Step-Parent Adoption (Patreon)

So we were finally going to get the papers notarized so my husband can adopt my daughter, and get her name and gender marker changed. The town clerk said they don't notarize for 14 yr olds!!!! I'm so angry and lost now. Everywhere else is like $100+ to notarize! But that's probably our only option, and I hate when stuff doesn't work out how I've planned it and throws these random curveballs. Ugh. Just needed to vent as I'm having a rough week with everything going on...