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A Somber Update... (Patreon)

Published:
2023-11-28 16:50:04
Imported:
2026-06

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I'm not quitting so don't worry about that but I'm going through probably the toughest moment of my life so far. My girlfriend and I are breaking up, I won't get into details about why but it's not a black and white issue but a grey issue regarding our futures. They aren't adding up in our eyes and it's what causing us to break up. I've been with her for over 3 years now and done many spectacular things with her such as traveling the U.S. and going to Japan with her. She is my best friend and I still love her so much. I know she says the same to me. It's making things even tougher. Whenever I try to do anything in my life right now, I'm distracted by the fact that things are over. Someone I spent 3 years of my life living with, and just like that it's gone. I'm not sure where I'll be staying at in the next couple of days. I have a buddy I'll be living with soon but unsure what my plans are till then. To say my work schedule will be unstable is an understatement. I tried working more on Furina, but it just makes me more and more depressed. I know things won't always be this way, but for the moment they are. 

I just want to apologize to all my patrons due to not being able to upload the promised content in time, I'm sure December might be similar as I can't find the motivation to do anything. I haven't had the motivation to eat anything, but I'm going to force myself. I will come back a stronger person than I am now, but today... today I am at my weakest.

Thanks for being my patrons...

-Soxxie

Comments

jdog1089

Bro please do not rush through healing. While we all love your art, this linenof work doesn't exactly demand urgency lol. Please, be safe, focus on yourself

DekodiasSuS

Ofc we understand, take the time u need and take care <3

Zzy17

Don't ever forget your mental health and well-being are the most important! All we have been through shitty things (that's life!). But you can be damn sure, everything is going to get better eventually! Un fuerte abrazo desde México. Please, take care!

Peter McFadden

Hey man, I know the feeling. Same thing happened to me, only difference was her and I spent 4.5 years together and then she cheated on me and dumped me for the same reason. It’ll be ok, yeah it’s gonna suck it really will there’s no sugar coating it but it’ll pass. Take some time to organize yourself and process what happened then find a distraction whether it be work, a hobby, traveling, etc it won’t erase what happened but it’ll make it easier to move on. Hell who am I kidding there’s no moving on I still think about my ex despite being cheated on. Loved that women to death, as of Friday it’ll be 11 months since we broke up. I still think about her and always will but unfortunately sometimes truly loving someone means letting them go. It will get easier as time passes, it’ll seem like the end of the world for a bit but it will get easier to cope with. Thought I was going to die alone since her and I broke up but I got my first date this Saturday since her and I ended. Take some time to heal and recoup and come back with a fire under your ass. Use this time to work on yourself and really spend time bettering yourself (not that anything is wrong with you, there’s always room for self improvement and focus) you won’t want to forget but the best course is to push yourself forward onto better things. Don’t be like me and get sucked into sad boy Instagram algorithm. Stay off social media and enjoy your life. Thank her for all she’s done, and cherish your memories together. I really do get it. My ex was a chapter in my life I never wanted to end but sadly it had to. Being single ain’t all that bad, sure it’s lonely sometimes but you really are free. I know if her and I never ended I wouldn’t have accomplished a lot of the stuff I now have. I used this time to really grind myself and better myself. I focused on work and really started to save up money for the things I wanted but couldn’t do while in a relationship (for me that was buying a motorcycle lmao) unfortunately for me I happen to work nights so I don’t have a social life nor many friends but it seems like you got yourself a really good friend there, spend time with him, I know he’ll help you get through this. Good luck man, if I can do it you can! Looking forward to your return, I may sound old with all this advice but I just turned 24 on 17th so I really do get the struggle. For real though men’s mental health awareness fucking sucks (pardon the language). It’s a joke to everyone, please please please don’t think lightly of yours even though others will dismiss it. Don’t be afraid to talk to your friend or go to him when things get rough. He sounds like a really good friend and that he’ll be there to support you. If things get rough talk to him, ask him for a hug, hell even if you just need to cry and let it all out to someone. That bullshit about not being able to open up to your friends and family is crap. I wish I would’ve but I stayed quiet and suffered in silence due to the fear of losing my friend over me being vulnerable and “pathetic”. It’s not pathetic, you don’t have to be a macho manly man. Life sucks sometimes and there’s nothing wrong with being emotional as much as society likes to frown on men being emotional. With that in mind though don’t use this as an excuse to mope around, be depressed and seek pity. Use this as an opportunity for self improvement and reflection. As with all things in life this will pass, try not to dwell on it and live in the past. You got this bro❤️ ps fuck all this shit man we can wait and so can the horniness! Don’t worry about pushing out content unless it’s something that will truly help you move on you as a person is more important than your content.

Soxxie Joy

If I could give you a hug right now I would, thank you so much for your comment. I have some really good friends, and some really good patrons it seems. We both got this, good luck to you too bro!

Peter McFadden

Of course man and thank you! Keep your head up, we will get through it you’re right! If you ever need to vent or feel like you can’t open up to your friends you always got us here, we love you, support you fully and want the best for you!

Luke Smith (edited)

Comment edits

2026-11-04 15:00 Gosh, man, I'm so sorry for you. I've never been in a relationship with someone myself, but I hate reading about people I care about in pain. Take some time off online and get a healthy hobby, then come back on, stronger than ever! I believe in you.
2023-12-01 05:12

Soxxie Joy

I'm doing better today, and I know I'll be okay at the end of all this. Thanks for looking out for me, I'm going to continue to work on myself as a person. Again, thank you❤️

Light_Wz

Sorry to hear about your breakup man... Be sure to take care of yourself mentally for sure, that's always more important!