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For this week's video, I did something different: I recorded a conversation between me and my friend Andy Polaine, a leadership coach, about what happens when productivity gets toxic and turns into burnout. Some of you may recognize him from the interview with the Obsidian CEO or from the video about taking notes for RPGs in Obsidian.

Burnout has been on my mind of late because I've been dangerously on the edge of it for the last two months due to some travel for work-related conferences during which I delivered four talks on three continents. During that time, I still released 18 shorts, 11 livestreams, and 8 videos on this channel and on others-- while continuing to join meetings at odd hours due to timezone differences. It was a lot, and it made me really want to open up about the reality of producing at a high level. It's not always a good idea, even if you can physically do it for a short time.

So if you've been wondering why I've been more unresponsive than usual to messages on Patreon, Discord, YouTube, and Mastodon, that's why. Please bear with me as I ramp up again and attempt to fall back into routines.

Some takeaways from the video with Andy:

  • We usually go through burnout as a result of increased communication channels, doing more work than we used to for sustained periods, struggling with the workload, and being unable to say anything to anyone about it.
  • More people than you might suspect are struggling with burnout.
  • One of the hallmarks of burnout is the feeling of being chronically depleted of energy to such an extent that a short respite, like a weekend, doesn't make a difference.
  • Some ways to tackle overload in software systems can be used to tackle overload (burnout) in humans, too, like the Circuit Breaker Pattern.
  • When you're in a state of burnout, or close to it, it's doubly important to set up lines of defenses against the flow of more work, such as by defending your calendar and setting boundaries for meetings.
  • You can turn being bad at answering emails into a good thing. Andy used a vacation auto-responder even when he wasn't on vacation as a way to stem the tide.
  • The Three-Column Filter (Must Have, Nice to Have, Never Have) can be a helpful tool in determining whether a certain bit of work is worth doing.

Note: This video will be unlisted until Friday, when I have to mark it as private shortly before it is published for everyone to see. If you try to watch it and get a "Private video" error, you've probably caught it in that small window. Wait a few hours and try again-- it will be published shortly.

Stuff you may have missed from the last month

Here are some things that went out in June that you might have missed (because I didn't )

  • Here's a video on Espanso, my new favourite text replacement tool. It's opensource, and has completely replaced the tool I was previously using, Text Expander. You can copy my Espanso config here.
  • I did a Patreon-only sneak peak of an early build of some upcoming frontmatter changes in Obsidian.
  • One of my talks last month was about how I use Obsidian for work. I recorded my rehearsal video, including my attempt to play on the Continuous Integration/Continuous Development loop in software development for PKM: continuous note-taking.
  • I started a sort of "Obsidian Tour" series that I plan to do every year, and the first two videos in that have released:Here's the video showing the different ways I structure my Obsidian vault
    Here's me talking about every single community plugin I've got installed right now (all 46 of them)

Project updates

  • nvdh-vaultAdded a new workflow called Adding modified date to a note, which includes a script that adds a link to today's daily note in the date in-line field of a note. I have this hotkeyed and use it whenever I modify a note, so that I can see by looking at a daily note what I was working on. If you just want the code, here's the gist for the script.

To access these vaults, check out this list of Patreon perks-- they'll always have the most updated links and passwords for the vaults.

Have a great week ahead, everyone-- hopefully one with more meaning than meetings.

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When productivity gets toxic, with Andy Polaine

We usually see productivity as a positive thing, but what happens when productivity gets toxic? According to Andy Polaine, design leadership coach, burnout can occur when you've been doing more than you used to, struggling with the work, and feeling like you can't say anything to anyone. In this video, Andy shares some tips for setting up boundaries to create mental space and defending your calendar against external pressures. // ANDY POLAINE Andy's website: https://polaine.com Andy's podcast, Power of Ten: https://www.polaine.com/tags/power-of-ten/ Andy's newsletter, Doctor's Note: https://newsletter.polaine.com/ Andy's upcoming book, The Design Leadership Dip: http://pln.me/dip-book // RESOURCES MENTIONED Andy Polaine - The Design Leadership Dip: https://www.polaine.com/2020/04/the-design-leadership-dip/ 43 Folders and Merlin Mann: https://www.43folders.com/about Engadget - Elon Musk Claims Twitter's new login requirement is a 'temporary' response to data scrapers: https://www.engadget.com/elon-musk-claims-twitters-new-login-requirement-is-a-temporary-response-to-data-scrapers-160041528.html Andy Polaine - Your time is a non-renewable resource: https://www.polaine.com/2021/03/your-time-is-a-non-renewable-resource/ Cal Newport - Ep.248: Decoding Overload: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EoWlWIUJyPQ Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski - Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle: https://amzn.to/3prcA1c Andy Polaine - Finding the Shape of You: https://www.polaine.com/2020/08/finding-the-shape-of-you/ Jorge Arango - The Informed Life (with Nicole van der Hoeven): https://theinformed.life/2023/03/26/episode-110-nicole-van-der-hoeven/ // TIMESTAMPS 00:00:00 Intro 00:01:13 What is design leadership coaching? 00:03:41 Why are so many people getting burnt out? 00:07:08 How do you know you're burnt out? 00:09:03 The Circuit Breaker Pattern (feat. Twitter) 00:13:54 Setting up boundaries that create space 00:20:23 Defending your calendar and quantifying overhead 00:30:23 The Three-Column Filter and dealing with your own greed 00:40:54 What does not-work look like? 00:43:59 Completing the stress cycle and figuring out the Shape of Me 00:47:46 Andy's book - the Design Leadership Dip --- // ABOUT ME Site: https://nicolevanderhoeven.com Mastodon: https://pkm.social/@nicole My travel YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/c/luckydippers k6 YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/k6test // APPS I USE - Obsidian: https://obsidian.md - Readwise: https://readwise.io/nicole - Shortform: https://shortform.com/nicole - Reclaim: https://reclaim.ai/r/s/yYOqK // GEAR https://nicolevanderhoeven.com/gear/ // WANT TO SUPPORT ME? ❤️ Join my Patreon and get my sample vault with templates: https://patreon.com/nicolevdh ☕ Buy me a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/nicolevdh Note: Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means I may get a small percentage when you sign up using those links. To see how I decide what to promote in this way, check out my Ethics Statement: https://nicolevanderhoeven.com/ethics/

Comments

Jamie Sutanto

Thanks for everything that you do, and take care of yourself! Reading The Good Enough Job and the mindset shift has helped heaps!

Soti Coker

So glad I watched this video. Some great tips & a reminder to us all that burnout can creep up on us bit by bit.