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So I recorded next months patreon set, as well as a BTS/Birthday video where I do the usual, get ready, set up, chat a bit.

But one thing I talk about is the creepy messages we get, and I read some out as an example. 

Now we're all about openness here! We will never shame you for your kinks, and I even made a point to mention that. BUT I'm worried I came off a little mean 😂

I don't name names, I don't call out anyone who actually follows/supports me, they're all just random one off messages I've received that have crossed a line in one way or another, and I just joke about that - but I'm worried it's not in the spirit of our account...

What do you guys think? 

Do you wanna see me roast some of the weird messages we've gotten?

Or do you think I should just keep things lighthearted?

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Adrian K

I want to see you roast them, and it's not even really about them. I've actually found it really helpful when creators share the messages that creep them out, because I get to see that they don't look like mine. When you're nervous about having a kink it's easy to think it's a poison that will make any message weird, no matter how you word it. But then you see *actual* disgusting messages, often about non-kinky stuff, and it can be a reminder that being respectful is so much more important than being some impossible idea of "normal". I think it's never "just plain mean" to call out these behaviours. It alerts others that it's happening, it provides a guide of what *not* to do, and it gives assurance to the people who are trying not to be creepy and upsetting. I also want to see it because you wanted to talk about it. I'd always rather hear you vent than hold back.

Stefan

Lighthearted please ))

Lizzy Peck

Yeah, I’d love to see the no name messages that you get…for comparison and contrast purposes of course, not to see if things I think match what they say… ;p

epic__beard

I'm with Adrian. A little roasting would be good - it is appropriate BTS content. You've already shared with us some shady behavior by past employers in BTS videos. Keep on being real in BTS - that what I lvoe about them. Maybe just maybe, it would dissuade a few future creepy comments too.