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Disord Lurkers: How would you feel about a special night with me on mic, and you can interact with/introduce yourself to me and we can chat for 2 hours without the regulars/more active members there to disrupt us? P.S. The non-lurkers know who they are lol. If you are on the fence, round yourself up to lurker and join~ (Patreon)

Published:
2020-11-18 08:50:21
Imported:
2026-06

Poll

Disord Lurkers: How would you feel about a special night with me on mic, and you can interact with/introduce yourself to me and we can chat for 2 hours without the regulars/more active members there to disrupt us?

  • I'm a lurker and would enjoy an event like this to interact with Tom 179
  • I'm a lurker and would enjoy attending but might still not interact 85
  • I'm a lurker and I'm undecided 11
  • I'm a lurker and would not be interested in this event 2
  • I'M A CRAZY DISCORD REGULAR MAKING AND I SUPPORT THIS FOR OUR LURKER BROTHERS & SISTERS! 41
  • 2020-11-18
  • multiple choice
  • 318 votes
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Content

I don't know how many of you lurk simply because you do not want to interact with me or anyone, but for those of you who are just too shy to jump into the existing conversations and might want to chat with me, I am very interested in getting to know all of you who I have yet to get to meet. No regulars would attend or even be able to see the channel we'd be in. Let me know if this is a thing you'd be interested in.

Comments

Sesshomaru_

Did Tom just call me crazy ?

yoyo9er

wellllll guess i won’t be a ghost anymore.....😳😐

Sabina

Tom this is such a great and lovely idea!! It makes me so happy that there's something for people who are too shy to interact❤️

She_wears_shadows

Great idea, also for all the newer people like me. 😊

Melanie Maie

I love this idea 🥰 thank you ❤️

Peewee

Where do those of us who you maybe have seen and occasionally participate fit in? Or is this strictly for those who don’t participate at all?

Tombanter
>>47929864

The non-lurkers know who they are lol. If you are questioning where you land, round up to lurker and participate. This is so i can have a little ramble with those of you I don't see almost every day

Tombanter
>>47929498

I see you in event channels but never part of the discussion. If you'd like to participate, this would be appropriate

Jen

omg do I get to finally confess my undying love of syndey to you 😩😩

Ayana

I’m more on the lurker side I want to join in on the conversations but I get too nervous or idk what people are talking about soooo heck yea I’m in 🤍💛

Katie Miller

I talk to the other discord people but when you're working or discussing with the others I stay back. I feel like I'm interrupting and would love to get out of my shell more

leigh.olivia

i’m definitely a lurker lol. it’s a really good idea cuz i feel like i don’t really fit in with the regulars on discord. i’d love to get to know you and for you to get to know me but mostly i’d love to talk to you !!

LouBengal

crazy regular here to say this is a GREAT idea

verylemon

I’m lurking because I’m in a lot of other servers and I just do not see where I fit in here at all lmao.

Berne

Okay I’ll take off my invisibility cloak 🤣

Rosie94

Follow others on here but first ever comment on any of them but I think it's a good idea for someone who is socially awkward in any situation including online interaction, since finding Tom my confidence as had a boost (although I did have some conference) sorry if this was a little long, (I was nervous) also I'm in AEST time that changes to AEDT Also live with other people in a open house

Brooklyn

Oh yes pls. I would love to

Juanita

Do I count as a lurker? I’m there but I’m not sometimes.

Jamie

Idk if I count as a lurker..... I do interact but not to a point where I consider myself a regular(?) And I usually do so if I have an opportunity or if there isn't a huge crowd

shea

I think this is a great idea! As someone who will basically eavesdrop (???) but not really talk, this seems very approachable. I think it can be hard because a lot of people have already made quite tight knit friend groups, so being a quieter/less pronounced person can feel limiting. I can’t promise i’d talk bc you definitely intimidate me a bit, but it’s a really sweet thing to even think of !!

Ivy Ironwood

I would love this, honestly. I set up discord pretty much to hang out and get to know others in the asmr/adult audio community, and I have to be honest that I am overwhelmed in Banterland, there's just so many channels, so many conversations, so many People... this would be much appreciated

Sleepy all the time like aizawa

I used to be more active within like the first week but as more people joined, Banterville started to feel overwhelming for me

Tombanter
>>47940029

well i certainly hope i don't intimidate you (at least not so much from my end)! hopefully you can learn to be comfortable chatting or saying hi :)

Ken ♡

I wouldn't say that I'm new to the server anymore but I definitely am a lurker. The only times I really interact are for movies. That's mainly because I don't have a lot of time to be active in chats all the time plus I feel like I'm intruding on people's conversations if I do talk 😅 so I think this would be a good thing to do!

Ralph

This is awesome.

Jan Brady

My smile is so wide right now. This is one of the kindest ideas! Hoping good times are soon to be had 💜

Josie

i’ll stay lurking 🙄❤️ i’m scared of humans

dangerfloof

Would be lovely! And second what Polly said above! Also I may not talk bc you... maybe intimidate isn’t the wrong word but something like that...