bullet came through my living room window and is lodged in my wall. Random man allegedly relieving himself behind my apt building the next day…in broad daylight. I’m sure he isn’t mentally stable and that also makes me sad because maybe he can’t get the care he needs for one reason or another. There’s more but I don’t want to ramble on too long. Waiting to see my best friend James from PA and head to Woodstock to see you perform again 🖤 it’s helping me keep my shit together. Sending you all the hugs that I have. 🖤🖤🖤

Leah Ben Ari

I wish I could help with your house cleaning, donating and general clearing of energy and spaces — I’m doing same on west coast, and getting pretty good at it 🌻