Relationships: Maybe we HAVE to go through the bad ones. (Patreon)

A theory: Maybe the reason absolutely no one listens when you warn them about a potential significant other being bad news for them...including us when we were younger and warned...is because Kabbalistically and karmically, we know on a soul level that we have to go into the situation, that there's some kind of a contract there, where we need to learn the lesson that is coming out way, or we cannot grow. Our vessel won't expand, we won't fix karma. This is never limited to "dumb people." We all know extremely intelligent people who have entered into toxic relationships that are so obvious to everyone around them, despite knowing and despite warnings. I think relationships of all kinds are the biggest ways in which we change, with romantic relationships the quickest, as they are often reflections for us. We tend to listen to "don't touch the hot stove!!!" advice in other areas, but not with relationships. So, maybe there's a reason that's beyond our immediate understanding.Really, everything is a mirror. We get back what we put out.That's why when we are at a low vibration, we attract low vibe people... And when we raise that vibration and are happy, we attract higher-quality friends and mates.

Just thoughts.