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What is your biggest turn off? (Patreon)

Published:
2022-01-30 22:01:00
Edited:
2022-01-30 22:46:04
Imported:
2026-06
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Poll

What is your biggest turn off?

  • Lack of intelligence 526
  • Lack of confidence 185
  • Too arrogant/self-involved 731
  • Personal Hygiene/Poor Grooming 1004
  • House/Flat Cleanliness 165
  • Inability to get along with family and friends 259
  • Doesn't like pets 284
  • Doesn't like kids 187
  • Lack of ambition 279
  • Too much focus on sex/hooking up 332
  • Too little focus on improving sex life 168
  • Too focused on an ex 560
  • Takes too many drugs/alcohol 499
  • Smoking 249
  • Too chauvinistic 194
  • Height compatability issues 66
  • Other (comment below) 32
  • 2022-01-30
  • 5720 votes
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Content

Hey, hey, heyGot a banger of a question today...What is your biggest turn off about a potential or actual partner? If it isn't listed, drop it down in the comments!X

Comments

reagan

lack of confidence is a HUGE one omg, it’s rough dating someone who’s super insecure

Hauseofjenn

Lies. I can’t abide lies.

christine t

A lack of trust, I hate liars. Also, I’m tall, and a big girl, I want a man that can handle me and keep me out of my head. If I doubt you, I can’t let myself go and enjoy.

Maria xoxo

Liars and people who don’t believe in science or common sense if I see a certain flag or hat I will walk away no matter how hot the guy is

Lizzynemo

Being rude to food service/retail workers and being too cheap to tip.

Chlo

For me personally, someone who goes out every night and the only thing they want to do is get drunk or high. Also, if they don't support/understand what I feel are fundamental rights

Ophelirosa

Even if I just want to hook up with a guy, I’m put off by feigned confidence and the desire to trick me into having sex

Alexis Fire - The Flyest Spy

Anyone who says LOTR is lame… I don’t need that negativity in my life. Oh, anyone who pretentious, selfish, and opportunist can kicks rocks too!

Jinx mai

If the man not clean his not for me Thats is...

bena_babe

If a man is rude to waiters or service industry workers and in-line with that a lousy tipper.

Pam

All of the above? Just an asshole in general. It's not hard to be nice.

Bibi

My guy gets really, really loud when he's on the phone. I mean, he is fantastic in almost every way, and we've had a solid thing going for awhile. This loudness thing is a kicker, though. I've begged - which he loves, btw - but goes right back to practically bellowing to his long-distance friends. Every night! I guess it comes down to the fact that I feel disrespected. I do demand me some respect!

Ayanno Tsu

Almost all of the above for me really

pretty_breezy

Ignorance. Or like choosing to remain ignorant when knowledge is so accessible. In social issues and everything. And lack of compassion and empathy. It's gross and leaves me dry af 🙃

Sweet Ree Leese

A disrespectful man (or woman) that doesn't keep their word. No lust without trust 😋

Seven

"No lust without trust." That is genius.

Kaleyha

A guy who can’t respect nor handle my emotions and boundaries is a huge problem. Of course this goes both ways! But if a guy expects me to respect his feelings and boundaries, I will expect him to respect mine.

Lia

this one 😩😩😩 I stopped talking to the last guy i was talking with cuz every other thing he said was tone deaf...not only that but he always gave himself excuses to be ignorant 🏃🏽‍♀️ 🏃🏽‍♀️

Gracie

This poll reminded me of my first time dating. Went to restaurant for our first date and the funny thing was he never asked questions to me yet I had to ask him lot of questions. I deleted his number after he asked for another date. Ooops thank you next!

LIZZIE

when my partner expects too much of me; he always wanted to talk and if I ignored him because I was busy, he got offended.

Reddish

Lack of communication

Barbara

No sense of humor, or having humor based in cruelty. Cruelty in general, actually.

Seven

Lack of emotional intelligence and lack of communication. For me, absolutely everything suffers without these.

Seven

P.S. I'm also calling out anyone who isn't a fully grown adult. Anyone who is looking for someone to be his woman and his mom.

Hauseofjenn

Yo! That needs to be a shirt!

Sweet Ree Leese

Sharing is caring so feel free. Calling on the artist to work your magic.

sakurachan620

this, for sure. i dated this guy x.x

MarvelMayhem

Manky teeth...the biggest turn off

Alexssi

I hate men that feel superior than anyone else in the room

Prettygirl_20

My biggest turnoff is when something goes wrong in the relationship and they are blaming you for everything, talking down to you, make you feel like a garbage person. That.

meduse

lack of appreciation

LadyAnime

Overconfidence so much that they won’t have any empathy or compassion or interest in others. It’s a two way street. Liars too

Dahlia Weinstein

There should be an option to check “ALL of the Above!” (Except for “Doesn’t like Kids.” I don’t like kids either. Lol!)

lovey

this is in there but i hate it so much when people are so focused on having sex, it grosses me out like, is that all you want ?? my ex was like that (EVEN AFTER I TOLD HIM I WASNT READY) and i couldn’t stand him after 1month so i left

lovey

everyone should have this but i hate it when they can’t take no for an answer. If i tell you no the first time, stop/get off me. Trauma😍😍😍

sakurachan620

i am the same, i can't even think about sex until i have really strong romantic feelings for someone and feel like i know them really well and trust them. i can get into some of these audios with strangers etc because they're super hot lol but would not be great irl

lovey

yup! exactly, these things are technically by myself so i don’t feel uncomfortable. I have to trust them a lot in order to start having a sex life with them. i can get uncomfortable so easily which sucks

Kezia Bottomley

All of the above except “doesn’t like kids”

Bombshellboss

Doesn’t know his way around a woman’s body

MayRose

Isn't willing to be open and communicate what they want or like. Or judges you for the kinky things you want in bed.